does not mean that everything is best for people to live without water. Sometimes there are some things that we have to pay attention to. Don’t think too simple about not flowing into the fields of outsiders. Just like this woman in the article, do you think it’s a happy thing to be with your in-laws? You may regret it after being together. It is very likely that after being together, you will not be able to live on the second day, just like this woman.
Who can blame for the ending now? If you hadn't thought too simple about not flowing into the outside world, this would not have ended. Let's take a look at this matter together. The 58-year-old aunt remarries and the 60-year-old father-in-law is about to divorce the next day. The 58-year-old aunt said: He is too much.
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58-year-old Ms. Li:
I really can't survive, and I really can't do anything about it, so I chose to divorce, but my daughter told me: Are you sure you want to divorce? We didn't agree with you two being together at the beginning. You two insisted on being together. If you want to divorce now, you may suffer a lot. First of all, the matter of a house and the question of meeting in the future. Have you ever thought about this issue? Once you divorce, are you still a family? Are we still a family?
Can you still live here after divorce? Have you ever thought that these things are big or small? If they are not handled properly, I may not be able to provide you with retirement in the future. Even if I want to provide retirement for you, you will be embarrassed to come here. And do you think my husband will still care about your affairs in the future? So, you must think about this issue seriously.
Hearing my daughter say this, I cried and shed tears. Who can I blame for the ending now? If I hadn't married my in-laws, it would not be the ending now. I would have divorced on the second day of marriage. I was so uncomfortable. If there is a choice, I don’t want to do this. The problem is that I have no choice. I cried and said to my daughter: I really have no choice, so I chose to divorce and couldn't continue.
I treated me like this the night I got married. He was too much. If I continued to live with him, how could I survive in the future? You can't stand it anymore, so you should get a divorce. I have thought about the problem you told me, but I don't know what to do. I can only live one day.
Now the ending can only be blamed on myself. I should have listened to you at the beginning. If I had not been with him, I would not have encountered such a thing. In the past, we were able to respect each other as guests, but now if we divorced, we would not be able to go back to the past. It was me who destroyed this family, and it was me who destroyed everything about me. I cry while talking, the more I talk, the more I cry, the more I don’t want to do this. I can’t do anything about it.
My daughter comforted me, and my daughter told me: I don’t know you, you can do whatever you want, you can do whatever you want, anyway, this matter is wrong, and you have to walk on the road you choose. You shouldn’t be with him at the beginning. If you weren’t with him, at least it wouldn’t be so difficult to choose now. Yes, if we were not together, we wouldn’t be like this now. It’s too difficult now. Who can we blame? I hope that through my case, all women can be paid attention.
Not to mention women, even men have to pay attention to such things. In this world, it is not said that everything is suitable for outsiders to avoid being rich. If you do this, then what awaits you will definitely be a tragedy. Just like what I am now, this matter really cannot be rich without being in the field of outsiders. I would rather be with others, be bullied by others, and would rather suffer losses from others, than be rich without being in the field of outsiders.
Two years ago I came to my daughter to retire. What I didn’t want to come was that my daughter must come over.My daughter and son-in-law came back to find me. My daughter told me: My husband and they agreed. Come here to support us. In the past, my dad could accompany and take care of each other. But now my dad is gone. I am your only child. You come to our place to support us. We are responsible for you.
I couldn't refuse this at all. I was old and I was not in good health. More importantly, I was too lonely in my hometown alone. After my husband left, I couldn't live alone. Although I thought about finding another wife, I couldn't find a suitable one. And I was also afraid of being bullied by others, so I didn’t find a partner anymore. I just had this idea. Now my daughter asked me to live with them for retirement, so let’s go. For me, that might be the best ending.
That's it. I went to my daughter to retire. It can be regarded as giving my daughter a chance to be filial to me. Anyway, my daughter and son-in-law agreed. After I came here, I helped take care of the children and the family, and also took care of the in-laws and the in-laws and the in-laws and the in-laws were in poor health, so I had been here a long time ago. After a while, we had more opportunities to get in touch with each other. We used to feel that our in-laws were very serious, but later I realized that he was also a very humorous person, just as humorous as my husband. I saw the shadow of my husband in him.
slowly became familiar with us. He always joked with me and told me jokes. The more I did this, the more I felt that this person was very cute, and he was also very nice to me. He gave me gifts from time to time, and sometimes even used magic to me, instantly turning into a little red flower.
Everyone knows that women care about the most. Women like romance and like others to treat them very well. Although I am so old, I am also a woman after all, and I can’t escape these laws, so I think he is very good. Gradually, I also had a good impression of him. Of course, he had a good impression of me first, otherwise he would not have been so good to me. He tested me that day. He told me that a woman liked him and asked me if I wanted to be with that woman.
