■Author: Uncle Nanshan
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01, volume beginning.
When it comes to marrying into a marriage, modern people are not unfamiliar with it. : The meaning of marriage between a man and a woman is to marry, the man becomes the woman’s family and live with her parents. This form of marriage has existed for a long time in the history of our country. According to the records of "Records of the Grand Historian", this form of marriage has been described, which reads: " Chunyu Kun , Qi is a son-in-law." can be seen from this that during the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, the situation of marriage in marriage had already occurred, and this phenomenon was quite common at that time. With the development of society now, everyone's thoughts have become more and more open, not as feudal and conservative as the older generation. But as for the matter of getting married, there are mixed reviews.
Some people say that getting married is a son-in-law. Such men are often incompetent men, or such men are men without masculinity. In fact, this statement is biased. With the development of the times, many families are only children. There is only one child in the family. It is not embarrassing to recruit a man to marry into a family, which can not only pass on the family line, but also allow the man to have a better life. In fact, it is not a shame. However, due to the influence of traditional concepts, if a married man wants to obtain a certain dignity, the woman must stand on the man’s side, take care of his face, and give the man full dignity. Only in this way can the marriage be more stable and happy. , such as Song Lihua in the following text, did it very correctly.
02, Song Lihua is an only child, and she will become an older single woman if she is not as tall as she is not as low as she is.
Song Lihua is an only child, the kind of girl who "has a daughter in the Yang family grow up and no one knows about her in the boudoir." Of course, she does not have the prosperous beauty of Yang Yuhuan , but she has the cultivation of an independent and intellectual woman. It is precisely because of this that Song Lihua relied on her own efforts to enter a key high school peacefully and then entered a good university. After graduating from university, Song Lihua returned to the beautiful Jiangcheng City. Through applying for a job, she joined a foreign company and became a white-collar worker in this company. Every month, Song Lihua can get more than 8,000 yuan in this third-tier small city, such salary is also very good.
Song Lihua is tall and has fair skin. Although she does not have the appearance of falling fish and falling geese, she is also a more beautiful girl. However, Song Lihua does not like to date others. In the eyes of outsiders, she is the kind of cold beauty. Song Lihua's parents also ask the man to marry into the woman's house, so many boys dare not approach her. Even if Song Lihua wants to get married, some capable men often have their own girlfriends. So, in a few years, Song Lihua, who is neither high nor low, has become an older single woman.
03, in the season of colorful fallen flowers, she met Zhuo Xiaoming who loves to play guitar.
However, although Song Lihua became an older young woman. But she is not in a hurry, after all, she has received a good education and knows how to survive her loneliness and loneliness. When she has time, she will go to the gym to exercise and go to the cafe to enjoy the afternoon quietly. On a lonely night, she likes to listen to famous guitar songs such as " Love Romance ", " Memories of the Alhambra Palace ", and "The Legend of Asturias". In the quiet flow of time, she felt the inner peace and romance brought to her by music.
In the colorful autumn season for falling flowers, Song Lihua met a boy playing guitar and singing in the alley. This boy's song "Are you okay in a foreign land?" deeply touched Song Lihua. Song Lihua couldn't help but sit next to the boy and listened to the guitar for a long time. Later, they started talking. Maybe it is a common love for music, maybe it is their respective higher education. This boy named Zhuo Xiaoming was originally a graduate of a music school. After graduating from , he didn't find a job for a while, so he made a living by singing in Jiangcheng City.
04, because Zhuo Xiaoming's family is poor, the woman's parents asked the man to marry into the Song family.
As the contact deepened, the two people were connected with each other's hearts, and Song Lihua fell in love with Zhuo Xiaoming deeply. This is also Song Lihua's first love. He has a longing for Zhuo Xiaoming that "I don't see you for a day, it's like three autumns after three days, and I'll worry if I don't see you for two days." Song Lihua knew that this was true love. However, after understanding, Song Lihua knew that Zhuo Xiaoming's family was poor, and his parents were in his hometown in the mountainous area, guarding one acre of three parts of the land and living a simple life.
And Zhuo Xiaoming has two older brothers, who are just ordinary workers, and his parents and even their eldest son’s marriage cannot be handled well. Therefore, if Zhuo Xiaoming wants to marry Song Lihua home, he will definitely encounter great difficulties. Song Lihua's parents said that unless Zhuo Xiaoming is willing to marry into Song Lihua's home, they would not agree to this marriage. Finally, Zhuo Xiaoming said that he loved Song Lihua, and for the sake of love, he was willing to marry into the girl's family and be the son-in-law of the Song family.
05, the couple sings with their husbands and lives a simple but very fulfilling life.
After Zhuo Xiaoming and Song Lihua got married, the couple followed each other and lived a very sweet life. With the help of Song Lihua, Zhuo Xiaoming also found a good job. Although he is not a formal employee, teaching guitar in a training institution can be considered a return to his major. Zhuo Xiaoming knew that it was Song Lihua's credit that he could live the life he imagined now and lived in the big house of Song Lihua's family.
