005, a 19-year-old man, Liu Ting, walked into the threshold of university with his seriously ill mother on his back.
Then Liu Ting's deeds of "carrying his mother to go to school" were reported by the media, and Liu Ting was also named " National Moral Model ".
But 14 years later, this filial son, despite his mother's firm opposition, suddenly became a woman and even participated in a beauty pageant.
Now, 8 years have passed, what happened to Liu Ting?
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Liu Ting was born in Shuanglin Town, Huzhou in 1986. Although his parents were ordinary workers, before Liu Ting was 13 years old, the family of three was having a happy time.
However, after Liu Ting was 13 years old, all happiness came to an abrupt end.
This year, Liu Ting's mother unfortunately suffered from severe " uremia ".
dialysis treatment not only cost all the savings in the family, but also made Liu Ting's parents shamelessly borrow a lot of money from relatives and friends. When they could no longer borrow, their father gritted his teeth and simply sold the house at home, but he still couldn't fill the same medical expenses as the bottomless pit.
The originally warm and happy home became so sad because of my mother's illness, and my father began to remain silent.
One day, Liu Ting was in school and his father suddenly came to find him.
The father took out 50 yuan from his pocket and handed it to his son. He touched Liu Ting's head and said slowly, "Son, take good care of your mother. I went out to work. After making money, I will come back to treat your mother." After that, he turned around and left, slowly disappeared from Liu Ting's sight.
After the father left, the burden of taking care of his mother fell on the young Liu Ting. Although it was hard, Liu Ting didn't feel tired at all when he thought that his father had made money and would come back soon.
However, a year has passed, two years have passed... Liu Ting and his son have not seen their father come back, and they have never received a penny from him.
At this time, Liu Ting realized that his father ran away.
Seeing that her husband disliked her dragging the family and left, the mother felt more and more sorry for her young son. She secretly tried to commit suicide several times, but they were all discovered by Liu Ting and his relatives in time.
Father is gone, and his mother wants to leave him, Liu Ting doesn't understand what's going on. He could only beg his mother again and again, not to leave himself behind.
The son's begging was pierced in the mother's heart like a needle. She couldn't help but hug her son's head and burst into tears.
I cried enough, and the mother and son made an agreement. My mother promised Liu Ting to live well and never do stupid things again. Liu Ting also promised her to study hard and take her to a large hospital to cure her illness after she earned enough money in the future.
When school is not very tired, Liu Ting will do odd jobs to subsidize the family income, and with the help of some enthusiastic relatives, although life is difficult, Liu Ting still takes his mother strongly to survive.
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005, Liu Ting was admitted to the School of Arts of Zhejiang Agricultural and Forestry University .
This was originally a great event worth celebrating, but when it came to Liu Ting, he was worried: for so many years, he has been taking care of his mother. What should his mother do if he went to college?
After some thought, Liu Ting made a bold decision, "I want to take my mother to school!"
Liu Ting did not expect that the school soon notified him, waived his tuition and miscellaneous fees, and arranged for him the opportunity to work and study. Considering that it was inconvenient for Liu Ting to take his mother with him, the school specially rented a house for him near the school.
Liu Ting was very moved. He took his mother on a difficult road to study.
During his time in college, Liu Ting not only ran back and forth between the classroom and the rental house every day, but also had to take time to work. He saved money and kept the little money he saved from working to buy medicine for his mother to see a doctor. In order to take good care of his mother, he also learned to measure blood pressure and massage, and forced himself into a "medical student".
Sometimes, because they were worried about throwing their mother alone in the rental house, Liu Ting carried his mother on his back to school, which also made the students around him gradually know his story. While cheering for Liu Ting's strength, they decided to do something for the miserable mother and son.
So, many college students began to promote Liu Ting's deeds in school newspapers and launched a fundraising campaign for him. As a result, more and more people knew his story, and even media outside the school came to interview him.
Liu Ting's deeds of returning his mother to school are becoming more and more popular. Caring people in society have extended a helping hand to him and raised a large sum of donations for his mother.
I have money and can cure my illness, but Liu Ting can't be happy at all.
