If you use money in these aspects, it is understandable. Because in our hometown, families with average family conditions, if they don’t have enough savings, they will borrow money from relatives and friends and pay it back slowly after getting married. After all, it costs a lot of money to get married now. If the dowry is too much, hundreds of thousands, and if it is too little, it will cost tens of thousands. In addition, buying a car, a house, a wedding banquet, and , three gold, jewelry, etc., most people can’t afford so much money.
But if the money is used for other things, and the man deliberately conceals the woman and intends to ask her to pay the money with him, this practice is a bit unkind. If someone marrys you, he is here to live, not to pay off your debts. He owes more than 100,000 yuan after getting married, and this pressure is quite great. Of course, women are not stupid or stupid. She is willing to take money to you because she is sincere. If she finds out that you deliberately ask her to pay back the money, she will definitely leave you.
Then again, the woman has borrowed 35,000 yuan, and still owes more than 70,000 yuan later. As long as the couple work hard and work hard, it can be paid off for two or three years, or at least one or two years. If the income is stable, it may be done in a year. More than 70,000 yuan is more than more, and less is less. It is also a considerable expense for us workers. For women, the key to the problem is that men should not hide themselves.
Whether in love or getting married, both husband and wife must have absolute trust and understanding. If you hide it from her like this, she will find out after marriage that she will have some thoughts in her heart. As a man, you should be able to bend and stretch. If you do something wrong, you must apologize and explain to her without reservation. What is the purpose of borrowing so much money? When can you pay it back and get her understanding. If you continue to fool her, she will not continue to live with you.
Sincerely in exchange for true love, you are good to me, I am good to you, you are not good to me, why should I be good to you? Another point is that you should pay back the money you borrowed by yourself and let her pay off the debt with you, which is too unfair to her. There is a comment in the comment section: "This man is so good at forgetting it. He got his wife with someone else's money and didn't spend a bride." I personally hope that this man will not really be so calculating. In that case, you will be in vain. Sometimes people should not be too smart.
