As the saying goes, there is no rule without rules. Since ancient times, there have been many rules around us to restrict people's behavior. Most of these rules were made after the ancients summarized their life experience, some were feudal superstitions, and more were full of profound truths. Today, I will talk about such a rule, you see if it is correct.
This regular rectangle has become a common saying, the first half of the sentence is "the father does not enter the ovary", and the second half is the sadness of ordinary people, but unfortunately few people know it.
Look at the first half of the sentence "The father does not enter the ovary". Why can't the father enter his children's room? It makes sense for the ancestors to leave this sentence. Whether it was in the past or now, when the children at home were young, they would sleep with their parents so that they could take care of him. But when he is a little older and has his own idea, the children also need their own small space. Perhaps the father will not easily enter the daughter's room, but in fact, the son also needs private space.
After the son gets married, he will have his partner in his house and personal belongings belonging to their husband and wife. Unless something happens, the father will knock on the door to enter. If you don’t get the consent of your children when you’re okay, the father should not go in at will. After all, it’s the place for another couple. Even if the son doesn't say anything, there will be a gap in his wife's heart.
Look at the second half of the sentence "Officials do not enter private houses". If the first half is a family rule, the second half is a social rule, which is the sadness of ordinary people. Not to mention the strict hierarchy in ancient times. Although it is a society where everyone is equal nowadays, ordinary people generally do not have direct contact with personnel with certain official positions. Therefore, if such people come to his family, people will be afraid because of cultural heritage. It is also a little flustered and restless.
and more officials are unwilling to disturb the people. Some people come to the house as guests, even the poor, they will be very enthusiastic and buy a table of good dishes to greet the guests. Let alone people with official positions in the family, they definitely want to entertain them with the best things in the family. Therefore, officials who are considerate of people will also think of this, and generally will not disturb ordinary people at will.
Although the family and social environment have changed a lot in ancient times and now, the common sayings and rules left by our ancestors are still applicable and reasonable today. Do you also know which ancestors have left us with the rules full of truth, share them.