Then I told him: If you like that woman, then be brave enough to confess to him. If that way, the woman will definitely be with you. If you don’t like that woman, then refuse. After all, it’s not sweet to make me feel forced. If you don’t like others, why do you still have to be with others?
Then he said to me: OK, then I will confess my love to that woman. After that, he confessed to me and he said to me: Do you like me? Then would you give me a chance? Let's be together. We are together for you and me, the best ending for children. When we are together, we will not flow away from outsiders. And I also know that you want to find someone else. Why don't you look for someone else?
You are cheaper to others, why can't you be cheaper to me? The same is true, I am looking for others and I am cheaper to others. Why can't you get cheaper? Let's be together. After we are together, we are still a family. The children will only become more and more close to their families. Do you think it is a marriage of kinship? There are still many such cases in real life. So there is no need to be afraid of anything. I am so proactive. Just now you said that if you like it, you will be together. Did you think so? Then let's be together.
I didn't agree immediately. I said I thought about it very quickly, and my daughter knew about it, including my son-in-law. The son-in-law didn't object, but he said he wanted me to make a choice by myself, but my daughter disagreed. My daughter felt that I was too much, and doing so would affect their lives. My daughter told me: It would be fine if you are happy together. If you are not happy, you will have to divorce in the future. Sometimes some things are not as simple as you think.
If something happens, you will definitely regret it. So there is no need to do these stupid things. Love is for your family and for yourself. You should live like this now. You will live like this in the past and live the future. I will be responsible for you. I will have nothing to do in the future. If you are together, there will be many problems. It seemed that my brain was sucked.
I actually have to be with my in-laws no matter what my child says. I am very happy and got my marriage certificate. At that time, I thought I could be happy and then to the end, but on the night of my marriage he hit me. After getting married, I realized that he had a purpose with me. He only wanted my house, which was paid for by my husband, and then I gave the house to my daughter. However, my name was still written on the property certificate.
He told me: We are already married, so the house must be given to me. A house, giving me means giving me a sense of security. Shouldn’t you give me a sense of security? Also, you will be mine in the future. Let alone the house, you are mine and it is mine. I disagreed, so he slapped me in the face, unable to escape the house, and actually hit me.
and there was no room for me to choose. He told me again: You have to agree to this matter, and you have to agree to it if you don’t agree. Isn’t this for our family? I heard that your daughter will find another man first. Will it be possible to protect my son’s marriage with your daughter if you are bothered by me? If the house is with you, what if your daughter divorces my son in the future?
If they divorce, does it mean that the family will be broken up and that kind of tragedy will never happen? So it is better to say that the house is better for me. Anyway, if you divorce me in the future, we still have a house to live in, and my son also has a house to live in. So I can only make things difficult for you like this, but you have to agree that I did this for the sake of this family and your own good, so you must give me the house. Not only do you have to give me the house, but you also have to give me your property.
He also asked me to give him all the house and savings in my hometown. I definitely disagree. I disagree. He slapped me in the face with another slap. This slap made my head hurt. After he finished the slap, he said to me angrily: Do you think you are still my mother-in-law?
. You are my wife now and say it is my wife. Then you should have no choice. Do this regardless of whether you agree or not. If you continue to disagree, continue to resist. Then don’t blame me for hitting you. I don’t want to hit you anymore. It’s just that you are disobedient. If you are obedient, I will definitely not hit you. I did this for the sake of the family. Do you understand?
I hope you can understand me, and I also hope you can listen to me, otherwise, the waiting will definitely be a tragedy, and I don’t want to hit you, but what can I do if you don’t obey? I can only hit until you agree. I was slapped a lot by him that night. Some things that I had to agree with were forced to get married and treated me like this on the first night. I shouldn't be with him if I live in
. I'm with him because I'm just for my things. To put it nicely, it's for everyone's good, but it's not for him. Shouldn’t you choose to divorce in the face of this? What would you do if you were? It’s really impossible to keep the water from flowing to outsiders’ fields.
Conclusion:
is really helpless in the face of this matter, and he can only choose to divorce. Why do you say so? I will treat you like this on the first night of marriage. How do you live in the future? Now that you have value for use, what will you do if you don’t have value for use?
so you can only choose to divorce. Choosing to divorce is not only responsible for yourself but also for your children. Once you are taken away by others, what is waiting for you will definitely be affected by going back, not only you but your children.So we can only choose to divorce, not only to be responsible for ourselves but also to the children. Who can blame this ending?
If you blame yourself, blame yourself. If you hadn't been with him, if you hadn't been to the outside world, would this be the ending now? I hope all the elderly can pay attention to this issue. It does not mean that everything is suitable for people who do not flow into the fields of outsiders. Sometimes some things are not OK.
