Introduction:
Should you find a young partner after retirement in your later years? Many people think that if conditions permit, most people choose to find young couples in their later years. This will not only provide care for the elderly and see them off, but also add a lot of fun in life. Mr. Meng was really confused. He didn't want to live alone in his later years. He also wanted to remarry a 45-year-old woman if someone could retire in the future, but he would not be able to afford to divorce after a month of remarriage.
Uncle Meng cried: "I got divorced after remarrying in my later years. I really can't afford to raise it. "
Self-reporter: Uncle Meng
I am 65 years old this year and have been retired for five years. Although I have a son and a daughter, I don’t have the habit of living in big cities with my children. They all think they would rather be a phoenix tail than a chicken head. My children just graduated and chose to live in the city where they studied in college. The children said, "Although life is hard now, I believe that as long as I work hard, I will definitely gain a foothold in this city with the talent I have." My salary at that time could only be saved by frugality, so that my children could go to a good university.
Because my daughter is two years older than my son, many neighbors will advise me: "Don't work so hard to make money. Just ask your daughter to go out early to study and earn money for her son to study good books. Anyway, my daughter will also marry in the future. And the ancients said: A woman without talent is virtue. A high culture and knowledge, and a strong opinionated person will not get along with her mother-in-law in the future." My family does not prefer boys over girls because I think my wife is very good to her parents and is worried about our family. Although she is not very rich, it is because my wife is a cultural person. She lives too delicately after marriage, cuts fruits into pieces, and she can give me a love hug when she goes home. Not to mention how happy it is.
The children have gradually started their families and started their own businesses. Although they are all far away from home, they have contacted me and my wife a lot. In the end, my wife was hospitalized after being sick and was also the one who was walking away from home from another place for half a month. The accident was hard to predict, and no one knew what would happen in the future, so I didn’t feel sad after my wife left and then saw it. After all, since ancient times, no one has died. Since God has allowed me to live longer, I should live every day wonderfully.
My wife died one year after I retired. He is three years older than me. It is precisely because of this that such an excellent wife can be met by me. After retirement, I had a pension of 5,000 yuan, and I was more than enough to live alone. In addition, my children often asked me to go out to live with them. Every time I refused, they would give me 10,000 or 20,000 yuan of living expenses. Although it was not available every month, it was enough to change my previous concepts and think that money was not very important.
Perhaps the amount of money makes me feel that money is something outside of it. Because of my two filial children, I don’t have to worry about not having money to spend, so I chose various high consumption. At first I just bought some clothes, and I never spent so much time buying a piece of clothes that cost hundreds of dollars in my life. Many aunts in the community saw me wearing so handsomely, and their eyes widened. With my charming sunny smile, someone soon asked me to leave my contact information.
I also know that everyone is vain, so I didn't leave a way to get in touch with me. Although I admit that I'm starting to be a little lazy, who told me that my children are not only filial but also rich? From high-end clothes to buying luxurious watches, the quality of life in his later years has become quite high. Others envy my life in the past four years, but I envy other people's lives.
Most people often know how to cherish it after losing it. I also lost my wife and realized how hard and boring it is to live without someone. When I was exercising in the community, others despised it. The old men said, "I went shopping every day, so why didn't I go shopping this time if I have money? Are my children not paying money? That's right, I haven't come back for so long to meet my parents, so how can I remember to transfer money to you to spend?" I also tried to go out shopping again with a tough bullet, but it was still very boring, and I didn't even dare to go out during the Chinese New Year, otherwise people should say, "Your children are so rich, why don't you take you out to live? Life with your children is not so boring.
I don’t dare to live together if I have no opinion in my youth, but I am afraid that my children will have gaps when they live with me for a long time, and love will be brought to love over time. There is also a kind of thing called seeing people’s hearts over time. But people's hearts are unpredictable, and no matter how good the children are, they may choose to have a quarrel with me because of their daughter-in-law and son-in-law. After all, they are all from big cities, and they may look down on me as a person from a small city without education. Who can say it correctly? Will living with their children rashly affect their relationship?
Finally, I chose blind dates, and the conditions were up to me. Since I have financial strength, I don’t have to be afraid. My condition is that I am at least fifteen years younger than me, educated, slim, and have a sense of humor and be coquettish. That man doesn’t love such a woman? Not to mention the elderly, even young men will pursue such people.
proposed this condition and it was only half a year before there was a person who met this condition. After all, it was not only me who proposed the conditions, but the woman would also have requirements. It is not surprising that women who think I am too old choose to skip it at first glance. Xiaohe is the most beautiful person I have ever met. Maybe it’s because of the eyes of his lover! Although I was not a lover during the blind date, I fell in love at first sight.
At the beginning, Xiaohe refused to be with me. She thought it would be okay to be older, but she wouldn't be able to look older, but I'm rich! My children even support me even more when they know I want to find a wife. As long as I feel that it can make me happy, money doesn’t matter, I will give me 100,000 yuan per person. If you can buy a house in a small city, you can pay the down payment, but it is not enough to rent a 50 square meter store in a big city for a year.
often ask Xiaohe to go shopping and said I was just coming out after treating me. Except for buying a bracelet for more than 5,000 yuan at the beginning, I saw that I really paid the money and immediately accepted my pursuit. Only then did I feel that such a marriage might not last, but even if I said I would give her something, Xiaohe didn't want it, which made me wonder. I thought it was for me to save money, but I didn’t expect that after we got married, I realized that Xiaohe was easy to change and his nature was difficult to change!
Xiaohe said: "Since I marry you, I don't want you a bride gift, then do you have to show some sincerity? If I buy things in the future, you can help me reimburse them. After all, women become beautiful because men have face outside." Unexpectedly, I spent 300,000 yuan a month, paid 150,000 yuan for my son's down payment, 100,000 yuan for my car, and 50,000 yuan for my own purchase of things everywhere. At first I thought I wouldn't spend much money, but after she finished saying: Women become beautiful because I have face outside. For the sake of face, I handed her the card and password, and felt that she was also the one who got the marriage certificate. It would be a couple for a hundred days to be grateful for each day! I will definitely not do anything that is bad for me. The only card now is the lonely three thousand yuan.
Although I don’t have to do housework for a month, I can still enjoy her coquettish act every day. But I spent more than ten years in this month. Xiaohe took it for granted that she could not get it back. Finally, I was angry and chose to go through the legal procedure and to divorce. I really can't afford to raise such a woman. I thought she was the eldest daughter of a yellow flower, and it was done in 300,000 yuan in a month. Finally, I realized that the age difference is too much, and the things I like are basically money. I am not afraid of men waving their fists at me, but I am afraid of a group of women acting spoiled to me. Who can bear it? I deserve it after I make money for the card woman. Although my children will not transfer money in the short term, fortunately I still have a pension.
to the end:
Everyone says that heroes are sad to pass the beauty level, and even when men are old, they are really sad to pass this level. It really corresponds to the saying: Men are teenagers until they die. So even if you live alone in your later years and feel very lonely, many people still choose to be single. It’s not that feeling, but that life should be the end of one’s life and should not be unrealistic, otherwise it will not only spend money to eliminate disasters, but will even lose everything. After all, there are many people who sell houses only for women.
