This is a comparison of the data statistics of new marriage registrations nationwide in the past decade. The blue is the number of married people and the yellow is the number of divorces.
It is obvious that the number of married people is declining year by year, and has fallen below the 8 million limit in 2021 .
According to survey statistics, more than half of the post-90s generation chose not to get married, or did not consider it for the time being. The reasons given are as follows:
1: The imbalance of male and female concepts
Due to the popularity of Korean dramas that year, the stories of the tall, rich and handsome Korean, the president's son falling in love with ordinary girls, or Cinderella marrying into a wealthy family have been constantly affecting the post-90s generation in their youth.
Ordinary girls, without high education, no work ability, and no outstanding appearance, have won the favor of the noble son.
has led to the continuous increase in the requirements for marriage among women today.
The so-called gender equality movement now makes women unwilling to cook, unwilling to take care of their children, and unwilling to take care of their husbands and children at home.
What they need is to go in and out of high-end shopping malls every day after marriage, black tea in the afternoon, spa in the evening, best friends have dinner at night, and listen to music in the Qing bar.
Getting married and having children is no longer a shared burden, but a channel for improving the quality of life. The requirements of
have made many men stop.
Buying a house and car has emptied out the savings of their parents, carried loans, got married and had children, and the high education costs, which are all difficult to bear.
What's more fatal is that these are the prerequisites for marriage . Without such hard conditions, women look down on them, and men do not have the confidence to propose marriage.
The result is that women born in the 1990s are unwilling to settle down and lower their requirements. Men choose to give up, or focus on their careers and marry the post-00s in the future.
2: Wealth does not allow
Now the competitive pressure in society is getting greater and greater. The information explosion has caused the rapid development of science and technology, but it has also caused the real economy to decline more and more, which has led to fierce competition in jobs.
The richer the material life, the higher the pursuit of wealth. Many post-90s have seen the life of rich people and undoubtedly want to live such a life.
But the reality is that shit is hard to eat and money is hard to make.
If you want to live on TV, the high-quality on the Internet, undoubtedly needs strong economic support. However, the chance of getting rich in reality is too low for people who have no way out.
If you are a rich second generation, you will naturally not consider these issues. But ordinary families are the majority after all, and they are far from meeting their desired life goals. Falling in love and getting married is even more of a luxury.
3: Time does not allow
In the ideas of the post-80s, it is still influenced by the education of the older generation. Getting married and having children, and following the steps in life.
But the post-90s generation is extremely eager for freedom.
longs for traveling, even if you don’t have money, you have to travel and ride.
loves nightlife, singing bar, werewolf killer game hall, etc. After get off work, I want to find a place to enjoy it.
After getting married, you have to go home to cook and do housework. There is no time to have a baby. And the post-90s generation has a strong sense of self-awareness.
I know at work, post-90s generation, who are not willing to work overtime and do not want to accept work consultation after getting off work.
Most of the reasons are from hearing from European countries on the Internet, about the ease of work, and the freedom of life. So much so that I really long for such a life.
is good to have this awareness, but in reality, for the sake of life, I believe that many post-80s generations will choose to bow their heads.
But the probability of a post-90s quitting naked is very high. This is the case for the work that binds oneself, and you can imagine how marriage is.
is actually the result of the social era
Many times, the reason cannot be attributed to the post-90s generation. The competition in society is obvious to all.
What is the meaning of life? No one can explain clearly. Getting married and having children is also a lifetime, and choosing DINK is also a lifetime if you don’t get married.
is hard to say, who is right and who is wrong.
is just one thing that is right. Recognize your needs and don’t eat instant noodles every day. If you don’t add a grilled sausage, you should also be petty. On
, it is believed that males are 25 years old and can be used as a masalati, which is a standard configuration.
Marriage is about running together and supporting each other, and it must not be done in a business.
I hope everyone can reap a happy love and a plain married life is actually the sweetest feeling.
