Sister Dongyun’s mother-in-law saw that her son and the others were about to move to a new home. She asked Sister Dongyun for the key to the new house. Sister Dongyun said: No, mom, just call when you come.
Dongyun's mother-in-law was unhappy when her daughter-in-law refused to give her the key to the new house.
said they were unfilial and would not give her the keys to the house.
Mom, you said this at the beginning, if you can afford it, you can buy a house and move out, but I don’t want to live with you.
Now that we have bought a house, why are you coming to my house? Our family of three lives so well, but I feel very uncomfortable when you come.
Speaking of buying a house, Sister Dongyun and the others are still short of 200,000 yuan for the down payment, so they first ask her mother-in-law if she has it and borrow some. My mother-in-law said: I don’t have one, so I’ll borrow it from your parents’ family. I don’t have money to buy a house.
My mother-in-law didn’t have it, so Sister Dongyun asked her sister-in-law to borrow it again. My sister-in-law said: I have it, but I lent it to you. With your salary, mortgage, and milk powder for your children, when will you have the money to pay me back? What if my family needs money? In a word, my sister-in-law looks down on them and refuses to borrow money because she is afraid that they cannot afford to pay it back.
Seeing that both her mother-in-law and sister-in-law refused to borrow it, Sister Dongyun could only ask her natal brother to borrow it. Her sister-in-law knew that her sister-in-law wanted to buy a house, so she supported her sister-in-law without saying anything and lent 200,000 yuan to Sister Dongyun.
At this time, Sister Dongyun realized that her sister-in-law was a smart person. She usually seems to be unforgiving, but at the critical moment, she comes to help.
Sister Dongyun thanked her sister-in-law for her support. Her sister-in-law said: One family does not speak two languages and helps each other.
Sister Dongyun said to her husband Chen Shan: At the critical moment, you will see who is good to us, or my natal family.
I usually see your sister talking sweetly, brother: We, brother and sister, have to help each other. As a result, when we encountered difficulties, she not only refused to help us, but also attacked us and looked down upon us.
After borrowing money to buy a house this time, I realized that your sister is a hypocritical person who talks one thing and does another.
went back to her parents' house empty-handed every time, and said she would bring her daughter back to play with our son and have company. I saw that she just came here to get some food, and before leaving, she even took her son's snacks for her daughter to eat.
Sister Dongyun’s husband, Chen Shan, is a relatively dull man who doesn’t talk much.
Two years after Chen Shan and Sister Dongyun got married, Sister Dongyun’s belly has not moved yet. My mother-in-law was not happy and kept showing off to Sister Dongyun every day. What he said is that he has been married for so long and still has no children. Is there something wrong with his body?
Sister Dongyun felt aggrieved. She told her mother-in-law that it was not that she had a physical problem, but that she was under a lot of work pressure. She wanted to wait for two years to wait until her career was stable before having children.
My mother-in-law disagreed with Sister Dongyun’s idea. She said that once you get married, you should have children earlier. I want to have grandchildren earlier and I can work at any time.
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law often quarrel over the matter of having children, and Chen Shan becomes their sandwich board. The mother said that he didn't care about his wife, and it was up to his wife to tell him not to have children if she didn't want them. My wife said to him, your mother is really annoyed. I am extremely busy at the company every day, and when I come back, I have to look at her face and listen to her verbosity.
They all directed their grievances at Chen Shan. Chen Shan could only comfort his mother and not get angry with Dongyun. Comfort your wife, don't argue with me. If you want to have a baby in two years, just give it two years. Husband, I won't rush you. For my sake, stop arguing with mom.
Just like that, Sister Dongyun and her mother-in-law were trying to please Chen Shan. Although there is occasional friction, it is not a big problem.
After several years of hard work, Sister Dongyun finally became a key member of the unit and her salary doubled several times.
Chen Shan, a sultry man, worked hard and didn't talk much. He was appreciated by his boss and became the junior leader of the department.
The couple's salary has increased, and Sister Dongyun is a bit older. She has begun to make various preparations to have a child.
In the past few years, Sister Dongyun's sister-in-law also got married. My husband's family is in business and the financial conditions are good.
When Sister Dongyun’s child was born, her mother-in-law said: She was old and did not have the energy to take care of the child, so she asked Sister Dongyun to find a way on her own.
I saw that my mother-in-law's attitude had changed. Before she had children, she repeatedly said that she would have a grandchild as soon as possible. Now that her grandson was born, she said: Her obligation is only to raise her son, and his son's obligation is to provide for her in old age. As for her and her daughter-in-law, no one owes anything to the other. It is a matter of friendship to take care of your grandson, but it is your original intention not to take your grandson. Don't kidnap anyone!
Sister Dongyun was speechless. She knew that her mother-in-law said this so forcefully because her daughter supported her. She thinks that her daughter can give her money and she does not need to rely on her daughter-in-law.
There is no choice. My mother-in-law does not take care of the child. After her maternity leave, I can only ask a nanny to come back and take care of the child.
Since I hired a nanny, my sister-in-law also brought her children to the house for dinner during her break, saying that the two children had company to play with.
Come as you like. You don’t have to buy any fruit. When you leave, you have to take your favorite snacks from home. I told her, she said, it's not worth it, so care about it.
My mother-in-law also echoed, saying that if a child cares about a little bit of food, if he can afford to move out, I won't follow you.
My mother-in-law has already said this, and there is no point in living here anymore. Her mother-in-law cannot help me, but she will be angry with them.
Sister Dongyun discussed with Chen Shan to buy a house and move out.
So that’s how it started. When I saw my son and the others were moving to a new house, my mother-in-law wanted the key, but Sister Dongyun wouldn’t give her the key. #100heart-warming works#
