■ Author: Uncle Nanshan
■ Original work, plagiarism will be investigated
01, preface.
Some people say: The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also a kind of interpersonal relationship. Thinking about it, this sentence makes sense. However, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a special and difficult interpersonal relationship. Because, firstly, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law coexist in a community of economic interests, and there will be conflicts between economy and interests. Secondly, both parties want to control things by themselves, so conflicts will inevitably arise. Every family will have conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and these conflicts will subtly affect the relationship between husband and wife. Some marriages are even broken up by conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Of course, conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law arise from many aspects, such as conflicts of interest, power struggles, different views on things, etc. Many disputes between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law actually revolve around the men in the family. In fact, mother-in-law is also doing what is good for her son, while daughter-in-law is also doing what is good for her husband. However, there are also some disputes between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law due to the partiality of the father-in-law and the mother-in-law. One bowl of water is not equal, which results in resentment between the other son and the daughter-in-law. is like Aunt Li below, who made her eldest son and daughter-in-law feel unfair because of her partiality. As a result, the eldest daughter-in-law made a decisive decision.
02, Aunt Li has two children, and in a blink of an eye, they have reached the age of marrying.
Aunt Li’s home is at the foot of a mountain on the outskirts of Jiangcheng City. Aunt Li and her husband, Old Man Jiang, have two sons. The eldest son is Jiang Tao and the second son is Jiang Hai. Jiang Tao and Jiang Hai are one year apart in age, but their treatment is not very fair. Because Jiang Tao was relatively short and had some inconveniences in his legs and feet due to an injury when he was a child, he was not favored by his parents. But the second son Jiang Hai was handsome and well-behaved. As a result, the second son was favored by his parents. Originally, when parents have two children, it is normal to be a little partial to one child. After all, it is difficult to balance a bowl of water.
However, Old Man Jiang and Aunt Li have doted on Jiang Hai since childhood and often criticized and scolded Jiang Tao. Under the unfair treatment of his parents, Jiang Tao had some mental shadow. But he likes reading, and even in difficult circumstances, he can resolve frustrations through reading. It is said that "the book has its own beauty like jade, and the book has its own golden house". Although Jiang Tao failed to make himself rich through reading, he made his mood peaceful through reading. Therefore, he did not suffer much harm. As the two children grew older, Jiang Tao and Jiang Hai reached the age of marriage in a blink of an eye.
03, the eldest son lives in the city and married a second wife.
Although Jiang Tao was not loved by his parents when he was a child, he is still quite inspirational. He relied on his own efforts to enter a vocational university. In a vocational college, he worked hard to learn the skills of repairing electrical appliances. After graduating, he rented a store in Jiangcheng City and started his entrepreneurial life repairing electrical appliances. Not to mention, because of his professionalism, he was very good at repairing electrical appliances, and soon he made some money. So, he opened another electrical appliance store next to his own electrical appliance repair shop. In this way, his income became stable, and later he bought a small house in the city.
Because of his inspiration and self-motivation, Jiang Tao still got the love of a woman. This woman is quite beautiful, but she is a divorced woman, and she also has a daughter. But Jiang Tao knew that he was not outstanding in appearance and had inconvenient legs and feet. He was lucky to be loved by a second-married woman. So, he dated this woman named A Ling. A year later, they fell in love and got a marriage certificate.
04, the second son lives in the country and married the daughter of the village party secretary.
Jiang Tao's younger brother Jiang Hai grew up under the pampering of his parents. All the hopes of 's parents were pinned on their second son, Jiang Hai.Jiang Hai couldn't read, but he was very smart. After graduating from junior high school, he went out to work in the world. Unexpectedly, he also made a small fortune, returned to his hometown and opened a sesame oil workshop, and lived a good life. When the village party secretary saw that Jiang Hai was smart, he wanted to train this young man well, so he deliberately introduced his daughter to Jiang Hai.
In this way, Jiang Hai and Jiang Lili, the daughter of the village party secretary, began to date. Relying on Jiang Hai's smooth tongue, Jiang Lili married Jiang Hai. The two opened a horse oil workshop together and lived a good life. Old Man Jiang and Aunt Li became in-laws with the village party secretary, which was naturally very awkward. When they go out, they often mention their second son Jiang Hai and their in-laws' village party secretary to others, as if Jiang Hai is the only pride of the Jiang family, but they say nothing about Jiang Tao, who works alone in the city.
05, the eldest daughter-in-law gave birth to a boy and wanted to ask her mother-in-law to come to the city to take care of the child.
However, no matter what, after all, Jiang Tao and Jiang Hai are his own children . Now that they have grown up and have their own families, Mr. and Mrs. Jiang always feel that the burden in their hearts should be lifted. The two children are married, and the next step is for Old Man Jiang and Aunt Li to become grandparents. Not to mention, a year later, the eldest daughter-in-law A Ling became pregnant and gave birth to a big fat boy to Jiang Tao. This made Jiang Tao unable to close his mouth.
