In 2016, Lao Chunyan looked at the hungry child, but still called her mother: "Mom, can you come and help me take care of the child?"
"You haven't resigned yet"? The mother looked helpless when she heard her daughter's words. As soon as she arrived at her daughter's residence, her mother scolded her angrily.
"My daughter's career is a family. If you work so hard, your son-in-law will be unhappy at that time. What should you do?" My mother is relatively conservative and is afraid that her daughter will be rejected by her in-laws because of her work.
Lao Chunyan couldn't help crying herself. She looked at her sleeping son with tears in her eyes: "Mom, I love my current job."
A word of love makes Lao Chunyan work hard for half her life. The more glorious she is on the stage, she will feel as guilty as she is to her husband and son. She has watched countless couples who have been with her for life on the show, but she has always stayed alone in the empty room.
And all of this is just because she loves work too much and regards her career as the most important thing in her life. When she took her son to school, she saw her son's timid gaze, and she felt even more regretful and regretful.
But for her dream, she still insisted on...
01. Lao Chunyan, who is both talented and beautiful,
In 1990, the college entrance examination was underway. Lao Chunyan walked into the examination room with confidence, but found that the composition was not the question she was good at. "Mom, I may not be able to do well in the exam this time, and I don't perform well in Chinese."
"Daughter, there are so many subjects that you haven't taken, you have to give up"? The mother's rhetoric made Lao Chunyan suddenly wake up. She quickly adjusted her condition and actively prepared for the next subjects.
Not long after, the results were released. Lao Chunyan's Chinese is indeed not very good, but she has achieved good results in other subjects. Seeing his daughter win the top scorer in Liberal Arts in Shaoxing City, his parents were not very excited, but instead told Lao Chunyan very plainly that he should not be proud of his future path and always remember to be "humility".
With the expectations of his parents, Lao Chunyan entered Fudan University to study news broadcast. During this period, she actively participated in weekly magazines on campus and participated in various host competitions. Before she reached her junior year, she had already completed her credits in advance.
The classmate in the same dormitory saw that she had completed her credits and couldn't help but sigh: "Lao Chunyan, you are so awesome."
"If you don't work hard, more people will surpass you." After Lao Chunyan's words, the classmate collapsed on the bed and didn't want to talk to her anymore.
Lao Chunyan smiled, but she was thinking about something else in her heart. She received admission letters from two TV stations, which one should she go to?
If she returns to her hometown, she will be able to accompany her parents. If she stays in Shanghai to work, she will have to work alone. After thinking about it repeatedly, Lao Chunyan decided to work hard in Shanghai and make money to buy a house in the future and bring her parents to her.
1998, Lao Chunyan became the host of "Weekly Viewpoint" on Shanghai TV. This program is the most in-depth program in the station.
Every topic focuses on the most controversial and serious issues at the moment.
Becoming the host of such a program means that Lao Chunyan will be even more tired. She only has 5 hours of rest every day, and the rest of the time is divided into three parts. She must proceed in an orderly manner on topics related to broadcasting, collecting materials, and expanding, and she cannot leave any of them behind. When colleagues saw the energetic Lao Chunyan, they often praised her as an "Ultraman".
It is worth mentioning that the original Ultraman-themed TV series was also introduced to the domestic broadcast by Shanghai Oriental TV Station. At that time, on Oriental TV, many hosts liked this beautiful novel work very much.
However, Lao Chunyan only learned about it simply, but she would not watch the drama. Her job is so busy that she can’t afford to cook, so where can she have time to watch TV?
The busier the career, the more Lao Chunyan felt that her knowledge capacity could no longer keep up with the development of the times.Not long after, she decisively returned to Fudan University to study for further studies and pursue a postgraduate degree in economics.
Work is stressful and busy with study makes Lao Chunyan lose weight to the point of skin and bones. The leader also talked to her many times, so don’t force yourself too much, as it will be backfired.
But Lao Chunyan said: "Only when you are under pressure, you know where your shortcomings are."
Later, Lao Chunyan began to host many columns such as "Oriental Night News" and "Today's News". At the same time, she began to learn knowledge such as production, editing, and editing materials.
She is like a sunflower. She follows in this direction in which direction the light is in, never stopping. Lao Chunyan's parents often think that their daughter is so outstanding, and they don't know how difficult it is to find a partner in the future.
, but Lao Chunyan never thought about falling in love. If she hadn't met Qiu Zhengyi , she might have been single.
02. She has always tolerated her lover
In 2004, Lao Chunyan went to a newspaper to learn about the content of the broadcast.
“你好，我叫劳春燕，是新闻台的主持人”。 When the newspaper leader saw Lao Chunyan, he immediately called Qiu Zhengyi and asked him to contact him.
The first time we met was in the office, but Lao Chunyan and Qiu Zhengyi both had a good impression of each other. After the exchange was over, Qiu Zhengyi took the initiative to ask for her contact information, hoping to contact her more in the future.
Lao Chunyan nodded. After the two communicated several times, they confirmed their relationship. When Lao Chunyan told her parents about this, she couldn't believe that she would be able to confirm a relationship with a man so quickly.
Mother laughed and said, "The fate is here, it cannot be stopped." When she heard that the other person had good character and had very self-disciplined living habits, she agreed with her daughter's love with Qiu Zhengyi.
Less than a year in love, my mother urged Lao Chunyan to get married as soon as possible, because career is not as important as family.
Lao Chunyan doesn’t think so. She has worked hard for more than ten years to get the current good job. How can she give up her career for love?
