From ancient times, Tang Xuanzong fell in love with his daughter-in-law Yang Yuhuan, "Water Margin" Pan Jinlian seduce Wu Song, there are countless stories telling us that if there is something that seems unrelated, it is more often It is a reverie.
In China, the most imaginative thing for Chinese men is probably the younger sister of his wife, who is also his sister-in-law.
As the saying goes: "Sister-in-law counts as half a wife." It can be seen that the relationship between sister-in-law and brother-in-law is a bit unusual.
Generally speaking, younger sisters are younger and more beautiful than older sisters, and they are gentle and understanding. "Like the new and hate the old" is a common problem for all men, so cheating has become commonplace for young and beautiful sister-in-law.
For the topic of sister-in-law. A few days ago, a fan sent me an email saying that he fell in love with his sister-in-law and made his marriage painful. What is going on? Let's listen to his story.
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I am 31 years old and have been married to my wife for more than 10 years, and I have been married to my wife for more than 10 years. .
We are the standard children of other people's families. My wife and I have an annual income of 40W. In a small county, we have a house and a car. Life is very comfortable. We are loving and filial to our parents.
But we are more like strangers under the eaves than real couples.
On the surface, we seem to be very affectionate, but in fact, my wife has a very bad temper. She often loses her temper at every turn.
Before I was young, and I often scolded her and threw things while swearing. Then she started to hit me, and I also fought back (pinch, spank, shoved), and later, I simply Assuming assault and scolding, every time he was beaten and bruised.
It's not that I don't want to fight back, but I always think that we have been together for ten years, and the relationship is really deep, just let her vent.
After she loses her temper, she will also take the initiative to say sorry to me, hold me to forgive me, and I always say it's okay.
I think I have good conditions and treat her well, but she doesn't cherish it at all. In her opinion, I must obey unconditionally at home.
The real relationship between our husbands and wives is the relationship between relatives. There is not the slightest heartbeat that a lover should have. Every day I feel very depressed when I enter the house.
Tell me about my sister-in-law.
More than 10 years ago, when I was in love with my wife, I was 18 years old and my sister-in-law was only 12 years old.
She and my wife don’t look alike at all, she looks quiet + loli attributes, Although it is not beautiful, it is very clean and feels like a girl next door. I fell in love with her at first sight.
In the next time, we often use QQ to chat, and we always take her when we are dating our wife. When we watch the World Cup, we use QQ to chat with her about football, and we use QQ to chat with her during the New Year. , Play QQ games together, recommend her to watch my favorite anime, listen to my favorite songs... Until she was about to take the entrance examination, I also specially helped her tuition science at her home when she was 16 years old.
During her next 3 years of high school and 4 years of college, we became friends who talked about everything. At that time, apart from dating with our wife, we occasionally brought it secretly. She went shopping to buy clothes and give gifts, and she couldn't restrain her joy.
She graduated last year and came back to work in a local bank. The remuneration was very good. After five social insurances and one housing fund, she got 15W, The small county town is considered high.
But the most terrible thing is that her working place is very close to my home, and she voluntarily asked to come to my home to have lunch with me at noon (because my wife often travels on business, she is basically not at home at noon).
I will cook for the next six months (I have a good craftsmanship, I can get 3 dishes and 1 soup within 30 minutes after work), she always looks at me and smiles without talking, so I just Silently grilling rice...Occasionally speaking, chatting for a few minutes can make me happy all day.
During the six months she came back to get along with me, I gradually discovered that she looked at me differently, and the relationship between our two gradually became more subtle. Because my wife travels a lot, I spend more time alone with my sister-in-law.
The fuse of the derailment was that once I had a meal at home with my sister-in-law. That day, because of the cold war with my wife, we were in a bad mood. Both of us drank a lot of alcohol. Under the influence of alcohol, we couldn’t help but cross our friendship. Bottom line...
After the incident, we all regretted it. After all, she is my wife’s sister. If she is found out, I don’t know it will happen. Something came out, so she started to stay away from me, not eating at my house, and when she asked her out, she also started to avoid me.
Later, she blocked all my WeChat accounts and didn't answer the phone. She seemed to have become a passerby in my life, leaving no trace.
I really love my sister-in-law, and I thought about divorce, because I don't like my wife at all, what I like is my sister-in-law!
In our small county, the elders have very conservative ideas. Even if I don’t go to see my sister-in-law, I can’t make a divorce decision. This will hit my wife too much, and I don’t want her because of this. Things hurt her.
So I can only drag it day by day, with the pressure of my parents forced to live, my inner struggle, pain and helplessness to live.
Why do men like sister-in-law?
In fact, every man will always feel tired of his wife. At this time, many men start to get ridiculous.
But most men still don't have the guts to try-because Chinese men are top smart and cunning, they know: cheating is costly.
Derailment requires a lot of energy and money to "explore" and "explore" other women's "new territories", and take great risks.
If you are a little careless, your wife knows that you will not only get a divorce, but also your lover may also run away. It can be said that the expansion of the "new territory" is lost and your own "backyard" is on fire again.
Started with my sister-in-law, the "risk" is much smaller. Because finding a sister-in-law to have an extramarital affair is really a business with the lowest investment and the least risk:
As a result, the sister-in-law is her own relative, and has no blood relationship. She is young and beautiful. , When the sister-in-law and the brother-in-law get along day and night, there are many opportunities to close the relationship.
Secondly, this kind of "extramarital affair" that is a bit deformed and mixed with family affection is not easy to be noticed. In case it is discovered, the Chinese generally do not make a big deal of ugliness and will not cause a lot of trouble. They will generally forgive the brother-in-law's extraordinary behavior, so as not to embarrass him too much.
But in my opinion, cheating is always a kind of harm to marriage, no matter whether the person cheating is a sister-in-law, it is just an excuse, it is a marriage. A kind of betrayal.
Therefore, please cherish every marriage and relationship, do it and cherish it.
Do you think it is appropriate to like the sister-in-law? (Single choice)
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