When the opposite sex gets along, many people think that what attracts each other is the external appearance of each other. Only if you are beautiful or handsome enough, then there will be many boys or girls swarming, but the truth is that this is true. ? In fact, when we observe carefully, we will find that appearance is not as important as everyone thinks.
Because everyone is unique, there are no two people who are exactly the same. Even twins who look alike will show different external characteristics because of their different personalities.
Therefore, appearance is not the main reason for men and women to pay attention to the opposite sex, so what is the most concerned about the opposite sex? Especially in the eyes of boys, what kind of girl is the most attractive girl? The answer is that girls who are good at discovering their own charm are the most attractive girls in the eyes of boys.
Getting along with the opposite sex, men care about, it may be a woman who is good at discovering her own "charm"
Women have a variety of styles and charms
"There are no two leaves in the world". Therefore, every girl has the charm It is unique and full of personal characteristics, which corresponds to the word "Various amorous feelings".
And the "style" of a girl is not absolutely related to her appearance. An ordinary girl can also have a unique style, and the "style" of a girl is not innate, to a large extent, The "styles" of girls are all cultivated, they are the embodiment of girls' unique wisdom, and the inner manifestation of girls.
We can't say with certainty that a girl is not beautiful. The appearance is only a bonus item of the girl's charm, not an absolute factor. The girl's charm is more reflected in the girl's wisdom and inner aspects.
A woman who is good at discovering her own charm and showing it in front of men makes men care more, because she has the capital to attract men
Although girls have millions of charms, every girl has its own unique beauty, but why Do girls still care about more appearance? This is because not every girl has a good show of her charm.
In the past, we always said that "the fragrance of wine is not afraid of the depth of the alley", which led to many girls not knowing how to tap their charms, but waiting to be discovered. The consequence is that girls rarely take the initiative, lack self-confidence, and gradually lose their own. charm.
Now people's thinking has gradually improved. "The smell of wine is also afraid of the deep alleys." More and more girls are beginning to pay attention to themselves, becoming self-esteem, self-love, self-confidence and generous, and this is how "amorous" girls Charm will naturally attract more and more boys' attention.
Many girls have their own charms, but they don't understand self-expression. Naturally, they can't achieve the purpose of attracting boys. Like many times, publicity is often more important than their own strength.
It’s not that men don’t like you, but the unique charm you didn’t let men discover.
may be a beautiful vase. At the beginning, it can indeed attract the attention of boys, but want to make boys look at the vase for a long time. , This is undoubtedly unrealistic, because there will always be something more beautiful and eye-catching than a vase.
Therefore, for boys, the advantages of appearance are really just advantages, not the charm of girls. The real charm of girls is that they can make people linger, reluctant, inspire possessiveness, and make people want to stop.
For boys, girls with looks just like them, while for boys, attractive girls are true love. Many times, girls should not think that boys do not like you or love you because you are not beautiful, that is not the real reason.
For girls, whether they are beautiful or not is only a pros and cons, not a decisive factor. The real decisive factor is whether you have your own charm, whether you can fully show your charm, whether you have enough self-esteem and self-love .
Conclusion:
Whether a girl attracts boys or not, the decisive condition is not her appearance, but her unique charm. When a girl has her own charm, becomes confident and generous, her smile will affect the boys' minds and make boys. Sinking for it.