After Qiu Zhengyi found out, he comforted Chunyan not to delay her work because of marriage. He will support whatever she wants to do in the future. After getting her boyfriend's promise, Lao Chunyan and Qiu Zhengyi got married.
However, just after her honeymoon, she wanted to go to Beijing to develop, which made her husband a little embarrassed. Not long after getting married, Qiu Zhengyi doesn't want to see things and think of others every day.
"Do you really think about it? Are you going to quit your job and work hard in Beijing?"
"I must go, will you support me?"
Looking at his wife with a serious look on her face, Qiu Zhengyi nodded.后来，双方父母希望她留下，也是丈夫一路支持她，才让劳春燕没有放弃自己的梦想。
Lao Chunyan wanted her husband to accompany her at that time, but Qiu Zhengyi had already made a career in Shanghai and did not want to give up halfway. Separation from another place just after getting married has brought great tests to this relationship.
After Lao Chunyan arrived in Beijing, she successfully joined CCTV to work. But the rest of her life made her cry several times. The low salary and long time are suppressing her development step by step. The salary brought by
is only enough for a few months of living expenses, and the money for renting a house is borrowed from friends. She dared not tell her husband, afraid that the other party would worry.
. She was just married and was even more afraid that her husband would give up on her when he met another girl.
Every day, Lao Chunyan plans her time into countless small directions. No matter how late she is, she calls her husband to communicate at the first time after get off work.
The husband will be very moved at first, but over time, he will be a little bored. Qiu Zhengyi told Lao Chunyan that if you are busy with work, don’t always think about your home.
During that time, Lao Chunyan was very entangled. On one side, she had family and career. What should she do?
好在，丈夫并没有责怪她的独自离开，短暂的抱怨后，对她更好了。 Every weekend, my husband would run from Shanghai to Beijing to accompany Lao Chunyan.
During the Chinese New Year, Lao Chunyan could not return to her hometown, so her husband went to her father-in-law and mother-in-law's house to celebrate the Chinese New Year with a lot of gifts. Sometimes, I would take my parents with me and have a meal together.
The support of her husband has made Lao Chunyan’s struggle more motivated.
03. Owe his son, but still can't let go of his career
Later, Lao Chunyan finally entered the "China Legal Channel" as the host and gained a foothold on CCTV. In 2009, when Lao Chunyan was working, she found that she felt a little vomiting.
After going to the hospital for examination, she realized that she was pregnant. Only then did his career stabilize and another choice came. This time, Lao Chunyan still chose her career and insisted on getting pregnant and going to work.
The leader asked her to host some more relaxed programs for her health. With more time, Lao Chunyan can also have a good rest.
"Daughter, you'd better go back to Shanghai." The mother was worried about her daughter and occasionally went to Beijing to visit her. Seeing that my daughter was about to get up very early and she had to go to the bus with a big belly, my mother felt so uncomfortable.
"Mom, I didn't give up before, and I won't give up now." Lao Chunyan's persistence has disappointed her family again and again. Her husband never advised her to give up her career, but just asked her to pay more attention to her health.
After having a child, her husband will go to Beijing every few days and take more time to accompany her. Soon, Lao Chunyan gave birth to a son, and she quickly rushed to her career after her confinement.
At that time, Lao Chunyan asked her mother to come to Beijing to take care of the children, but the mother had to cook and help take care of the children alone. It was so hard.
After thinking for a long time, Lao Chunyan still asked her husband to take the child to Shanghai and asked her parents-in-law who were idle at home to help with him.
After his son went to kindergarten, Lao Chunyan's career ushered in a new breakthrough. She was selected as the host of " Focus Interview " and serves as one of the top ten important programs on CCTV.
Several years have passed, and my son is 7 years old and is going to elementary school. For the sake of the future of the child, Lao Chunyan brought the child to her side again.
“妈妈”，儿子小声喊了一句妈妈，就躲在爷爷奶奶的身后，不敢和她靠近。 Lao Chunyan's face changed again and again, and her heart felt like blood was dripping from her.
Since her year old, her son has been living in Shanghai and can only contact her by phone. She can only see her child two or three times a year.
I haven't seen each other for too long, and the relationship between mother and son has become very unfamiliar.
"Abao", Lao Chunyan could no longer hold it back. She hugged her son, and her husband patted her shoulder: "Don't cry anymore, just spend more time with her son in the future."
After her son came to her, Lao Chunyan's career was still at its peak, and she not only wanted to report it in Taiwan. He is also often sent out. In recent years, he has been to Shaanxi, Sichuan, Hunan and other places to explore the Red Army culture.
Along the way, Lao Chunyan's career has been incredible, but she left all her debts to her family.
Even if her father is sick, her husband will help him take care of him. Her daughter can only call to communicate.
The son is not unfamiliar with her, but he is not particularly close.
Occasionally, when she was going to an interview in another place, her son would ask her: "Can't you spend more time with me?"
劳春燕眼眶红润，作为妈妈她又怎么不想多陪陪儿子呢？ Unfortunately, she still has her own dream to persevere.
Fortunately, in the 16 years since she was separated from her husband, Qiu Zhengyi's heart for her has never changed, but instead supports her all the way. This is the case with your husband, and you will have no regrets in this life.
Conclusion:
For the outside world, Lao Chunyan was the one who was confident in the news and the one who was generous in the interview.
But Lao Chunyan is a crying wife and son in private. When she saw her son questioning her why she didn't accompany her, she couldn't help crying.
When she hears her husband support her and let her be herself forever, she can't help but burst into tears.
Lao Chunyan's scenery is the reward for her hard work for decades. But she can only taste the hardships behind it.
