Once upon a time, I swear to say, when I get old, I want to live with my children. Moreover, I have instilled the idea in my two children more than once: If you grow up, if the siblings don’t develop in their hometown, they must be in the same city and take care of each other. In fact, to put it bluntly, it is to wait until I get old and they can take care of it without having to go back and forth between me. [Laughing]
I have not lived with my mother-in-law since I got married. She doesn't want to live with us because I'm busy at work and she doesn't want to cook meals with me and her son. Later, when we have children, we are even more reluctant to "serve" us. One day when we go back to our hometown, as long as she cooks, she will throw plates and make bowls in the kitchen, and I have never been happy. So I especially envy others for being together, young and old, lively and happy family atmosphere. I once thought: When I retire, I will learn to cook. Every day, I will make delicious food for my children in different ways and show them the children so that they can work hard in the workplace without any worries. At the same time, I also enjoyed the joy of family. What a wonderful life.
Now, due to the epidemic, my sophomore year-old daughter has not started school, she does not sleep every night and does not get up in the morning. I cooked her meal until eleven o'clock, and I didn't want to eat it if I wanted to eat it. Except for class, I hid in the house and played with my phone and computer for the rest of my time, making me so angry that I could hang an oil bottle when I brushed the bowl. I was wondering, if this is my daughter-in-law, can I guarantee not to get angry? How can I not show any unhappiness? Can I do it? Can't do it! My daughter can quarrel, scold her, and give her a look. Can I treat her like this to my daughter-in-law? cannot!
So, now I have changed my attention. When the children get married and start a career, I have to learn to let go. I will never interfere in their affairs. If I need help taking care of the children, I will try not to live under the same roof, watch the children during the day and go back to my own home at night. When I got old, I and my teammates, I guarded my own nest and gave the children free space. If I really couldn't walk, I went to the nursing home. As long as they can check out me at intervals and let the nursing home nurse know that I have family members, they can do it if they don’t beat me and bully me. [Laughing and crying]
