Men's betrayal of marriage seems to have become a high-frequency thing and topic. Women are either angry or sad when they see it.
But when you are angry with someone, you can see that the expectations contained behind them are disappointed.
Because you can't believe that the person who loves you will treat you like this. You can't believe that the oath you made at the beginning has disappeared.
You feel deceived and unwilling to give up.
are all understandable. After all, most women have the mentality of being the one who ends up being the same. Today, I will choose someone. No matter what he is like, I will go to the end with him.
Even though this process was difficult, I didn’t think about separation. I felt that the day after separation was about to collapse and I couldn’t stand up.
But in contrast, how many men will be depressed for a long time because the other party is not good to them or betrays them?
Most people divorce directly, and some people will accept it painfully, but soon come out, and only a very small number will immerse themselves in it.
First of all, because most of them focus on improving their abilities and income in marriage, and no man is confused about how I should live after divorce, it is not good.
Because he has a job and income, divorce is just a past loss. He will not lose a house, and he will have a child as long as he wants it.
You would say that after they get married, they should work and nothing is left behind.
And you sacrificed your time and work for your family. If you said that the past was wrong, then you should be more like them studying, working, and making money now.
If you say no one takes care of the child, find a way to ask your parents to help or ask someone. If you can't get out of this painful situation, you can only continue to feel sad.
Secondly, because they have no concept of divorce and no face, and there is no idea that I want to go to the end with her.
How many people abandon their wives when they were successful? The family just felt that the other party was not worthy of them, and they completely ignored the wife's unyielding relationship when he was penniless.
Meet a sister in her 30s. When she was young, she worked hard with her husband and suffered a lot. She went from the countryside to the city and had her own house.
As a result, the husband wanted to live a better life and climbed to the daughter of the leader of the unit (she only found out afterwards).
Of course, his reason was not to betray her, but to quarrel with her at home every day, do nothing, and to invest the money at home.
is actually a transfer. At first, my sister didn't know, so she borrowed money everywhere to help pay it back. Her husband said that the debt collector was very good recently, so we divorce first, so that you and your children have nothing to do with the debt. We will remarry after paying it back.
She believed it, and when she got divorced, he immediately took the divorce certificate to chase the other party.
In our cognition, no matter how you do things and behave, you must be worthy of yourself and your conscience.
Especially when women have children, families will have the attitude and determination to endure.
But feelings are the most unreasonable, and things always go against your wishes. But he may not be able to live a good life with the idea of being in peace.
For some, they are the most important.
So when you meet such a person, if you can get along, if you can, don’t force yourself. If you can get along, work hard together. If you can get along, you can get along well.
If you really think that the other person is not good, you don’t need to end up together, but you also need to accept the fact that love is deep and shallow.
Friendship may end up being luck, and the only controllable mentality is not to leave any regrets for your future self.
After all, in this game of life, you are always by your side. No matter what, be good to yourself, always love yourself more, look forward optimistically, and keep a steady and good attitude is the best strategy.
Because no matter how painful it is, it will be bright. Don’t be afraid that your efforts will be wasted. The pain you have experienced will make you stronger.
So when it comes to marriage and love, we must maintain a great attitude, that is, we will be strong if we have no desires.
If your husband can live together with you and go smoothly, that is the happiest thing in life.
If he wants to leave midway and insists on leaving, then let him go, cherish the fate and follow the fate and not strive for it.
Don’t worry about gains and losses at any time. What is yours is yours after all. Try to enrich yourself, become open-minded and wise. Only when you reach your ideal state will the other person be attracted or even changed.
Even if you don’t have it, your life will not be bad.
