The fireworks in the world caress the hearts of the lovers the most.
When I got home, facing the pots and pans, I took out bottles and jars, looked for seasonings, cleaned vegetables, washed rice... I can never finish this job.
With the development of society, more and more families have become rich and colorful, and the prices of food are also expensive.
However, many families face the problem of who to cook, and also have the problem of choosing "order takeout and make it yourself".
There are also some families, because the couple quarreled many times because of cooking. After all, doing housework is really troublesome and redundant.
The ancients said: "Marriage is the level of good fortune and good fortune."
The most important thing people should learn in their lives is to manage marriage. Once the marriage is successful, the family will be successful for more than half, and you will have a home and blessing in the second half of your life. On the other hand, if a marriage fails, it becomes a disaster in life.
Therefore, we need to study how to manage marriage from the perspective of cooking. The following three views are for your reference.
01
Meals are "out of one pot", and couples coordinate and cooperate.
The winter in the north is very cold. If it is an ordinary farmer, cook slowly, one dish and a bowl of rice, and serve it on the table in turn. When the last dish is served, the previous meals will be cold.
In order to let the family eat hot meals, people came up with a good idea: pile up the fire, put the pot on it, and stew the food in the pot; stick the cake next to the pot. Or pour tofu, vermicelli, mushrooms, etc. together and take it in one pot.
When a certain dish is cooked, it means that the food is cooked and can be served together. The whole room was filled with hot food and all the dishes had temperature, which was really great. This is "one pot".
To achieve this, it is mostly necessary for couples to cooperate with each other, one to burn the fire and the other to cook; one to make soup and the other to steam rice... This way of cooking fully reflects the relationship and role of the couple.
As a saying goes, "A couple should live like a pair of chopsticks: one is that no one can live without whom; two is that they can taste all the ups and downs together."
There are always some days, as cold as the winter in the north, and their lives have fallen to a low point. At this time, when the couple work together, their abilities will double, and they will get out of the trough faster and usher in spring.
Writer Lucas said: "The trouble of marriage life is that every woman regards herself as a mother in her heart, while a man regards herself as a bachelor in her heart." This kind of business method is wrong. In other words, two people have to do housework together, and don’t simply throw housework to women.
02
The meals are "out in turn", and the couple feels distance.
In the south, the seasons are warm, so I don’t pursue speed when cooking. You can also think of cooking a certain dish halfway through the meal. This can be done everywhere in the summer.
In many restaurants, the waiter was holding the dishes and shouting "A plate of scallion and tofu, customers can use it slowly." One dish after another, it came, and the atmosphere seemed very good and people had a good appetite.
Some families have difficulty eating at the same time because couples have different working hours. Everyone cooks their own meals and goes to work immediately after eating.
The couple’s eating habits are different. One likes vegetables, the other likes meat; the other likes porridge, and the other likes rice noodles... This leads to the dining pattern of cooking and eating. This is "out in turn".
Don’t be too rigid in cooking, and you can’t force the other party to like the taste you like. This reflects the two words "respect" .
My second grandma likes to eat onions since she was a child, but her second grandfather hates onions. When they eat every day, their family has several more dishes than ordinary families. There are two bowls of the same dish.
Although the food is very troublesome, the second grandfather and second grandmother have a good relationship. When going to the restaurant, I will give special instructions to the chef not to put on the green onions, but to take out the green onions separately.
A good husband-wife relationship will not be similar to two people, but will allow differentiation. Whether it is work, concepts, or habits, you cannot be demanding and you cannot judge others by yourself.
There are differences between couples, which reflects the spiritual sense of distance. It seems that I spend my whole life getting to know each other and experience a different love.
03
The meal is "slowly out", and the couple enjoy life.
Southern people like to make soup, especially Guangdong people.
Soup is very particular and takes a long time. In order to make the soup very strong, some people can boil the soup overnight.
There is a kind of fish meal in Hunan. The fish inside is boiled until it is cooked. Once you move the chopsticks, the fish meat and the fish bones will separate. It really reached the temperature.
"slowly" meals seem very troublesome, and only leisurely days can be done.
Sima Nan said this: "The couple divorced less than five years after they got married. This is like making a pot of old soup. Before the specified time has arrived, they just put the main ingredients, including green onions, ginger, large ingredients, Angelica , and red dates. They were put in before they could stew it and stew it...."
How many couples are there? They are already angry before the soup is cooked, and they even throw away the tools for stewing the soup. This is the wrong way to manage a marriage. I have no patience and I don’t know what it means to “hold the clouds and see the moon bright”.
Couples who master the "temperature" can not only grasp love, but also cultivate morality and improve themselves. Don't worry, what we need is a lifetime, not a while.
04
There is a line in "China on the Bite of the Tongue": "With a thousand hands, there are a thousand flavors. Chinese cooking is extremely mysterious and difficult to replicate. From the deep mountains to the downtown area, the teaching of cooking still follows the traditional way of word-of-mouth and understanding."
Every family is different, so different methods need to be used to cook, rush, slow, cold and hot-cooked...all of them are fine.
As long as the couple starts together, all kinds of tastes will be in the meal.
It seems difficult to manage a marriage, but in the final analysis, it is just three meals a day.
If you feel that your lover is not good enough, or your marriage is not very warm, then give it a try and cook with your lover, and it will definitely get better.
I believe that people who have been running around for a lifetime will be satisfied when they meet the smell of fireworks at home.
Author: Common people eat coarse food.
Follow my text and enter your heart.
The pictures in the article are from the Internet.
There are differences between couples, which reflects the spiritual sense of distance. It seems that I spend my whole life getting to know each other and experience a different love.
03
The meal is "slowly out", and the couple enjoy life.
Southern people like to make soup, especially Guangdong people.
Soup is very particular and takes a long time. In order to make the soup very strong, some people can boil the soup overnight.
There is a kind of fish meal in Hunan. The fish inside is boiled until it is cooked. Once you move the chopsticks, the fish meat and the fish bones will separate. It really reached the temperature.
"slowly" meals seem very troublesome, and only leisurely days can be done.
Sima Nan said this: "The couple divorced less than five years after they got married. This is like making a pot of old soup. Before the specified time has arrived, they just put the main ingredients, including green onions, ginger, large ingredients, Angelica , and red dates. They were put in before they could stew it and stew it...."
How many couples are there? They are already angry before the soup is cooked, and they even throw away the tools for stewing the soup. This is the wrong way to manage a marriage. I have no patience and I don’t know what it means to “hold the clouds and see the moon bright”.
Couples who master the "temperature" can not only grasp love, but also cultivate morality and improve themselves. Don't worry, what we need is a lifetime, not a while.
04
There is a line in "China on the Bite of the Tongue": "With a thousand hands, there are a thousand flavors. Chinese cooking is extremely mysterious and difficult to replicate. From the deep mountains to the downtown area, the teaching of cooking still follows the traditional way of word-of-mouth and understanding."
Every family is different, so different methods need to be used to cook, rush, slow, cold and hot-cooked...all of them are fine.
As long as the couple starts together, all kinds of tastes will be in the meal.
It seems difficult to manage a marriage, but in the final analysis, it is just three meals a day.
If you feel that your lover is not good enough, or your marriage is not very warm, then give it a try and cook with your lover, and it will definitely get better.
I believe that people who have been running around for a lifetime will be satisfied when they meet the smell of fireworks at home.
Author: Common people eat coarse food.
Follow my text and enter your heart.
The pictures in the article are from the Internet.