However, Zhuo Xiaoming knew that Song Lihua's love for him was the most important thing. Therefore, he listened to Song Lihua's words and took the initiative to take on housework every day. In fact, Song Lihua is a very smart girl. She knows that a real marriage needs to be managed and that her husband is the pillar of the family. Even if your husband is married into his own home, he must give his husband full dignity. Only in this way can his own home be happy and beautiful.
06, the Song family treats guests to dinner, and Zhuo Xiaoming is very busy buying and cooking.
Zhuo Xiaoming and Song Lihua have been married for more than a year, and they have a smart child . Although the child's surname is Song, Song Lihua told Zhuo Xiaoming that the second child must have the surname Zhuo. Seeing his wife so reasonable, Zhuo Xiaoming was naturally extremely grateful. However, Song Lihua's parents are not a good deal. They have been engaged in business for many years and are the only ones at home. They often direct Zhuo Xiaoming to do this and that.
Zhuo Xiaoming married into the Song family and naturally knew his weight. Every time Song Lihua's parents ordered to do things, he always answered loudly and did it immediately. Sometimes when Song Lihua knows, she asks her parents unhappily, and Zhuo Xiaoming will come to smooth things over and say that she likes to do things like this. On that day, Song Lihua's father invited a few old friends who were doing business to dinner at home, and he told Zhuo Xiaoming to go to the vegetable market to buy vegetables as soon as possible. Early in the morning, Zhuo Xiaoming got up early to buy vegetables. After he came back, he was very good at cooking and quickly cooked and was very busy.
07. After finishing her work, Song Lihua asked Zhuo Xiaoming to go to the table for dinner, but her parents stopped her.
Song Lihua came back from get off work and saw Zhuo Xiaoming busy in the kitchen alone, but no one helped him, so she was a little angry. She quickly went to the kitchen to help wash vegetables, but after cooking for a while, her parents asked Song Lihua to entertain guests. In this way, Zhuo Xiaoming was busy and sweating profusely. He was busy alone until half past eleven, and then he prepared a table of good dishes. Zhuo Xiaoming stood aside with a smile on his face, calling the guests to serve the food. The guests looked at Zhuo Xiaoming and asked with a smile: "Brother Song, is this your son-in-law?"
Song Lihua's parents nodded and quickly called the guests to have dinner. Song Lihua also invited Zhuo Xiaoming to have dinner, but her parents stopped Song Lihua. They said that there were still some dishes in the kitchen that were not cooked, so they asked Zhuo Xiaoming to continue to be busy in the kitchen for a while. After all, Zhuo Xiaoming is just a son-in-law at home. It is inappropriate for him to go to the main table at home.In this way, the guests were drunk and laughing. Before they knew it, the dishes on the table were empty. At this time, Song Lihua's parents quickly asked Zhuo Xiaoming to continue cooking, and they continued to drink and chat, completely ignoring Zhuo Xiaoming's existence.
08, Zhuo Xiaoming could only go to the kitchen to eat some leftovers, and Song Lihua overturned the table in anger.
Although Song Lihua greeted guests at the dinner table, her heart was always with her husband Zhuo Xiaoming. : Seeing that everyone was about to eat, and before Zhuo Xiaoming could serve, she stood up and came to the kitchen, wanting to ask her husband to serve the table and eat quickly. She came to the kitchen and saw her husband Zhuo Xiaoming holding a bowl and eating leftovers removed from the table. Her tears of grievance suddenly came down. She hugged her husband and said, "Husband, thank you for your hard work. Let's go, I'll take you to the table to eat." Zhuo Xiaoming waved his hand quickly and signaled that it would not matter.
At this time, my father's guests were drunk too much, and someone called out: "Song Lihua, there are still some leftovers on the table, hurry up and ask your husband who is married to come out to toast the bar." Song Lihua's father also called out: "Zhuo Xiaoming, come out and toast us. After the toast, you can cook a few good dishes for us!" Song Lihua could no longer help, so she rushed out and shouted: "The dishes were bought by my husband, why do you let him eat leftovers? You don't respect my husband, parents, you don't respect Zhuo Xiaoming, don't love him, but he is my husband, I love him!" After , she overturned the table: "Husband, go, let's take the child out to rent a house, we won't stay here!"
09, concluding remarks.
Friends, Song Lihua's parents do not respect their son-in-law. Are they doing this? In fact, being good to your son-in-law is also being good to your daughter. Do they even understand this principle? When Song Lihua saw that the guests and parents disrespect her husband and let her husband eat leftovers, she was so angry that she overturned the table. Is her behavior too extreme? What exactly should Zhuo Xiaoming do now to be able to get along with everything and maintain the warmth of his family? welcomes everyone to leave a message in the comment area to discuss, thank you everyone.
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