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" Lao Luo , my old friend for decades, has a short marriage history, has no children or relatives, and lives alone. He moved to a new home a few years ago and called me to come and have a look.
I am naturally happy to meet old friends. After visiting the house, Lao Luo took out a door key and handed it to me, saying that he had left it with me just in case. Seeing that he trusted me so much, I took it without hesitation.
I took it without hesitation. After a year, one day, Lao Luo called me to get the spare key. When we met, I found out that Lao Luo's bag was snatched away on the road, and the house key was naturally lost with him.
One day two years later, Lao Luo called me again and asked me to take the key to his house. He said that he was on a business trip and a relative from his hometown came to check up on his illness. He was short of money and did not want to stay in a hotel and wanted to borrow it. Stayed for two nights.
I rushed to his house and handed the spare key to Lao Luo’s anxious relatives. After checking his condition, they found that he was fine and returned home. Before leaving, they handed over the spare key with great gratitude.
Three years passed in a flash, That night, I was still surfing the Internet, and suddenly my phone rang. I saw it was Lao Luo, but as soon as I answered the call, it was disconnected. No one answered the call, and this Lao Luo also Isn't it too unusual? Thinking about him living alone and having a heart disease... I was shocked and rushed to his house. No one answered the door. I quickly used the spare key to open the door. I saw Lao Luo Wai. He fell to the ground, still holding a few pills in his hand. I called 120 and sent Lao Luo to the hospital. Fortunately, he survived because of the prompt rescue.
After I came out of the hospital, I thought that my husband and son were not around... I found him. Sister, handed her a spare key. "
After reading the story of these two old friends, are you also filled with emotion? When you get old, you must leave yourself a spare key. This is an important guarantee for your safety and happiness when you get old!
"If you don't have long-term worries, you will have short-term worries!" When people get old, they must learn to leave a way out for themselves. They must leave a way out for themselves in terms of health, time, home, personality, and finance. A happy old age. "
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Save a hand in health
Remember: Only when you have a healthy body can you have everything, enjoy life, and feel happiness.
All the wealth and fame in life are countless" 0 ”, only good health is “1”; Without this "1", life is just a "0". Therefore, health should be the basis for everyone to live a healthy life.
Health is your own, and you can only work hard on yourself after retirement. The expert's way of maintaining health is to move more and exercise more, so that you can live a healthy and long life.
2
Save time
After retirement, you have more time at your disposal, but many friends spend this time on their families, or more directly, Just spend it on your children.
Surrounding your children every day is not only annoying for your children, but it is also very bad for you.
Therefore, after you are over 50, you should save time and leave time for yourself. , used to do more different things. For example, learning something, such as volunteering in the community, these can bring you different fun and success than you had in previous decades of life.
3
Keep a hand in your old nest
Golden nest and silver nest are not as good as your own old nest. When you get old, you must have a place to stay, shelter from the cold and rain, and make your own decisions.
When you are old, do not transfer the property to your children too early, or sell the house just because you will live with your children for a long time. There are too many news stories about people who transferred their house to their children early and almost became homeless as a result.
Remember: The parents’ home is always the children’s home, but the children’s home is never the parents’ home.
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Keep a secret in personality
You must know that the "gnawing at the old" people who never grow up often use their parents' power and relationships for their own personal gain. Some parents, because they doted on their children too much, used backdoors and cultivated relationships for them, and some were even "gnawed" into prison.
After working hard for most of his life, he should pay more attention to the evening festival at the last stop of his life.
"Save a hand" in personality to make the sunset brilliant and the evening scenery more beautiful.
5
Keep a hand financially
When you are over 50 years old, you cannot spend all your "investment" on your children. As the saying goes: "It is better to have children than to have yourself." Once you no longer have the money to maintain your basic life, it will not be so convenient to reach out to your children for help.
In addition, you must be willing to spend the money you have left. Spend only one yuan on yourself, never eight cents. Your consumption in the rest of your life is limited. There is no need to be stingy with yourself, and you won’t be able to save that much. If you save, no one will build a memorial arch for you. Even if you save, no one will build a memorial memorial for you. , but you are the only one who suffers.
Times are changing, and we must also change our living standards, and we cannot continue to follow the same old path of a generation.
Therefore, when you are over 50 years old, your health becomes worse and worse, various diseases begin to plague you, the pressure of life is still very heavy, and the future is still very long, remember to keep a spare key, you might as well give it to yourself Keep a few hands, the sky will not fall, and the earth will not sink, but life will be easier and better.
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Text: When You Get Old
