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In recent years, have you ever experienced the following situations:
◆Watching a drama, I am used to pulling up the progress bar. One speed is not enough, at least three times the speed;
◆After listening to an online class for a minute or two, I feel extremely impatient Fast forward and then fast forward again;
◆ Order takeout and choose "immediate delivery". If the rider is a few minutes late, the review will be negative every minute;
◆ Even making friends no longer patiently starts with "What is your name", but "What can you bring me? No? Bye bye."
What you want to do, always think about it well before doing it. But when you really want to do it, you become impatient again, and in the end you want to do everything quickly. After fast forwarding
, you will turn around and struggle with yourself: is always hot for three minutes, how can you accomplish anything?
I once saw someone say: " We have all become greedy and eager for quick success. We always hope to choose the right answer at the beginning, but we forget that the most suitable things need to be filtered slowly over time. ”
Along the way, I have received some feedback – many people have asked me how I keep up to date with five or six hundred articles?
A long time ago, there have been people who felt a little weird about my behavior, but I took it as a polite compliment and didn't take it seriously.
Then, one day the account owner came to me and said that he wanted to apply for permission to reprint an article. At the same time, he also asked me how I keep updated.
Later, the relevant memories were evoked, and I discovered that more than one friend had actually given me feedback, and some even said they were encouraged by seeing me keep updating.
Among them, there are many friends who have stopped updating for a long time, update from time to time, and sometimes want to stop updating. Even, in my opinion, some friends have better accounts than me, but secretly I am looking up to them.
Many times, I still feel that Weimeng Xiaoyuan is a small broken account that has failed to develop, and I feel like a "child who fails to live up to expectations".
There was even a time when I felt embarrassed because I had written hundreds of articles on this. After writing so many articles, I still couldn’t claim to be “making more than 10,000 yuan a month from self-media”, which was a bit embarrassing.
So, when I heard someone say that they were encouraged by seeing me walking like this, I was shocked!
Think about it carefully, these are the accumulation of a person's years. There is indeed no obvious "monthly income exceeding 10,000 yuan", but there are actually many invisible gains.
We may be too one-sided, thinking that the so-called success requires a big house and a big luxury car. However, some people ride bicycles, live in simple houses, have three meals a day, are stable, and live a happy life.
" It is not only the quantified and visible harvest that is called harvest. "
For example, without me knowing, I continued to update this behavior in the courtyard, which brought positive influence to some people, which is an invisible harvest - You never know when or which sentence may save another person.
So, let me tell you how I am still updating. If you have followed Xiaoyuan very early, you will find that regular updates are only in these few months.
Yes, for 2/3 of the time, the courtyard was just used as a secret tree hole for output. Before operation and promotion, there were not many readers.When the interest comes, I update every day, sometimes even two or three articles a day.
was shocked and confused, so I stopped updating, thinking that no one was waiting to see it, so that was fine.
I am not a master of self-discipline. I am a very ordinary and serious lazy person, a typical "too lazy to be lazy but thick-skinned".
Maybe it’s because of this self-awareness that I’m shocked to hear someone is encouraged because of me.
can be said to be a bit magical. The written words accumulate and accumulate, and there are quite a few. From this point of view, perhaps the important point of continuous updates is- I talk a lot!
If you have any good things, you want to share them. If you have something on your mind, you have to write something. In this way, I have written it until now.
Of course, now that I am learning operations, I am also trying my best to raise the content to a new level. After all, you can only have fun by yourself when you are having fun. After all, you said you want to be the big brother, so you naturally want to take the people in the small courtyard to have fun with you.
Therefore, now I will consciously write more content that is useful for each other’s growth. I wonder if you can tell?
" Then if I don't talk as much as you, do I have to stop writing? "
In fact, I don't think there are people who really talk less, but the way they express themselves is different. Some people talk a lot and like to output through their mouths; some people talk a lot and like to use some methods to output, such as writing, painting, sports, etc.
" We are all ordinary people living in the secular world. Who doesn't have a little bit of love in his heart? "
So, in the final analysis, it depends on whether you face your heart honestly.
A soul that thinks more and talks to itself more is like a volcano that pretends to be sleeping. It looks quiet on the surface, but in fact it is undercurrent.
You also have such a vivid soul, but your attention is always tempted by various worldly pleasures - watching videos, playing games, chasing your husband, thinking about goddesses, etc.
