Author: You Wo Fu Sheng
Editor: Feng Shanggong
Produced by: Xichacha Audio Drama Club
After graduation, do you want to go when invited by your classmates?
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Yesterday I received a call from an old classmate, saying that a classmate came back from other places and wanted to get together in a few days, and asked me if I wanted to go. I hadn't seen each other for many years, and I really wanted to get together, but when I asked about my male classmates, there were quite a few female classmates, which made me a little hesitant.
I am not afraid of anything else, I am afraid that my lover will think too much. After all, I have to take into account the feelings of the people closest to me. When I usually go out with my colleagues, I will also tell her our arrangements and the time we will go home. My colleagues always say that I am a coward, but in fact they don’t understand. This is to prevent her from worrying about me.
But an old classmate said sincerely that if you don’t want her to know about your embarrassing things when you were in school, it’s best not to bring your family members, after all, no one will bring them. This put me in a difficult position, after all, who hasn’t been young yet? What’s more, if we really talk about it, some dark history will be revealed, but if I don’t bring it up, I’m afraid she will be worried. It’s really a big headache.
She looked at me with concern, and I couldn't bear it anymore, so I had to tell the truth. What she said next surprised and warmed my heart. She said it was not easy for classmates from out of town to come back for a reunion, so I could rest assured that she would cook honey water and stomach-warming porridge and wait for me at home.
Although I think she may have some tricks up her sleeve, I was overjoyed. She asked me again what I planned to wear, and I said they were all acquaintances, so just wear normal clothes. As a result, she said that she couldn't be too informal, and she had a day off tomorrow, so they could go together to choose "equipment" for me.
My lover's thoughtfulness makes me glad that I didn't lie, otherwise I would have to use more lies to cover up my feelings, and it would also hurt my feelings. The friendship between students is definitely important, but the relationship between two people is even more important, so it is very necessary to care about the feelings of the other half. After all, the person who accompanies me throughout this life is more worthy of cherishing.
A classmate of mine in high school had a hot temper and often quarreled with his wife over trivial matters. His wife is not the gentle Xiaojiabiyu, and she has never lost to anyone. When these two people are together, it is like the sound of firecrackers exploding in the sky, which can stimulate the heart even from a distance.
By coincidence, my classmate attended a college party, and as a result, he started taking care of his skin, his temper became gentler, and he started spending more money when shopping. It didn't take long for the two of them to get divorced. It is said that the class reunion was the cause of the trouble. It was really the real-life version of "Love to the End".
I met him again some time ago. He no longer has a frown, a loud voice, or a fierce face. It makes me a little confused. It seems that his current life is more comfortable for him?
Who is discrediting the ‘Alumni Association’?
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After adulthood, it is inevitable that some beautiful memories of youth will be hidden deep in my heart. When the years pass and I look back on the past, I can still smile knowingly when I look at those memories. Rather than rekindling old feelings due to the meeting at the class reunion, the originally sentimental gathering changed its flavor.
It is inconvenient for us to talk about other people's lives, but the relationship between two people needs to be carefully managed by oneself. When your life is not going as you like, the small temptations outside will be infinitely magnified. Most of those people who changed drastically because their partner attended a class reunion ended up parting ways.
It is right to hold a class reunion, but it is wrong for those who regard the class reunion as a hunting ground. Please maintain your original intention and resist the temptation. The class reunion will be a clear place.
once read a report that said that participating in a class reunion increases the divorce rate. The title was so exciting that I had to take a closer look.
analysis shows that divorce incidents caused by class reunions account for more than ten percent of the total divorce rate. There is also a saying that "class reunions are used to play ambiguous games and break up a couple." This made me more vigilant. The destructive power of this class reunion is really too great.
reported that there was a woman whose husband was a private company executive, and they had a daughter, and their life was considered happy.But her husband changed after attending a class reunion, and he was always indifferent to her.
no longer gets tired of holding her, stays in a daze for no reason, plays computer games late at night, and often giggles at his mobile phone. He is also impatient with his daughter and communicates less. Both his expression and body express resistance.
