In Guizhou, a woman divorced her husband and her two children were raised by her husband.
The woman returned to her parents' home after divorce, but later the woman became ill and became more and more serious. Seeing that there was not much time, her family refused to let her in.
According to the female sister, according to their customs, a married woman cannot return to her parents' home to live in peace after she dies.
So they carried the terminally ill woman to the woman's ex-husband's house.
But the ex-husband's family refused to let the woman in because they had divorced.
The woman's two children looked at her dying mother and were deeply saddened. They knelt in front of their grandfather crying and begged them to give their mother a place to rest.
Finally, my grandfather's house temporarily built a shed with plastic cloth outside the door, and used a wooden bed to bring the woman to lie there.
The two children still love their mother very much, and they are saddened by their mother's side.
spent the last time with my mother.
I was really sighing when I saw this video.
As the saying goes, "A daughter who is married is poured out by water."
The greatest sorrow of a woman: getting married is not a family member, and getting divorced is not a family member. Where can I have a family in the world?
How ignorant it is to face a person who is about to die, not talk about human feelings or family affection but to talk about customs.
The parents who gave birth to her and raised her, and the brothers and sisters who were sympathetic, could not accept her.
The ex-husband who is one day and a hundred days old, you have children for him, but he cannot take you in. Such a blow may really be worse than death if you live.
The times are progressing and science and technology are developing. Our achievements today are achieved through solid labor and hard work, and have nothing to do with customs (bad habits).
But reality will let you know:
Some families, getting married means having a broken relationship with their original family.
Sometimes, you expect your parents to be your strong backing, but your parents hope to get rid of your burden as soon as possible.
The place where you have lived for twenty or thirty years has no place for you overnight.
I remember the first time I went back to my parents' home after getting married. When I stepped into the entrance of my parents' village, I felt extremely excited and extremely excited.
The first thing I met was the neighbor aunt, and I greeted her enthusiastically.
Aunt also responded to me enthusiastically and said with a smile: "You are here!"
I was stunned? "Come"? I was obviously going back to my own home, so why did I "come"? Only when guests use the word "come".
I replied awkwardly: "Oh, I'm back." I specifically emphasized the word "reply" with the key points
Then I met my uncle, uncle, and cousin-in-law, and the same greetings were: "You are here."
Even my two-year-old nephew was like this, jumping happily and said: "Auntie, mother-in-law, aunt is here."
has only been less than a year, and although my household registration is still here, I became a "guest".
At that moment, I deeply realized the meaning of the saying "A woman after getting married will be a guest when she returns to her parents' home."
But fortunately, they treated me as a "guest" as always. The second year after marriage, I spent the New Year at my parents' home, and the feeling of reunion and the friendly scene of lights have not changed.
I saw a netizen telling himself: After getting married, although he lived a good life, he always felt like he was living under someone else's roof.
This feeling made her very uneasy and couldn't sleep every day. She lives in a self-built house in the countryside. If she divorces one day, she will have nowhere to live.
So she took all her savings and paid the down payment for a house. She slept very well on the day she signed the contract.
Even if life will be harder in the future, this feeling of independence is very down-to-earth.
Writer Li Xiaoyi said: Women should make a living first and then love.
deeply agrees with it.
No matter when, women must be self-reliant. Only when your wings are hard enough can you resist the ups and downs of life.
points [Like] and [Follow], I hope you and I will not be afraid of the wind and rain and move forward bravely. May every woman have the capital to stand proudly in the storms of life and accompany her lover who is in the same boat for the rest of her life.
material source: Miowin Video
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