It turned out that not long ago, when Liu Ting took his mother to the hospital for examination, the doctor pulled Liu Ting aside and quietly told him that his mother's kidney had completely atrophy. The only way at the moment is to undergo kidney transplantation as soon as possible, otherwise there would be no time left.
When Liu Ting heard this, he immediately expressed his intention to donate his kidney to his mother. However, due to Liu Ting's long-term malnutrition, the doctor gave him a physical examination and found that many of his physical indicators were not qualified.
"Mom is critically ill, but I can't save her!" Back at the rental house, Liu Ting tried hard to restrain his emotions and prevented his mother from noticed. After his mother fell asleep, he could no longer hold it back and covered his face with a quilt and cried all night.
The next day, seeing Liu Ting's swollen eyes crying, the mother tried to squeeze out a smile and said to her son, "Mom has such a good son as you in this life, it's worth it." But when she thought of leaving, her son was living alone in this world, the mother couldn't help but burst into tears.
Just as the mother and son were crying with their heads in their arms, Zhongshan Hospital affiliated to Fudan University sent a blessing to Liu Ting and his son. The doctors in the hospital paid attention to their news and expressed their willingness to perform a kidney transplant on Liu Ting's mother for free.
Fudan University Zhongshan Hospital Affiliated to Fudan University is a large hospital with a large platform and rich resources. Not long after, the hospital matched Liu Ting's mother with a suitable kidney source, and then arranged an operation for her.
The operation was very successful. Liu Ting's mother gradually returned to her normal life and no longer needed her son to carry her with difficulty.
In order to express gratitude to those enthusiastic people, Liu Ting donated all the remaining love donations after the treatment to his alma mater to set up a scholarship to his alma mater to help college students who are in trouble like him.
Because of Liu Ting's actions, he was named the National Moral Model of 2007 and became a role model for contemporary college students.
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Liu Ting lived up to expectations. After graduating from college, he found a good job and had a stable income. The life of the mother and son gradually got on track.
However, as life gradually improved, unexpected things happened.
Liu Ting made money and actually bought a lot of girls' belongings with his mother on his back, including stockings, dresses, high heels, lipsticks...
Liu Ting locked these things in the cabinet. When his mother was not at home or fell asleep at night, he opened the wardrobe, secretly put on his dress, put on stockings, high heels, and painted his eyeshadow and lipstick, dressed himself up as a charming and beautiful girl, and then looked at the mirror with one circle left and right.
As time goes by, he becomes more and more unable to stop. Once, he can't help wearing women's clothing during the day, but his mother hits him right away.
The mother, who was stunned for a while, was furious and scolded her son in a scattered manner, and ordered Liu Ting to take off these inappropriate things and throw them into the trash can.
But Liu Ting, who has always been well-behaved and obedient, rejected his mother's request and said bluntly that he just wanted to be a "beautiful woman in a skirt."
"Are you sick!" The mother rushed up and beat and scolded her son. At the same time, the unusualness of her son when he was a child also came to her mind.
As early as when Liu Ting was very young, his behavior was very different from that of ordinary boys.
When Liu Ting went to kindergarten, he couldn't put down his beautiful dolls. When he went to elementary school, he didn't like to be naughty with the boys. Instead, he was willing to play with the little girls jumping rubber band kicking shuttlecock, and even imitate their whispering words. Sometimes he also used the orchid finger action, which made the students around him laugh.
At that time, Liu Ting's mother saw this and thought it was a play between children. She said a few words of blame and passed it. She didn't take it to heart. She never expected that it would develop to this point today.
In fact, over the years, Liu Ting has always envied the female classmates around him. He always fantasized about how he could grow long hair like them and dress up himself in a colorful way, but he had to take care of his mother, and the burden of life suppressed these thoughts mercilessly.
Until Liu Ting started working, he didn't need to worry about his mother's illness when he recovered. He also had financial conditions. His thoughts when he was young were like getting the seeds of water and sunshine. He broke out of the ground desperately, and then grew up wildly.
Liu Ting wished he could transform himself into a fashionable and beautiful modern girl immediately.
