It is not uncommon for blind dates to give up because the other party’s appearance does not meet the standards, but it is scared away because of its appearance exceeding the standards. This kind of new thing is not often happening.
There is such an aunt Gao, who is nearly 60 years old, but she is still slim and has outstanding appearance. She once scared away several uncles and uncles who went on blind dates with her because of her amazing beauty. She called Aunt Gao so beautiful and couldn't hold it.
Aunt Gao is 56 years old this year, widowed, with a monthly pension of 1,800 yuan, and lives in a 50-square-meter house alone.
Like most women, Aunt Gao loves beauty very much, pays great attention to dressing, and wears fashion. She usually goes downstairs to buy vegetables or even stay at home, and lives a very exquisite life.
Three years ago, Aunt Gao's lover unfortunately died of illness. Aunt Gao, who was extremely sad, turned sadness into strength, devoted herself to work wholeheartedly, and had no intention of seeking a good marriage again.
The friends couldn't bear to see her being alone, and they persuaded her to find a good person to be their company again. They couldn't resist the repeated persuasion. Only then did Aunt Gao open her heart and start finding a home.
Aunt Gao was very confident in her conditions. She wore a close-fitting cheongsam and showed off her on the spot.
The matchmaker praised repeatedly: "It's so beautiful!"
Aunt Gao was overjoyed: "It's because it's so beautiful that I scared away several times."
It turns out that Aunt Gao had participated in several blind dates, but the other party was scared away by Aunt Gao's high appearance.
Aunt Gao has a free and confident attitude towards life. No wonder she can still maintain such a young beauty in her nearly 60s.
It seems that youth not only relies on external maintenance, but also the straightforwardness of the heart is also important. It exudes youthful power from the inside out, making the whole person more energetic.
Aunt Gao's conditions are not outstanding in other aspects except for being young, but the requirements for his partner are not low.
Aunt Gao is a strong woman. She likes to control the financial power of the family and asks her partner to pay the salary, so she will manage the family's income and expenditure.
In addition, the other party’s salary should not be too low, and all conditions should be good.
At the request of Aunt Gao, the program team found Uncle Yu, who is 60 years old, divorced for many years, has a car and a house, and a monthly salary of 5,000 yuan.
Although Uncle Yu is 60 years old, he looks young and dresses up like Aunt Gao.
with a big back and dancing Latin dance , it is a perfect fashion style.
Uncle Yu looks young and fashionable, but he is very traditional and filial in his heart. I lived with my 85-year-old father for a long time and took good care of my father's daily life.
Mr. Yu strongly supports his son for attending a blind date.
The old man smiled and said, "Our family is quite powerful. We have whatever we want. Now we lack a filial daughter-in-law."
The old man is 85 years old and still full of energy. No wonder Uncle Yu is still so young at the age of 60. Family relationships are harmonious, happiness index is higher, and people are getting younger and younger. It would be even more perfect if you have another satisfactory hostess.
So the program team arranged for Aunt Gao and Uncle Yu to meet and go on a blind date.
As soon as we met, Uncle Yu never left Aunt Gao's eyes, and he praised her for being as beautiful as a fairy. Aunt Gao covered her face and smiled shyly.
Uncle Yu, who is knowledgeable, is not frightened and starts to chat with Aunt Gao enthusiastically.
Uncle Yu asked Aunt Gao if she liked sports, but Aunt Gao said she could not do anything.
While speaking, he took Aunt Gao to the place where he usually played table tennis. He taught Aunt Gao to play table tennis step by step, and Aunt Gao also studied with a smile.
This trick is quite powerful. Just like when I was a student, girls were always full of admiration for boys who love sports and know a lot.
played a few laps of table tennis, and the two of them had a preliminary understanding.
Aunt Gao said that Uncle Yu is a little short, but his appearance is quite satisfactory.
So the two moved outdoors to communicate.
Aunt Gao said his strengths as soon as he came up, that is, his appearance is young and beautiful.I used to send someone a dance video taken by her and her classmates while traveling, but the other party thought she was too young and fashionable and could not deserve her, so she gave up.
This immediately aroused Uncle Yu's curiosity and said that he also wanted to watch the video.
Aunt Gao immediately took out her mobile phone from her bag and showed Uncle Yu the video. While introducing that she was dressed differently from her classmates, her outfit was younger.
Uncle Yu smiled and said it was really good-looking. He asked Aunt Gao if he could send it to him. He couldn't see it clearly now, so he went home and read it slowly. As he said that, he took out his cell phone and wanted to exchange contact information with Aunt Gao.
Uncle Yu's trick is really high, and he calmly got Aunt Gao's contact information.
The more we talked, the more we became more and more speculative, and we had a very good impression of each other. So I talked about life after I was together.
Uncle Yu is a filial son, so he suggested that after the two of them were together, they had to move to his house. However, he is good at washing and cooking, and he can take care of his old father himself and will not let Aunt Gao worry.
Aunt Gao said that she is not a ruthless person, she really lives together and cannot sit idly by the elderly, but this kind of life makes her a little unacceptable. When I reach this age, I want to enjoy life with my partner more.
Given that the uncle was very satisfied with other conditions, it would be a pity to end like this.
Aunt Gao directly confronted Uncle Yu. If the two were together and Uncle Yu was willing to hand over the salary card to her, she agreed to watch it with Uncle Yu everywhere.
Uncle Yu felt a little confused when he heard this request.
Uncle Yu said that the divorce from his ex-wife was because his ex-wife held financial power, but he was too squandered, so he couldn't bear it and chose to divorce. Now that Aunt Gao said she wanted a salary card as soon as she came, he couldn't help but feel scared. But it’s not that I can’t hand in it. When the two of them are completely stable, it’s not too late to discuss it again. At the beginning, he said he had to pay a salary card, which means that Aunt Gao only values money. Even if she is good-looking, she is not a person who lives a life in a solid manner, so he definitely cannot accept it.
Aunt Gao also complained about the uncle. She felt that Uncle Yu was divorced, which was different from her widowed mentality. It was not like her having no distractions and Uncle Yu was too cautious. She didn't ask for a bride gift or pocket money, so she didn't agree to the salary card. It would be better if she didn't want such a man.
Although the two are very close to each other, one should respect the elderly and the other should live alone. In the end, the hand-in-hand failed.
Beautiful appearance is of course valuable, but an interesting soul is the one in a million.
If you want to get a sincere emotion, it is difficult to last forever just by relying on your outside.
The old saying goes: "Those who serve others by their color will become weak and their love will be relaxed." Appearance will always grow old one day. Only by enriching one's spirit, enriching one's connotation, and the harmony of the soul can we go long.
