Chi Shanyu’s life is perfect: the vice-president of a hospital, the respected female doctor in the eyes of the patient, the female elite in the eyes of colleagues, the beautiful mother in the eyes of his son Junyu, the successful female model in the eyes of neighbors’ best friends, and the director’s husband in the eyes Beautiful wife. Such a married woman who seems to be both beautiful together has long hidden mystery behind the beautiful.
What she doesn’t know is: the husband has been hooked up with the president’s daughter Lu Duojing for two years, and the man also used his own money to buy a package for a third party, and he also mortgaged himself. The house misappropriated the child's education fund.
The child is actually not a warm man at all, rebellious, stubborn and stingy. The colleagues around her are not all respecting her. Many people are counting on her jokes. Her group of neighbors and best friends knew that her husband Li Taiwu had cheated, and everyone helped cover, as if telling Chi Shanyu would only get worse.
The fact is that the sensitive Chi Sun Woo, or it is because her husband suddenly noticed the marital crisis with lipstick. It's just that she has been wrapping her husband's so-called love, she thinks Li Taiwu will not betray her.
After all, I have been Ji Shanyu raising the family for so many years. The director's husband is a person, his company, his script, and his cooperation in his business, but it makes it look like men have things to do, but they are all decorations.
Without Chi Shanyu's pursuit of Li Taiwu's artistic life, he would have been swept out, and he would never have the opportunity to meet the rich second generation Lu Duojing.
After all, for Lu Duojing, Li Taiwu's artistic breath, the kind of money spent by a successful man, and the material and romance given to him are actually based on his wife's decentness.
It is precisely because Ji Shanyu is the one who has paid too much in this marriage, when she knows that Li Taiwu is using her own money to buy bags for Xiaosan, using her own money to waste, taking her own son She was completely angry when the education fund went to support her junior. She felt that she must get revenge to get back her own things
Chi Shanyu's three elements for revenge:
1. Let her female patient follow and take photos of her husband’s affair with the mistress. My girlfriend’s husband was attracted to her body and asked the other party to get Li Taiwu’s financial information for herself, telling Li Taiwu frankly that she had cheated. The purpose was to make Li Taiwu despair and let Li Taiwu feel disrespect and humiliation
2, deliberately Making Li Taewu domestic violence not only wins the custody of Junyu, but also makes Junyu discover the evil of his own father, forcing Li Taewu to leave the house and tell her mother-in-law that he will not tolerate Junyu's derailment
3. Go to the president's house and directly expose that his daughter is the mistress of his husband. He doesn't give the president any face, completely cut off the marriage path, and makes Li Taiwu hate him. After waiting for Li Taiwu to remarry with the upper third, he began to provoke the divorced third’s love for Li Taiwu step by step, disregarding ethics and ethics to continue with Li Taiwu.
Amway Xiaosan Li Taiwu only loves her when she was young, because the small third He must be very similar to himself. In the end, Xiao San felt that he was the one who was deceived by Li Taiwu. Li Taiwu loved himself the most. Xiao San completely broke with Li Taiwu and the family moved away from Gaoshan.
Ji Shanyu finally killed Li Taiwu’s marriage and life
Ji Shanyu finally killed Li Taiwu’s marriage and life, even his son felt that his mother was terrible. I felt that my mother was too bad for my father, and then caused Ji Shanyu to embarrass him.
In fact, her son is the person who knows what his mother is best, because he is too aware of his mother's competitive character, and he also understands that he is her biggest weakness.
You see Junyu is so ignorant, he still hopes that his mother will stop revenge and leave here to start a new life, but Chi Shanyu is not reconciled. She felt that she had paid so much in her marriage that she was actually destroyed by Li Taiwu's derailment, and she wanted to kill Li Taiwu.
But Chi Shanyu, who won this betrayal of the marriage, saw Li Taiwu's embarrassment, and still couldn't bear to feel that Li Taiwu was pitiful, she still wanted to save Li Taiwu, she still felt guilty. This is why Ji Shanyu took revenge on Li Taewu while pitying him. It's not that Li Taiwu didn't fight back, but he was really too weak.
Looking at Li Taiwu’s life
On the other hand, Li Taiwu’s life is the salvation of a rich and rich second-generation woman from a powerful woman. It is better to say that he is in love with two women as he finds a sense of security in them.
