Have you ever felt this way? I don’t know when you start to remember your age and even don’t want to face your age number. It is completely different from before. Every year I grow up one year, I will remember it clearly and attribute myself to "children", "half-old", "big children", and "adults" according to my age.
When it rains, do you remember that when you were a child, you happily rushed into the rain and sang loudly, "Down, let's go, let's go, I'm going to grow up"? Growing up is not only the expectation of your parents, but also the desire to get rid of the "parental control" and quickly grow up and embrace "adult freedom".
From elementary school to middle school, have you experienced "having aversion to school and stumble on school"? Do you feel resentful because some teachers discipline and punishment you? Have you ever admired "rebellious teenagers" and "problem teenagers" for a while, and regarded those fighting as youthful passion, and those premature love or even excessive relationships as the so-called true love, romance or show-off capital?
When you were in college, did you ever imagine the future and have lofty ideals and ambitions? Have you ever thought that entering university means entering the palace of freedom, and you no longer have to work hard like before the college entrance examination? Do you think that after graduating from college, you will become the "proud son of heaven" in the eyes of others, and you can easily achieve success in your career and be with your wife? Or become a corporate executive, or successfully start a business and become a "successful person", at least you have to have a house, a car, and a house full of happiness...
Have you succeeded now? Are you happy? If you are unhappy, is it because you have not achieved the achievements or success you have dreamed of, or is it because you have succeeded but are still not satisfied? Maybe it has nothing to do with your current situation, but you are neither able to satisfy the status quo, but you are powerless! This should be the reason why you are unhappy...
When you find that you are unhappy, will you begin to agree with this sentence "I am so stupid when I was young, I always hope to grow up." After all, happiness was an instinct when I was a child, and happiness became a skill when I grew up...
