Young people’s attitude towards feelings is two-sided. Some people are devoted to feelings and are willing to give everything they have for their feelings, while some people only regard feelings as their own pedals and as tools for their lives.
As society gradually becomes materialized, people are accustomed to mixing interests in their personal emotions, which will become the fuse for the broken feelings. Young people often do things that others cannot understand for the people or things they pursue. Perhaps the parties involved have devoted too much effort to it.
Especially in love, once it involves parting ways, one party will inevitably be hoarse and keeping. If it fails to keep, it will even cry, make a fuss and hang itself. Is this worth it? People should learn to respect themselves. If they trample on their own dignity, they will not be respected by others.
In Jiangsu, a young woman's behavior attracted everyone to stop and watch. On a dark and windy night, a young woman kneeled on the ground in pajamas with barefoot on her face, looking pitiful.
In front of the woman kneeling, there was a young man. The man had no sympathy for the woman's appearance of kneeling on the ground.
By understanding the relationship between the man and the woman was originally a boyfriend and girlfriend, because her girlfriend did something wrong, the man was angry and asked to break up. The woman regretted it and used kneeling to keep the man's people and hearts.
The woman's behavior was pointed at by the people around her. She didn't feel embarrassed at all, as if she was full of her whole body and mind on the man. Seeing that more and more people were around, the man didn't want to make things worse. He came up and helped the woman up from the ground. He thought the man had forgiven him, but he didn't expect that the man was just trying to calm down.
The woman didn't satisfy herself when she heard this. She knelt down again and hugged the man's pants, crying louder. This scene made people around her feel sorry for the woman.
No matter what the reason is, trampling on one's own dignity is an irrational behavior. A man will not have any soft-heartedness. On the contrary, his status in his heart will only become lower and lower.
This scene was also posted online by passers-by. Netizens did not express any sympathy for the woman's behavior. On the contrary, most netizens believe that the woman violated the principle issue, which made the man so heartless.
After all, girls have always had higher status in love than men. If it weren't for an extremely serious problem, how could they be so low?
Some netizens also said that love has deteriorated, and love has not a high status in most hearts. Women are more likely to be unwilling to lose the convenience brought by men, including but not limited to care and money. Thinking that their ATM is gone, they would kneel down on the street without regard for their face.
Author's opinion
No matter what the reason is, kneeling down is not the right choice. As an adult, you should be responsible for your behavior. Your parents who gave birth to you did not kneel down. How could you kneel down easily to a man? If you do something that is sorry to the man, the woman will blame her for breaking up, so it is better to pay for her mistakes freely.
From one aspect, if a woman does not make a principled mistake, it will only be a deep love for a man. This kind of love is great, and humble begging should not be exchanged for man's forgiveness.
People should look forward, and the same is true for feelings. They should not hang themselves on a tree. Perhaps there will be a better partner waiting for them in front of them. Such a lowering posture without any limit will only make their status in love lower and lower.
