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Many women always panic especially before marriage, one is because they fear that they are not doing well in their marriage, causing themselves and their husbands to be disappointed; the other is Because I was afraid of paying a lot in the marriage, but the instability of the final marriage made the other party abandon him, and he was even more afraid to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and mother-in-law, so that I could become a woman-in-law.
In fact, when women worry about whether their marriage will be happy after they get married, they often have high expectations for marriage. They can’t help but ask in a daze: “After they get married, will the person who married Give yourself happiness?”
Actually, happiness is your own definition. Whether two people can be happy in marriage is actually doomed on the day of marriage. Why does
say this? As a woman, you must keep your eyes open before marriage and use a detective-like magnifying glass to check the strengths and weaknesses of each other, so as to ensure your happiness in the marriage.
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Baozi is a very casual girl. When it comes to love, she dares to love and hate. If you love someone, you will devote yourself to the other person, regardless of the result; when you don’t love someone, even if the other person With Jinshan Yinshan, she would not wrong herself and choose the other party.
After she discussed with her boyfriend about getting married, Baozi started to plan their wedding personally. Although she was very excited to think of being a bride, it was a letting one to deal with the trivial matters of the wedding alone. People are very big things.
She has to consider the number of relatives present, screen the wedding ceremony scene, design the layout of the wedding invitation, and take wedding photos with her husband...
There are too many trivial things that make Baozi very excited. The mood became a little depressed.
After she told her boyfriend of this idea, her boyfriend replied in a daze: "How boring to have a banquet? And it costs money. Why don't we just skip the wedding and save it." Let’s go abroad for the money!"
Baozi never expected his boyfriend to say that, because a wedding is very important to a girl. It represents not just a wedding, but through this A ritual allows the families of both parties to witness their happiness and witness that she married her boyfriend in a fair manner, instead of sneaking into her boyfriend's door.
At that time, when Baozi took the wedding matter seriously and chose to insist on it, when she asked her boyfriend to help her with the trivial matters of the wedding, her boyfriend was still unmoved. . Faced with such a situation, Shuzhen Baozi also directly said : "This marriage is over."
Weddings are cumbersome, but they are not as annoying as the trivial chores when two people live together. In the matter of marriage, if a man is afraid of trouble, he is not willing to give his beloved woman a treat. For a perfect wedding, he is unwilling to help his wife with the trivial chores of the wedding.
So as a woman, you can't expect him to take a role in the marriage in the future and understand his hard work.
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is like "Find You" starring Ma Yili and Yao Chen. In this movie, Ma Yili's babysitter Sun Fang is a very sad character.
In the main line of the movie, she steals the daughter of Li Jie played by Yao Chen, slowly letting the audience understand Sun Fang's story scene by scene.
Li Jie learned from Sun Fang's colleague that Sun Fang, the nanny in her family, was very short of money. She could do everything for money. Later, she learned that the nanny Sun Fang had an unhappy marriage and that her child had congenital biliary atresia and needed money for the liver because there was no money to pay the doctor.Medicine costs, so they were eventually driven out by the hospital.
is the tragedy of Sun Fang, which can be seen at the time of marriage. On the first day of the wedding, Sun Fang was the bride, and many of the groom's friends held Sun Fang and gave her a hard drink. Faced with this situation, Sun Fang shook off the other's arm and kicked the other party.
However, Sun Fang’s husband did not defend Sun Fang. Instead, in front of everyone, in order to protect his own face, he directly slapped Sun Fang, and Sun Fang refused to be outdone and slapped his husband. At this time , The two couples fought.
So, as expected, when Sun Fang's husband learned that his child was seriously ill, he gave up treatment directly, and he ignored both Sun Fang and his daughter.
Faced with such a situation, Sun Fang, in order to save money, eats leftover meals from others, she borrowed all her fellow villagers to see a doctor for her children, but in the end she was unable to repay, and she ended up with an extremely bad reputation; she also wanted to earn money Qian tried desperately to drink a row of white wine, to accompany laughs as a social girl, her life was even without dignity.
Fortunately, women are not happy, you can tell at the time of marriage, a man who loves you, he will carefully prepare for your wedding, he will not be afraid of the trouble of the wedding.
A man who loves you, he will first protect your personal safety when others bully you, he will not let you be bullied by others, and will fight you for the sake of face. Z2z
emotional message:
Therefore, since ancient times, there has been a saying called : "The poor person must have something to hate". When meets the wrong person, she can avoid harm by letting go. A woman should not give herself endless fantasies, fantasizing that the other party can change, but in reality, the other party has not moved at all. In the end, she will take her own step by step. Life is pushed into the abyss.
Therefore, whether a marriage can be happy or not is doomed at the time and day of marriage. Women must keep their eyes open to avoid hurting themselves in their marriage and feelings.
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