Today is the third day Kuang Ying has brought her son home. Her son sleeps with his grandfather and she sleeps with her mother.
Kuang Ying couldn't remember how many years she hadn't slept with her mother, but she still remembered that when she was a child, when she slept with her mother, her hands and feet were cold in winter because of poor blood. Her mother would put her hands into her armpits to warm them up, and she would also put her cold feet on her warm legs.
When she was a child, she took all this for granted, and she also felt that her mother was not afraid of the cold at all.
When she grew up, became a mother herself, and raised her own children, she felt that this was the greatest selfless maternal love in the world.
During the two or three days when she went home to spend the New Year with her parents, Kuang Ying helped her parents organize the wardrobe, wipe the furniture and windows, and make the floor and kitchen clean.
In the evening, Kuang Ying chatted and watched TV with the two old people. The chatting often went silent. When Kuang Ying saw it, his parents were warming up by the fire and taking a nap.
Looking at her seventy-year-old parents who were napping, she couldn't help but have mixed feelings in her heart. She was very glad that she finally had the courage to go back to her parents' home with her son this time.
As a daughter-in-law, she is competent. Her father-in-law and mother-in-law have lived in her home for seven years, and she has taken care of them for seven years. Even if her brother-in-law has never taken care of her for a day or given a penny, and her sister-in-law has not taken care of her even once, she does not care, because she feels that everyone will grow old one day, and no one wants to be disliked on that day.
But as a daughter, she owes her parents, especially since her brother has passed away in the past two years, her parents are deserted and lonely, and she rarely goes home because she has to go to work and take care of her husband, father-in-law, and mother-in-law.
This time, her brother-in-law and his family of three came to her house early to celebrate the New Year with their parents. They would stay for more than a month, and her husband arranged for them to sleep in his own room. She did not want to continue to be a thankless mother at home for them. In addition, not long ago, she resigned due to poor performance in the factory, so she came up with the idea of going back to her parents' house to spend time with the two elderly people.
She thought: In the future, she has to change her pleasing personality and can no longer listen to her husband for everything. She doesn't have to go to work now. Her parents have no other children except her. They are old, and she should spend more time accompanying and taking care of them.
Kuang Ying's own home, in the two or three days after Kuang Ying left, life was really messy.
Kuang Ying’s husband Daming, before getting married, it was his mother who cooked the food. After getting married, it was Kuang Ying who cooked the food. He ate in the canteen at work and never even touched a knife for cutting vegetables.
On the first day after Kuang Ying left despite his objections, his brother-in-law and his family of three came. He asked his mother to do it. She had been blessed for seven years and was used to the days when food came. She let her son do whatever he wanted. As a result, Daming cut his hands while cutting vegetables, and yelled at his mother into the kitchen.
In the next few days, my mother-in-law was cooking in the kitchen. After seven years, her hands were rusty and her eyes were old. She added salt to the vegetables, stir-fried and added another spoonful of salt, and then boiled them for a while. After finally cooking the dishes, Daming put them on the table, greeted his brother and the family of three to eat.
As a result, when he stretched out his chopsticks at the dinner table, he found that it was salty and bland. The brother-in-law couldn't help but said to Daming: "Brother, you still have to call your sister-in-law back. The food made by this mother is too unpalatable."
Daming also said Silently, the old lady quit. She put down her chopsticks and said, "Xiao Ming, I tell you not to make me angry. You have been a chef for so many years. You cook for your guests every day. Have you ever cooked a meal for me? I am over seventy years old and I have never eaten a meal from you. You still have the nerve to say so." I made it taste bad. "
Daming saw that this driving style was wrong, and immediately said to his mother: "Mom, don't be angry, Xiao Ming will cook for you tonight." "
When her mother-in-law saw Daming coming to persuade her, she became even more angry. She pointed at Daming's nose and scolded him: "I get angry when I see you. You are over 50 years old. My wife said she would go back to her parents' home and she even asked me to cook. If you have the ability, ask your wife to come back immediately, otherwise she should just stop coming back.""
When my sister-in-law saw this, she quickly pulled away from her husband Xiao Ming and said: "In this case, let's go back to the provincial capital tomorrow. We originally wanted my sister-in-law to be at home, and we came here to have good food and rest for more than a month. But this time, my sister-in-law escaped and went to her parents' house. We have to work here, so why not go home. "
Xiao Ming looked at this situation and probably didn't feel too good about it, so he nodded, walked over and said to his brother and parents: "Stop arguing, we will go back tomorrow and come back on New Year's Day. "
When her mother-in-law saw that Xiao Ming's family of three was leaving, she said to Daming with tears and runny noses: "Look at what kind of family you are in. My brother and his family of three can't live here anymore when he comes back. Don't you know how to ask her to come back? Divorce her if she doesn't come back. Let me tell you, Kuang Ying doesn't have the courage. "
Daming was so worried. He didn't answer Kuang Ying's phone calls a few days ago and didn't reply to messages. He called his son's phone. The son had nothing nice to say to him and was unwilling to answer the phone for his mother.
Daming took out his phone and started calling Kuang Ying's phone. The call actually came through. As soon as Kuang Ying answered the phone and said "Hey", Daming's volcano erupted. He yelled at Kuang Ying on the other side of the phone: "Kuang Ying, let me tell you, bring your son back quickly. You have been here for three days. If you really don't want to come back until after the New Year, then we will only have a divorce. Don't regret it then. "
When Kuang Ying saw the call from Daming, she knew there was nothing good to say, so she quickly took it and went to the balcony to answer it. The result was good, she actually threatened her with divorce and asked her to take her son back immediately.
Kuang Ying wanted to say what Daming had already hung up. Kuang Ying replied to Daming on WeChat, saying: OK, wait until the Civil Affairs Bureau returns to work after the New Year. Now, I'll come back and go through the formalities with you, so that I can concentrate on taking care of my parents at my parents' home.
Yiyanyiyu believes that people who use divorce to threaten their other half to submit to themselves are the most stupid people! In the relationship between husband and wife, what we should learn is to think from each other's perspective, understand and tolerate each other. Only in this way can we hold hands and walk with our children, share joys and hardships together.