But Liu Ting's mother could not accept these ideas of her son, so on December 12, 2013, she took her son to see a psychiatrist. In her opinion, if a doctor can cure her terminal illness, she will definitely cure her son's disease.
But the doctor told them that Liu Ting suffered from " gender cognitive impairment ". This disease cannot be cured. The best way to avoid causing pain to patients is to let them live the way they like, that is, let Liu Ting wear women's clothing.
"If it really doesn't work, you can consider sex change surgery ." The psychologist's last words shocked Liu Ting.
Doctor's words strengthened Liu Ting's determination to be a woman. He collected many successful cases of transgender at home and abroad, and constantly persuaded his mother, hoping that she could understand her inner thoughts.
Seeing that her son's desire to be a woman is so strong, the mother had to agree to his request with tears in her eyes. She had been struggling on the verge of life and death for so many years and understood in her heart: living a safe and happy life is better than anything else.
In August 2014, Liu Ting held a press conference in Guangzhou, announcing that he was ready to become a woman with a transgender relationship.
The filial son who carried his mother to school actually wanted to be a woman? As soon as the news came out, it caused a lot of discussion.
They can't understand the nationally renowned "moral model" who doesn't do a good man and wants to turn into a woman with a knife. Many people even said bluntly that he is a bad habit and embarrassing person.
But Liu Ting has made a decision and doesn't care about the outside world's eyes at all.
At the same time the public was in an uproar, a beauty hospital in Guangzhou took the initiative to find Liu Ting and expressed his willingness to complete a sex change operation for him.
From the press conference to April of the following year, Liu Ting underwent more than 20 major and small surgeries, including facial modification, chest filling and sexual organ modification. These surgeries were very successful, and Liu Ting then became a confident and beautiful woman.
After the surgery was restored, Liu Ting couldn't wait to run to the police station to apply for a new ID card. The gender column was filled in with "female", and his name was also changed to the gentle and nice " Liu Ting ".
Liu Ting, who became a woman as she wished, soon ushered in a new life. In the International Miss United Nations Beauty Pageant held in 2015, Liu Ting mustered up the courage to sign up. With her beautiful and generous performance, she won the "Most Beautiful Butterfly Transformation Award" in one fell swoop.
http://www.cncn.com/19/2016/United Nations Women's awarded Liu Ting the "2015 Women's Media Award Women's Model Award".
Two days later, Liu Ting held a new book launch conference, and she wrote her mental journey from a filial son to a transgender beauty into a book "I am a beauty".
Such a beautiful life did not last long. As the popularity of beauty pageants and beautiful writers gradually faded, people's attention to Liu Ting became increasingly weak.
In 2018, Liu Ting simply took her mother away from Guangzhou and returned to Lin'an near her hometown in Zhejiang, hoping to live a peaceful and happy life there.
At this time, Liu Ting, against the backdrop of her sexy clothes and beautiful makeup, seemed to be a rose stained with morning dew. No matter which man saw it, she would be moved. For a moment, many suitors gathered around her.
However, when these suitors learned that the beauty in front of them was once a man, they immediately ran away without looking back.
During this period, Liu Ting also found her father who had been missing for a long time. However, when her former son became the daughter in front of her, her father was silent and said nothing.
In order to record the little things about her life, Liu Ting opened Weibo . She thought she would get a lot of attention, but her Weibo page was very average and she did not have much attention.
04
Now, Liu Ting is 36 years old, and has unknowingly entered the ranks of middle-aged people, and is still alone.
From a filial son who moved the whole country, to a beauty pageant who had transformed his gender, to an unknown single woman now, Liu (Ting) Ting has experienced a lot along the way, and she is probably the only one who has a deep understanding of the warmth and coldness of the whole country.
If time goes back and give Liu Ting another chance to choose, I wonder if she will choose to be a woman again?
Author: Qiao
Editor: Xue Qingning
References: Phoenix Information "National Moral Model Liu Ting will undergo a sex change surgery: I hope society can tolerate me"
Southern Daily ""Born Mother to School" Liu Ting wants to become a "daughter body""
