Introduction
There is a folk saying: Husband and wife were enemies in the previous life.
Although this statement is full of joking, for some couples, it seems that there is some truth!
A senior netizen said that if husband and wife were enemies in the previous life, then they must owe each other. Since husband and wife owe each other something, they must repay it in this life. Even if some couples are in love with each other in this life, their love will not be perfect. In principle, in the world of mortals, all encounters in the world are destined; all partings in the world are arrangements by God.
This senior netizen went on to say that he has a colleague named Sun. This colleague and his wife are recognized by the neighborhood as a "model couple". At least, in the more than 20 years since their marriage, they have basically never blushed. And when many neighbors thought that the couple would grow old together, news came out that the couple was about to divorce. To the surprise of many neighbors, the couple actually divorced, which caused endless pain to their children.
, a senior netizen, continued to say that it is understood that the main reason why the couple parted ways was because the woman had a special relationship with her boss. Later, this special relationship was known by a colleague named Sun. Because the colleague named Sun felt shame, the couple went their separate ways.
This senior netizen continued to say that the most unpredictable thing in life is who you will meet and who you will leave. Because no one knows what the person they meet is like in the end. When you feel that the person you meet is different from what you imagined, you may say "goodbye", and the ending of "goodbye" is to go your separate ways and never get together again in this life. Although there may be a little unwillingness or a little reluctance to give up, there is nothing you can do about it.
People in ancient my country respected "fate" very much. What is "fate"?
"Fate" was originally a concept in religion. Whether in Confucianism or in Taoism , there is the saying of fate and opportunity.
An expert on religion said that the so-called "fate" is an invisible connection between people. This invisible connection contains opportunities and possibilities for encounters, including human emotions. In the love between people, the love fate between a man and a woman is composed of many coincidences, many mistakes, many suddennesses, many accidents, and many inevitabilities. Once the man and woman fall in love for life, they will be called "fate"; otherwise, they will be called not "fate".
This expert on religion went on to say that "fate" is a wonderful thing. It can bring two completely unrelated people together, thus promoting them to stay together. Of course, it can also completely separate two people who are originally very close, so that they will never see each other again until they die. Generally speaking, everything depends on fate. As long as two people are destined, even if they are separated for a short time, they will still come together after going around.
This expert on religion finally said that generally speaking, a man and a woman should be predestined before they are destined to be together. Once they are predestined, they will not be afraid of experiencing "there is no banquet in the world that lasts forever", and their love will become stronger over time until they grow old together. And when they are no longer destined to be together, even if there is a slight disturbance, their love will end in vain.
In fact, what this religious expert said is very reasonable. No, just on December 22, something like this happened on the streets of Sanya, Hainan -------
incident
A video posted online showed that at about 8 a.m. on December 22, a man beat a woman The man pulled the woman out of the house, and when he came to a pile of trash cans at the door of the house, the man first pushed the woman to the ground, and then overturned an upright trash can on the ground. After the trash can was overturned, the man ignored the woman's desperate struggle and forced her into the trash can.
According to Mr. Song, an onlooker at the scene, everyone was stunned by this man's actions. Many onlookers had this question in their minds: Who is this man? Who is this woman? Why did the man crazily stuff the woman into the trash can?
Mr. Song said: "While the onlookers were doubtful, they also criticized the man's actions. However, amidst the accusations from the onlookers, the man told the whole story, and when the onlookers understood the whole story, everyone fell silent."
Mr. Song continued: "According to the man, his name is Feng, who is 25 years old. The woman he stuffed into the trash can is called Zhou, who is 24 years old. They They are husband and wife.
Mr. Song continued: "Feng is a refrigerated truck driver who helps aquatic product bosses deliver goods all year round. Since Feng rarely has time to care about his wife Zhou, who has only been married for one year, Zhou often goes to play with her cousin." Perhaps because the two had been playing together for a long time, there was an inexplicable relationship between the two. Of course, Feng didn't know what the real relationship between Zhou and his cousin was like. But in 1 In the early morning of February 22, Zhou not only called her cousin's name in her sleep, but also praised her cousin as "awesome". At the same time, Zhou also said some indecent language in her sleep. All the talk that Zhou said in his sleep was heard by Feng, so Feng shook his wife Zhou awake angrily. After being forced by Feng, Zhou had no choice but to tell the truth about her relationship with her cousin. When Feng learned the truth, he felt that Zhou was simply trash, so the person in the video appeared One scene. "
Mr. Song finally said: "Through the persuasion of onlookers, Feng calmed down his emotions. Feng said: He could not bear the humiliation and he was determined to divorce Zhou. Zhou also said: Their marriage has come to an end, and she will go through divorce procedures with Feng after the property division is completed. "
According to Mr. Song, onlookers felt that it was a foregone conclusion that Feng and Zhou would break up. Maybe within ten or eight days, the two would go their separate ways.
The above is the general process of this incident.
When many netizens learned about this incident, they launched heated discussions.
Netizen voice
Netizen Jiji Waiwai: Zhou’s behavior is really a bit excessive. He is obviously a married person, but he insists on getting entangled with his cousin. His behavior is really abominable.
netizen said: "This kind of marriage really must be disbanded, let alone Feng. This matter is intolerable for any man." I think Feng’s decision to divorce Zhou was very correct.
In short, netizens have a lot of discussions.
Lao Hu’s point of view
Marriage requires loyalty. According to the relevant provisions of the " Marriage Law ", both husband and wife have the obligation to be loyal to each other.
In this incident, Zhou did something very "out of line", which caused him to lose his obligation to be loyal to each other. In this case, it is inevitable that his marriage will be in crisis. I hope Zhou can understand this and avoid making similar mistakes in his next marriage. What do you think about
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