However, Jiang Tao is busy with business, and A Ling works in a private company. After her maternity leave, she will also go to work in the factory. As a result, no one will take care of the children at home. Because if they hire a confinement nanny themselves, they simply cannot afford the cost of seven to eight thousand a month. So A Ling asked Jiang Tao to call Aunt Li to help take care of the child. A Ling told Jiang Tao that it was very hard for her mother-in-law to come here, and she was willing to give two thousand to her mother-in-law every month as payment for taking care of the children.
06, but the father-in-law and mother-in-law refused, saying that the second daughter-in-law was about to give birth.
What Jiang Tao and A Ling never expected was that Jiang Tao called his mother, but before he could finish speaking, he was interrupted by his mother. Aunt Li said: "Jiang Tao, you and A Ling live in the city, so you can hire a nanny by yourself. Now, your sister-in-law Jiang Lili is also going to give birth. She is the daughter of the village party secretary, and she married into our Jiang family. We can't be underestimated by the Jiang family. So, I will stay at home and wait for Lili to give birth so that we can take care of her child. You have many ways in the city." After that, Aunt Li hung up the phone.
Put down the phone and Jiang Tao lowered his head in guilt. Jiang Tao was using speakerphone just now, so Ah Ling could hear her mother-in-law's words clearly. She said with tears, "It turns out that my mother-in-law has always looked down on me. She always thought that I was a second-married woman and not worthy of her attention. OK, we will take care of the child ourselves. No matter how hard it is, we will support it together." Later, it was Ah Ling's mother who helped take care of the child. However, Ah Ling's mother was sick and it was really hard to take care of the child.
07, eight years have passed in the blink of an eye, and the second daughter-in-law asked her father-in-law and mother-in-law to live in the city for retirement.
Time flies so fast. In the blink of an eye, three years have passed. Jiang Tao’s child Tiedan has gone to a public kindergarten in the city. In this way, Jiang Tao and his wife A Ling feel much more relaxed. One of their children goes to elementary school and the other goes to kindergarten. They usually only need to pick them up and drop them off. The rest of the time, they work hard and do things, and their lives get better and better. It is said that "a husband and wife are of the same mind, and their strength is as strong as gold." In the blink of an eye, eight years have passed. With their own efforts, Jiang Tao and his wife bought another big house and lived a life of ample food and clothing.
In the countryside, Jiang Hai was not sure about opening a sesame oil workshop, and he kept trying to make money by illegally raising funds in the village. As a result, he was almost imprisoned. Although he didn't go in later, he also exhausted his family property. Even some of the old money of Old Man Jiang and Aunt Li were spent by him and Jiang Lili, who loved playing mahjong. It is said that "poor and lowly couples are in trouble." Jiang Hai and his wife often quarreled over money. Later, they felt that the two old people living with them would affect them, so they urged Aunt Li and Old Man Jiang to find Jiang Tao for retirement care.
08, but the eldest daughter-in-law blocked them at the door: Your grandson knows how to make soy sauce.
In this way, Old Man Jiang and Aunt Li came to the city with their luggage.. It took them a lot of effort to find Jiang Tao's home. When they knocked on the eldest son's house, they found that the eldest son was not at home, only their eldest daughter-in-law was at home. So, they put down their luggage, and Aunt Li shouted happily: "A-Ling, my good daughter-in-law, we have come to the city to bring you a child. From now on, we will take care of you in your home."
When hearing Aunt Li's words, A-Ling was also stunned, but she woke up immediately. She blocked the door: "Father-in-law and mother-in-law, please don't come in yet. You said you came to the city to take care of our children. Mom, your grandson knows how to do soy sauce. He is now in the third grade of elementary school, and you just came. At first, we were willing to pay you to take care of our children, but you decisively rejected us. If you look down on Jiang Tao and me, you are also looking down on your own grandson. Are you being kicked out by Jiang Hai and Jiang Lili? You can't enter this door. We are willing to give you two thousand yuan a month as a pension!" After said this, A Ling closed the door decisively.
09, conclusion.
Friends, Old Man Jiang and Aunt Li dote on their second son, and only take care of their second daughter-in-law's children, but refuse to take care of their eldest son's and eldest daughter-in-law's children. Are such parents a little partial? Later, the second son and second daughter-in-law emptied their family property, chased the second elder to find an elder, and took care of themselves in old age. Do you think they brought it upon themselves? In the end, the eldest daughter-in-law blocked the door and refused to let them in. Did the eldest daughter-in-law go too far? welcomes everyone to leave a message in the comment area. Let’s discuss these shortcomings together. Thank you all.
[About the author of ]: Uncle Nanshan focuses on writing original emotional stories, folk tales and emotional beautiful articles, and has published 6 books on emotions, beautiful articles and stories. All major self-media platforms are original authors of V . Each major platform has accumulated millions of fan authors, and the cumulative clicks on each major platform have exceeded 600 million times. Uncle Nanshan aims to give you more positive stories through simple words, tell you some principles of life, and realize some beautiful little blessings in life.
