On December 11, 2022, a video of a girl drinking late at night became popular on the Internet because the girl broke up with her boyfriend after four and a half years of experience in civil service. It really corresponds to the saying "The first sword to go ashore, kill the person who is in the mind first."
Emotionally speaking, everyone has the right to choose to stay or leave, and we cannot blame others from the highest point of morality. So from the perspective of pros and cons, the girl should thank this ex-boyfriend for her unmarried grace.
. I am not worthy of the exam. You who succeeded in the exam.
The behavior of your ex-boyfriend is undoubtedly revealed. You are only worthy of this and that you are not worthy of this and that you are only worthy of this and that you are not good at me. If I can't pass the exam, I can barely make do with you. If I can't pass the exam, I can't afford it. So your feelings are measured by some "things". They do not treat you as a person, but value, materialized "things". Then today he can say that he is not suitable for being together after being admitted to graduate school. If he makes some money another day, you will not be worthy of the person who has some money. Even if one day you are old, he will feel that your old age is not worthy of his youth. In short, there are tens of thousands of reasons to be separated. The summary is: As long as my life goes uphill in a certain aspect, you will not be worthy of it. His departure today is better than taking care of a child in the future. It is much better to become a woman who is second-marriage and children.
2. His vision and pattern are just like that. What era are they already in? In that era, their parents may not be able to eat enough and wear warm clothes. Civil servants can eat enough and stable. In the eyes of their parents, civil servants are the "end of the universe" and the matter of glorifying their ancestors. But now, to be fair, civil servants are stable, but everyone knows how much money they make. If a girl doesn’t work, is it still difficult for a boy to support his family? He actually felt that he was better than others after being admitted to civil servants, and his tail was soaring. From this we can see that he will not make much money in his life. Even if he does not break up, he will be bullied by him. He still feels that he is a great compassion for not breaking up with you. If a little girl works hard, it will not be difficult to make more money than he does! There is a relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend, and they respect each other. No one is taller or inferior, and no one is shorter or inferior.
3. Thank him for breaking up with decisively
He broke up with you without finding a good home. Then he has to thank his subordinates for showing mercy. If he has already found it, he will give you a seamless connection. Then, have you been fed to g for your youth in the past few years. By then, girls are older and it is even harder to find. How much will it cost to pay if you miss it! Get better soon after you get a part, find the next one, keep your eyes open and learn from your mistakes. I will calm down, why do I cry? Go home and set off firecrackers, and then send a circle to tell the world. God is extremely protective of you.
4. The way of heaven is good for reincarnation. Who will the heaven spare
Finding a partner means growing together, making progress together, and experiencing life together. The storm of life has not come yet, people have run away first! If you really intubate in the future, he will be the one who takes care of it, and he will be the one who gives up the treatment signature. There will be peaks and troughs in life. Don’t look down on your partner when you are at the peak. Take her and wait for you to have a low point, and your partner won’t ignore you. You feel that you are in a glory now, why are you so confident that you will not be the one who will take a wheelchair first in the future? ! If you have this kind of three views, you may find someone with the same three views. When you get old, you may not be responsible for anyone !
share an emotional view that I agree with very much "If you ruin other people's sincerity, there will always be someone who will give you twice. Don't lose your words, don't lose your virtue. The way of heaven is good for reincarnation, who will spare the moss."
Finally, it is emphasized that it is not to blame your ex-boyfriend for being immoral. Breakup is a kind of power. Others exercise their power, not illegal, and there is no immorality. But I hope that girls will not cry when they encounter problems, protect themselves and use wisdom to deal with problems in life, rather than tears.
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