"We always listen to him, our friends, and my mother, but rarely listen to ourselves. Of course, we have nothing to say. "
If you really want to continue to accomplish something, you can see if the following four aspects can give you some inspiration.
◆First, you must be interested.
They all say, " Only love can withstand the passage of time. " It is a bit difficult to continue doing something if you have no interest in it.
Just like if you want to experience sweet love, it is impossible to find someone who is not interested in falling in love. You don't have that kind of worldly desire for others. No matter how hard you force yourself, you probably won't be able to taste the sweetness.
Only if you are interested will you want to get closer and explore more. This will give you motivation.
Take the Xiaoyuan account as an example. Although it is still a small broken account, it still exists. If there was no interest at all, it would have been written off long ago. (Although it almost disappeared once or twice)
◆Second, remember to enter.
Naturally, in order to output, there must be input. After many people write, they will say that this forces them to input and learn.
The truth is simpler, just like if you don’t eat, you won’t produce anything by going to the toilet. If you want to keep updating, you have to have constant input of nutrients.
As far as I am concerned, when my mind is empty, I will look for books to read, or read other people's articles. For example, in order to research the title, I collected and sorted out 800+ articles and read them from time to time.
So when you say how to achieve continuous updating, it may be inseparable from actions in this area - With input, you will naturally want to output.
Just like the example given above: If you eat too much, if you don’t go to the toilet and give birth to something, you will feel panicked!
So, you know.
◆Third, live seriously.
If you have a good memory, you may find that the elder brother seems to mention this sentence often. Because I think many people now seem to be living, but the sense of life is not obvious. To put it simply: has some vitality, but not much.
What you feel when you enter your eyes is a body that is numb, anxious, and depressed.
" I was obviously running for a better life, but in the end I was running so hard that I forgot about life and had no life. "
In addition, what I mean by "living seriously" refers to focusing on some small things, not the "prosperity, wealth, and everything you want" that everyone immediately thinks of.
If you regard "a net worth of tens of millions, a large single-family villa, a limited-edition luxury car" as the standard configuration of a "serious life", then it is very likely that you will never live a life until the end.
Since my WeChat is open to the public, the number of friends has increased. Out of hundreds or even thousands of Moments, I feel a sense of unexpected surprise when I visit only a few Moments.
What did they send?
It’s the evening breeze blowing on the rooftop, and I can’t help but admire the comfort; it’s going out for a stroll and finding a fun little bookstore, and I’m as excited as if I’ve won a lottery; it’s running to the square to watch Seagulls with friends; it’s smiling brightly at the blue sky; it’s running in the sunshine ...
" It is rare and a small number of people who live a serious life! "
◆Fourth, maintain your mentality.
The world is impetuous and people's hearts are easily confused. If the mind is unstable, the mind will be scattered. After writing
, I felt that I had written a bunch of shit and doubted myself. Well, I stopped writing from now on. I persisted in writing for a while and found that it was not as easy or fun as I thought. Well, I gave up on it. After writing for a while, a certain period of time Broken, okay, it’s all in vain, just write a p...
If you really want to stick to something, it’s best to remind yourself to adjust your mentality at all times, and don’t be like a child who sits on the floor and acts out when he can’t get candy.
Beware of the "broken window effect": If one window is broken and is not repaired for a long time, more broken windows may appear next. Putting
here is starting to imply that I don’t want to persist anymore, and I may not want to write anymore in the future, and in the end I won’t even talk about “continuous updates”.
The above seems to be talking about continuous writing and continuous updating. In fact, the thinking logic mentioned is applicable to various situations in life.
For example, running, when you have the idea of serious life, you will understand that exercise can make your body healthier and stronger; after you are a little interested, adjust your mentality, start running, and enjoy the comfort of taking long strides and the wind blowing by your ears. Slowly, you will find that you are no longer slumped on the sofa and checking your phone.
Another example is studying, being interested in Chinese as a subject, and living a serious life in daily life, maybe going out to climb a mountain, and then realize the Tao Yuanming life style of "picking chrysanthemums under the eastern fence, and leisurely seeing the southern mountains." Such a feeling will make you unable to help but sigh with emotion. Therefore, the more you learn about this subject, the more exciting it becomes.
There is something I like to say to myself and others: " You should stand and shine in the world you love! "
When you are not shining, you are preparing to shine.
So don’t be afraid and just do it.Take your love to the extreme, and in the end what you love will embrace you in turn one day.
or above, please encourage us.
I am Bei Wang, and I also want to wish you a happy day today.
And thank you for always being by my side.
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