Introduction: Xiaoye is 30 years old this year. I dated an old man who was 28 years older than me and 2 years older than my father. I thought my father would support me, but when my father found out, he questioned her a series of questions.
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Xiao Ye is 30 years old. His classmates and friends are all married one after another. Some children are running all over the ground, but Xiao Ye is just a boyfriend who has never been friends.
is not that Xiaoye is too picky, but that she really can't meet the closest people she can chat with.
Last year, Xiao Ye was deducted three months' salary due to a work mistake. Since then, the company has often used Xiao Ye as a case to criticize and educate other colleagues.
Xiaoye was irritable for half a year. But I can't leave the job and refuse to do it. After all, my current job is my own expertise. In addition, she is introverted and really doesn't want to change to a new environment to start from a new beginning.
is the leader's exclusion, and the comments behind the colleagues made Xiaoye breathless every day. Just when Xiaoye was struggling and depressed, he wanted to take a leave to hide for a while. The company has changed its leaders.
It turns out that the boss who "criticized" him all day long was transferred elsewhere.
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The new leader is very tall, but he has almost no bald hair left. I am in my 50s, because I can dress up, I don’t look very old.
He took office and was very concerned about every employee, especially Xiao Ye’s affairs, which made this leader very concerned.
He found Xiaoye and told her not to feel too burdened. Just be careful in your work in the future. Xiao Ye’s work is wrong and has a certain relationship with his leadership.
The new leader's words make the leaves walking on thin ice very warm. The new leader also often guides Xiaoye at work and gives Xiaoye a lot of help.
After a while, one day, the new leader suddenly confessed to Xiao Ye.
The new leader said that he is from Shenzhen. Although I am very old, I have never been married because I have been busy with work for many years. I have had two partners, but both broke up because of my disagreement of personality.
The new leader said that he fell in love with Xiao Ye at first sight. That's why I often take care of her. Now I find that I like Xiao Ye so much and want Xiao Ye to become my future partner.
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Xiao Ye also feels that he is very compatible with the new leader. In addition, due to the age difference, the new leader is very good at taking care of others, and Xiao Ye thinks that this is the case with couples. If your husband can take care of himself in the future, his age will not be a big problem. Before dating
, the new leader promised that Xiao Ye would have 5 properties in Shenzhen and would give them to Xiao Ye in the future. After a while, he will arrange a more relaxed job for Xiaoye so that he will not worry so much.
In order to win Xiaoye's favor, the new leader also spent more than 5,000 yuan to buy a new mobile phone for Xiaoye.
on the weekend, I took Xiaoye to watch a movie and went to the restaurant. Xiaoye was moved and offered his body.
The relationship with an old man must not be hidden from his parents.
When Xiaoye told his father about the situation of the new leader, Xiaoye's father asked her to break up quickly. Said the new leader is cheating on Xiaoye.
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Xiaoye said: "Everyone said that there are five real estate in Shenzhen and they all belong to me. And he bought things for me and took care of me. Why is he a liar?"
Xiaoye's father said: "He has two doubts: 1. He is 2 years older than me, has a successful career, but has never been married. Who can prove whether he is married? 2. He promised to give you real estate and buy things for you. The final result is not that his wife is not around and wants to find a free girlfriend. This is a sweet bait. , otherwise how would you take the bait? "
" Daughter, he is so old and older than me, will I wait for you to take care of you in the future? Do you lack a father? You have to find another one, what are you trying to do? "
" Everything he said to you is fake, including real estate. Even if it is true, he will not really give it to you. If you don't believe it, please let him transfer a house to you tomorrow. Let him see what he says? "
Xiao Ye, according to his father's statement, asked the new leader to transfer a property to himself first, the new leader said: "My real estate is all real estate, and it will not be transferred for a few years."
Xiaoye said: "Then we will be able to transfer the property in a few years. How about we get married? Will we be able to have face? "
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Unexpectedly, after hearing Xiao Ye's words, the new leader not only did not object, but also agreed, saying that he was very career-oriented and did not want to get married too early.
Just this sentence, Xiao Ye knew that his father was right. A person of such an old age also said that he was strong in career-oriented and did not want to get married too early. That was too fake. If something abnormal happened, there would be a demon. This is right.
Xiao Ye thought about the main reason for his relationship with the new leader, or that the promise he gave was too tempting, which made him let down his guard. 5 properties almost sacrificed his remaining youth.
Now that he thought about the image of the new leader, he was not worthy of himself. . It's really a flower inserted on cow dung.
Fortunately, I listened to my father's words, and now the best way to evacuate is.
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From Xiaoye's case, a very realistic problem is reflected. That is, in the face of temptation, many people will take the bait.
Many veterans in love are also using this psychology to make many girls deceived emotionally and even money.
In the face of abnormal happiness, they can keep their eyes open to see the facts. Fortunately, Xiaoye stopped the loss in time.