The woman planned to reflect on herself, but all her faith in saving her fell apart in the message her daughter accidentally showed her. It was just a class reunion, but it destroyed this family of three.
She also cried and made trouble, but when the man said something next, he also hesitated and blamed himself, but he couldn't resist the longing in his heart, so he could only feel sorry for his wife and children.
women feel like they are living like a joke. She didn't say another word. A man who was carried away by the so-called throbbing had nothing to care about since he didn't know what responsibility was. She took her daughter's hand and left this selfish man without looking back.
If we can't be together, please forget each other in the world
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When I mentioned the class reunion in the past, I always sighed with emotion and full of expectations, and missed the friendship between classmates at that time. Nowadays, when class reunions are mentioned, they are all a group of bohemian middle-aged men and women. Who on earth is discrediting such a meaningful term as class reunion?
Some people say that if we get back together because of a class reunion, it must be true love! But you are burdened with two or even four families. Since you choose to get married, whether it is because of love or responsibility, it is no longer a matter of one person.
once heard a story. Sayuri and Xiaoxiao were from the same town. They were in the same grade and in different classes in middle school, so they were not familiar with each other. They were in the same class in high school, but at that time boys and girls did not play together.
Once, Sayuri's bicycle broke down when she came home. As she was slowly pushing the bicycle home, a car bell rang behind her. He turned around and saw Xiao Xiaoxiao. He learned that the car was broken and tried to repair it but failed, so he walked back with Sayuri.
The two of them were pushing the car and chatting, chatting about interesting things about their classmates, and learned about each other's hobbies. When they got home, they felt that time passed so fast. They looked at each other and smiled and parted ways at the intersection.
Sayuri looked back and saw only the back of Xiao Xiaoxiao. Xiaoxiao looked back and only saw the corners of Sayuri's skirt. The shadows of the two people stretched longer and longer under the moonlight. After
, the two would occasionally go home together to talk and study. Some classmates also made noises, but the two just looked at each other and smiled without explaining much. This kind of friendship was incomprehensible to others. Later, when they were too busy in their senior year of high school, they stopped hanging out and only smiled when they met occasionally. After graduating from high school, the two were admitted to different universities and worked hard for their futures.
years later, Sayuri had a family and a baby, and her family of three lived happily together. Xiaoxiao also has a wife, and his life is warm and peaceful.
This year, high school classmate Zhang Luo had a class reunion, and Sayuri and Xiaoxiao also came as invited, but the two of them changed little. At the beginning, everyone was a little reserved, but after a few words they became chatty. Sayuri talked about her children, and her words were full of expectations and worries about her children's future. Xiaoxiao talked about his wife, and his words revealed his love and doting for his wife.
Seeing that they were chatting enthusiastically, the classmates booed and said that they were still so right. The two still did not explain, but just looked at each other and smiled. When the two talked about their families together, they knew that neither of them had changed, so they felt more at ease.
After the class reunion, they did not leave any contact information. They just smiled politely and said that they would come to visit if they had the opportunity. This brought a successful conclusion to their shared memories. They each held the hands of their lovers and walked towards home, just like that summer night.
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The most beautiful and unforgettable friendship is 'carrying guns together, going to the same school together, going to the countryside together. '
Because we are in a difficult environment together, there is a group of people to accompany you through it, sharing the joys and sorrows with true feelings, even just watching others fight and make trouble is still joy. These experiences are only a few that each person can have in his life.
Those who don’t understand the importance of the word “old schoolmate” will not understand it. The class reunion is a place to reminisce about the past and talk about the future. Comparisons with each other and dirty talk are not tolerated.
After ten years of cultivation, we can cross the same boat; after a hundred years, we can sleep together on the same pillow. The friendship forged after ten years of hard work can only be exchanged by looking back many times in the past life, so please do not treat class reunions with worldly utilitarianism. Please let every class reunion be a happy one, rather than attending once and then never wanting to attend again.
I am blessing my life, recording every beautiful moment in life. See you next time.
