Once read a sentence about family affection on the Internet, I was particularly moved: "What is family affection? Family affection is the sea, the deepest sea of love in the world; family affection is the longest love in the world; family bonds are the closest bond in the world.
Family affection is to hurt the bones, and you will give up the unchanging blood relationship wherever you go.
In this fast-paced society, some people attach great importance to family relations. But some people, even if their relatives are their own brothers and sisters, are not as good as strangers. It is not that they are cold-blooded, but that they only have themselves in their hearts. They only see their own interests and cannot see the word "love".
Below is a family story of a reader. The first person tells the grudges between his parents and relatives. I hope I We can have more understanding and interpretation of family affection.
As long as I can remember, I rarely go to my uncle's house to play.
does not mean that I want to keep a distance from them, but that when I see the uncle, I feel scared and disgusted. In my impression, he is not as friendly as the neighbors in his hometown.
When I was a child, my family was very poor. I remember one time my mother took me to my uncle's house to borrow money. As soon as I walked into my uncle's yard, I smelled the food.
My mother and I went to my house. It turned out that it was my uncle and my aunt who were cooking dumplings. Looking at the chubby dumplings on the table, saliva was about to flow out.
Uncle saw us mother and son coming over with rice bowls in their hands. They looked at us sideways and said, "What are you doing? Say something quickly. ”
My mother held her skirt tightly with both hands and whispered to him: “Can I borrow some money? Our family has been a little tight lately and the child is waiting to pay the tuition fee. "
Uncle heard us borrow money, so we threw the bowl on the table and said, "Where did I get the money? When did you have a shortage of money? ”
After saying that, he glanced at me meaningfully and said, “What kind of school do girls want to go to? Anyway, they will get married sooner or later. Just go out to work early. "
After hearing this, my mother didn't say anything and quickly pulled me away.
When I got home, I was very sad when I saw my mother turn around and wipe her tears. I would never forget the sweet night in the dumplings when we were coldly sent away by our uncle like beggars.
That night, my mother said to my father: "No matter how poor I am, I will not borrow money from them. I look down on people. ”
Since then, in order to improve family life, they set up street stalls and started small businesses. Thanks to their parents' efforts, the family's conditions have gotten better and better. Since the family's economy has improved, my father has brought my grandmother from my uncle's family.
The first day my grandmother came to my house, she said to my father in tears: "I finally went home." "
At that time, I didn't understand the meaning of this sentence, but now I understand how abuse my grandmother is in my uncle's family.
Grandma rarely eats enough at my uncle's house, let alone eat well. A strong old lady lived with her uncle for a while, but she lost more than ten pounds.
The business in the family is getting bigger and bigger. From setting up a street stall to renting a storefront now, my parents worked hard for it day and night. The uncle's family was jealous when they saw the wealthy life we live now. On the 80th birthday of my grandma, he came over with shamelessness.
After all, he was the brother, and his parents kept him for dinner.
After three rounds of wine, he smiled flatteringly and said, "If you are convenient, lend me 100,000 yuan. I also want to do some small business to improve my family's life. "
When my parents heard that he wanted to borrow 100,000, they were shocked. After all, 100,000 is not a small amount, and our two families didn't have much contact before. But my father hesitated for a while, and finally agreed.
He said to his uncle, "We are all a family." As long as you live well and be filial to the elderly, it is better than anything else. "
This man is naturally smart. He used this 100,000 yuan as capital to start a clothing business. After more than half a year of struggle, he also made money. With the money he earned, he renovated the house and built a beautiful two-story building.
Seeing that his uncle was doing well, his father was happy for him.
But he never mentioned paying back the money. Once he came to my house, my father took the initiative to ask him to pay 100,000 yuan. The uncle said with a bitter face, "The business is not easy to do recently, and the turnover cannot be opened. Wait until the situation is better and pay back the money."
I was very angry when he said this.
Who doesn't know that he just bought a new car worth more than 100,000 yuan. He has money to buy a car, but he has no money to pay off his debts. Once he pays it back, he pretends to be poor.
is not over yet. Grandma is seriously ill. Since grandma was admitted to the hospital, my parents have been running between the hospital and the shop every day. But the uncle and his son don't care, and even say that grandma is sick at my house, they don't care.
Grandma sighed in anger on the hospital bed, beat her chest and cried: "How could I give birth to such a son? "
Because I was old, I spent a lot of money, and my grandmother's illness was not cured, so I finally left. During this period, my uncle didn't come to visit me at all, nor did I work at my grandmother's funeral.
Dad said that he was very heartbroken by this family relationship, and he would not be the brother of him in the future. After my grandmother passed away, our family moved to the city. In the days that followed, we never had any contact with my uncle again.
Later, I just heard from the people in the village that after the uncle made money, he went out to have fun and wasted all his hard-earned money. . The couple quarreled at home every day because of money, and the good family was defeated by him.
But we no longer care, because from the day they refused to pay back the money, from the day they didn't care about grandma's life and death, from the day they didn't care about grandma's affairs, my dad wouldn't have his brother, and I would never have an uncle.
future days are high and long roads will not be involved.
Liang Shiqiu once said: "There is no place in the world more comfortable than his home, no matter how simple and dilapidated this home is. "
And this family is because of the existence of family affection. Even if you live in thatched huts and wear a coarse cloth shirt, you will feel very warm in your heart. Because family affection is priceless, we must cherish it. If you use money and interests to calculate family affection, then your relatives and friends will alienate such people.
is just Wang Like in " Dream of Red Mansions " Fengjie . She was rich and glorious during her lifetime, but in the end she was "the authorities were confused and lost Qingqing's life. "
For example, Wang Xifeng , which was looked down upon by Liu Laolao , turned out to be a noble person who saved his daughter from danger.
For those who calculate family affection, their horizons are very small. They only have immediate interests and cannot see long-term development at all. Such people will only be looked down upon or even forgotten in everyone's complaints.
With the existence of home in the world, we can feel the preciousness of human nature and the warmth of the world. Please cherish the family affection around us in our lifetime. This is the most priceless wealth in our lives.
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