htmlI am 142 years old. Because of a fruitless first love when I was young, I have not been able to free myself for a long time and have no interest in men or marriage.
Until I was 37 years old, my father was seriously ill. Before his death, he was worried that I would be alone in the future. My mother divorced my father when I was 6 years old, and we reorganized our family. We have very little contact to this day.
Then my aunts, my eldest aunt, my second aunt, my second aunt, and my younger aunt took turns introducing me to men for blind dates in order to comfort my dead father. Of course, having missed the best of youth, the men left now are either troubled men or stubborn, divorced men. Anyway, normal men are a rare breed.
I don’t really want to find a man in my heart, but my friends around me are all married and starting a business, so it’s really a bit lonely for me to be alone, and no one will take care of me when I get sick. Decide or compromise, and start on the strange road of blind date.
Dalin is a fairly normal man I met on a recent blind date. At least he talks decently and doesn't ask you questions from the beginning about whether you plan to have children, whether you have a house, how much your salary is, etc. Dalin is one year older than me, divorced, and has a boy with his ex-wife. It is said that because of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, his ex-wife has always looked down on his mother, which led to the divorce many years ago. Child support is paid on time every month, and the rest seems to have nothing to do with his ex-wife and children, who are quite far apart. The ex-wife took the children back to her hometown in the south.
I heard Dalin cough a few times a few days ago. This time we met, I brought him a box of cold medicine. Regarding the current shortage of drugs, Dalin was quite moved, "I didn't expect you to be so thoughtful."
I said that I usually have the habit of preparing medicine. I usually keep some at home in case of emergency.
To be honest, this is only the fourth time I have met him. Usually, when busy with their respective jobs, they also communicate via WeChat and phone calls.
The first time we met was 3 months ago. The introducer arranged a dinner that lasted for more than an hour. The second time we met was the following week, when we went to see a movie. The third meeting was at the Malatang shop downstairs of his company. But this time, I brought him medicine in a private car at the entrance of his community.
He suddenly grabbed my hand and said, "Come over and live together. I'm alone anyway."
I rejected him because I thought it was too quick and said, "We have only met a few times and this is not appropriate." He didn't say anything.
Unexpectedly, I contacted him again later, only to find that he had deleted me as a friend and the message kept saying that it had not been sent. I asked the introducer, and the introducer's feedback was that the blind date man thought I was not interested in him, so it would be better not to waste our time.
Unexpectedly, he called me again yesterday. He said that he was actually quite interested in me, but it seemed that my attitude was not very firm. Finally, he asked me if he could go and live together? If you live there, try to have a relationship. If you don't live there, forget it. There's no need to waste time as an adult.
I still refused. My best friend said that I am mentally ill. Such a man is pretty good, and he is also very reliable in asking questions about his character (it is not difficult to find out about a person in a small city, as they are all inextricably linked).
So, am I really an old man? Or should people like me stay single forever?
is written at the back:
Adult love is indeed not like the pure campus style. Many of them are utilitarian and realistic. Although haste makes waste, too slow progress will indeed make the parties involved feel tired.
However, this heroine does not need to complain and feel sad. There will always be people who care about each other in this world. If he lets go, it means he doesn't love her at all.
What do you think, do you think the heroine should agree or refuse?
