Only today I realized that three strange phenomena in a family are signs of decline. Let’s take a look!
In today's society, almost everyone hates Doubo, but there are still a small number of people who like this, and my neighbor Zhang Jun is the best among them.
His father started to block the situation from fifty yuan and lost every day. Not only that, his mother also joined in the fun, playing from the same place to the same venue. Not only did he lose money every day, but he also used all the money he borrowed from relatives and friends to block them.
I have a friend named A Ling, who is a bit like hers.
Her father started to be blocked from twenty yuan, and he was in a state of winning more and losing less all day long. When
is slightly better, every two or three days, his father will find an excuse to use 2,000 yuan to block the block, but it is still not enough. So after three or five days, he will take out 500 yuan or go around for two or three times to block the block. He will be happy and become addicted.
When there are difficulties, Zhang Jun would go out to work, while his parents stuffed the money they earned into their pockets. If you lose, you will borrow it from relatives and friends, or simply mortgage the house.
A Ling cried when she knew the situation, but she didn't have any way to deal with his parents. In the end, she ran to her parents' home to hide, and the matter was over.
As soon as the sky was dawn, I heard screams and scolding from outside.
It turned out that the neighbor next door had a quarrel again.
The neighbor's house is more than fifty square meters and has lived for three generations.
has grandparents, parents and two daughters.
The door opened with a loud noise, making everyone in the neighbors hear it.
cried out in the
, as if her daughter-in-law was scolding her parents-in-law.
Her daughter-in-law is really fierce, she is a housewife but has the highest say.
The two daughters have a bad relationship with their parents and have a good relationship with their grandparents.
In short, it is such a family, who does not humble each other.
Every day is to fight and quarrel, and let neighbors watch jokes. What is the point of doing this?
We all say that family shame is not to be public, but they open the door every day to show others the family shame.
The consequence of doing this is that others can get a topic of conversation.
is a sign of decline day after day for your own home.
The family is not together and it is difficult to achieve anything.
On the other hand, if a family abandons past grudges, it is possible to make their lives better and better.
It’s a pity that many people don’t understand this truth.
just let his temper flow, be irritable and restless, and treat the closest person as an angry bag.
People who do this often regret it when they are old.
Because you get old, you realize that no one really cares about you except for family members who are related to blood.
No matter how bad your son and daughter are, it is your child and cannot be replaced by others.
Someone may ask, why does other people’s families not break up when a couple quarrels? Because other people's families never end like this by quarrel once, twice, three or four times.
If a couple quarrels frequently, it proves that the two of them have no way to live a good life and can only end up with a peaceful divorce.
If a man attaches great importance to his own face, has a strong masculinity, and makes women lose face, then such a man will not feel at ease with him, and it is even more impossible that he loves you in his heart.
When I was a boy living in a relative's house, why did I impress me?
is because he loves face. He likes others to flatter himself and always shows that he looks like he is the best in the world.
All the classmates and teachers around him are afraid of him, and the timid and weak girls dare not be at the same table with him. They often stay away from him like they dodge poisonous snakes and beasts, fearing that they will not be able to do so.
If the couple have a very explosive personality, then they will quarrel every day and it is impossible to live a good life.
It is better for two people to live a complementary life, for example, one party is more impatient, the other party is more gentle.
When conflicts occur in this way, they will not intensify frequently.
My colleagues are like this at home.
My colleague has a slower personality, and his wife is impatient.
So they just can't argue.
My colleague is still insensitive. No matter how his wife scolds her, he doesn't take it to heart.
won't hold a grudge in your heart.
so they can pass through it all the time.
is now preparing for the third child. Although it is noisy, it is still very happy.
His wife is not an unreasonable person, but sometimes she has a hurry, but she has no bad intentions.
It is precisely because my colleagues know this well that they have always been tolerant and accommodated.
is a wife who is very successful in doing business because of her refreshing personality.
is a very rich and career woman, which may be the reason why my colleagues have always been accommodating.
They all say, look at your husband/wife, you can’t always stare at the other person’s shortcomings. Think more about the other person’s strengths and life will continue.
Don’t always dislike the other person. Think about what you already have now, such as family, career, house, car, and cute children.
So much stuff you already have, what else can you do?
I have to say that it is also a kind of wisdom in life.
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