Ji Shanyu is actually the same person as Ludo Kyoto. They don't care about love, and sacrifice their own interests for love. Because of lack of love and insecurity, they especially want love, especially want to have a happy marriage. Why can't the giving woman get the perfect love and marriage
1. A woman who knows how to give for love is easy to be exploited by men in some respects. You are so active in building a family, what happened to me when I went to spend a lot of time, in the end you still reluctant to leave me because you paid too much, even if you leave me you will still love me. This is the truth about the "love and hatred" behind Li Taiwu's revenge on Chi Shanyu
2, a paying-out woman is easy to sacrifice herself to fulfill a man's life. They look forward to a happy life too much, and believe too much in love and marriage. Once a man derails or gets rich, they will lose miserably, because a man feels that you have trampled on his self-esteem and he will not forgive a woman's contribution. You deprived him of his sense of dedication to marriage and family
3. A dedicating woman easily makes men lose their sense of existence, and makes men think that you are so awesome. You can do it with me. what. A lot of men are eating soft rice with confidence, and at the same time abandoning giving women with confidence. They feel that they are not respected by the head of the family.
4. Dedicated women are easy to lose themselves. They lack love in their bones. They use love to get love
Look at Chi Shanyu’s childhood: both parents died in love, long After she was older, she vaguely discovered that it was her mother who found out that her father had cheated and would not be able to stand it for a while. Then her parents had a serious dispute. In the end, she became a lonely girl and grew up in foster care with relatives. Live the life I wanted, but still did not escape the fate of my mother in marriage.
Before the divorce, Li Taiwu used Chi Shanyu's mother to attack her marriage counterattack, stimulating her unbearable past. They are not so-called love, or a kind of pathological entanglement.
Look at Lu Duojing’s family. The parents seem to be a loving mother or Miss Korea. The family is superior. Such girls seem to have no shortage of love, but they do. Because her father is rich and not at home all the time, the relationship between husband and wife is not good, which makes her easy to fall in love with older men.
The core: Lu Duojing's father is very fond of her, which leads to a deviation in her view of love and marriage, thinking that the more he pays to a man, the more he can hold him.
Actually, Li Taiwu took advantage of Chi Shanyu and Lu Duojing’s lack of confidence in love and marriage, as well as their unhesitating attitude towards love.
He likes women who are serious about love, but he is not a dedicated man. In the end, Lu Duojing’s sentence: Actually, I’m just a copy of Chi Shanyu. She has seen through Li Taiwu’s hypocrisy and all Li Taiwu’s dissatisfied cheating face, and understands that even if her daughter does not have a father, she can’t ask Li Taiwu to be like this. s husband.
The giving woman is easy to be disappointed by men
You have done endlessly for others. No matter how much you give, others will not be grateful. Over time, others will take it for granted. After all The purpose of what you pay is to control others and get your own initiative in love and marriage. Others will think that you have disturbed the otherwise quiet life of others, and others will think that your contribution is a conspiracy theory.
After all, everyone loves freedom, even after marriage a man needsTo have your own space, you need to have your own money-making circle, and you need to support yourself. The Li Taewu that Chi Shanyu created is the Li Taewu that Chi Shanyu hopes. Lu Duojing's mind to help Li Taiwu decent is actually the kind of husband Lu Duojing needs.
If a woman tries to create her so-called ideal husband, and finally after the ideal husband collapses, whether it is crazy revenge or revenge, it is actually embarrassing herself and others .
For Chi Shanyu, the core learns to love yourself and respect your own feelings. After the husband's derailment, regardless of divorce or forgiveness, there is no need for excessive behavior. The excessive behavior itself feels that they are not loved or respected. You can negotiate with the other party, there is no need to harm your whole life because of a scumbag.
To put it bluntly, Li Taiwu seems to be so decent, but there are too many men who are extremely realistic, powerful, and cold in heart, and make women sulking secretly. In short, women can't help poor men. Even if you can't find the right man, don't help the poor easily. You must know that a man's career and money determine his respect and love for women.
A man who has not been loved by the world of money is prone to doctrine, and it is easy to ask a woman to have various three obediences and four virtues. To put it bluntly, they know that they don't have the courage and confidence, but they are not reconciled, they just like to suppress women to seek happiness. While admiring women whose vitality can save their lives, they suppress the jealous of these women, making them feel that they are not loved, and they are not worthy of love.
Again, the minimum standard for marriage whether a man or a woman is married: both parties can make money, and no one should expect to survive.
Attempts to kidnap the other party morally, make the other party obey oneself and provide for one's own life, such good things are not possible. To put it bluntly, men and women today are neither stupid nor stupid. No one wants to find a burden in marriage. After all, everyone is tired.
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