Go home without any face, so I went to various companies to find jobs. During the two years after graduating from college, I was involved in job hunting and odd jobs, but I still didn’t know what I was going to do! Later, when I went home during the Chinese New Year, I chatted with the elders in the village and asked them how to solve their confusion. Through repeated study and exploration, I was surprised to find that I had escaped from the emotional quagmire and found my own way of life.
Many people talk about getting married and building a business, but their parents told me that if you look at this word in reverse, you will become a businessman. In my opinion, having what I want to do becomes my backbone, but on the way to find my partner, I fell into a state of confusion again.
At the beginning, it was influenced by the theory of no marriage on the Internet, and coupled with the compromise status of the older generation in marriage, I have questions about whether to get married or not, why do I need to get married and what is the meaning! My parents told me that marriage is something passed down from generation to generation by the older generation. The meaning is different for everyone.
Later, I was confused about what kind of people I looked for. Many people around me said that it is the same as anyone who got married, and people are similar; but some people say that getting married is a lifelong thing, which is harder than finding a job, so you should be cautious, especially for girls. After more than two years of blind dates, I kept questioning myself and asking myself, I actually walked out of the fog and saw the person I was looking for.
Ten years, I also shed tears silently at night because of my confusion. I repeatedly hit walls on the job search platform and during blind dates, and was questioned by others and myself. But in this process, I learned to spare a while to give my nerves and brain a vacation. Only when my mentality is calm can I see my own path clearly. But at the same time, constantly improve yourself, not pursue your goals, not for anything, not for anyone, exercise, try reading books, live regularly, and don’t stop the pursuit. Although you stumbling, every step in your life will not be wasted. Even if you are taking detours, you will eventually break out of your cocoon and become a butterfly.
