While watching the video today, I saw a man crying to the death with a white foam box in his arms, and kept slapping himself hard. The three women next to him couldn't even hold him back.
I'm very curious, what happened that can make a big man crazy?
So, I clicked into the comment area, followed the clues and dug out a bunch of videos about the "Tangshan Premarital Agreement Incident". After watching these videos, I suddenly felt that this man was indeed responsible for his own fault.
So, what is the "Tangshan Premarital Agreement Incident"?
It turns out that Tangshan has a couple who are in love freely and get pregnant before marriage. The fetus is almost 5 months old. What should I do? Of course we have to talk about marriage. But on the day of marriage (get the marriage certificate), the man ran away, and the man later agreed, but the man also asked the woman to sign an prenuptial agreement .
After seeing the pre-marital agreement, the woman went crazy and went to the man's house to ask for an explanation. However, the man's family avoided her, and her boyfriend kept talking to stimulate the woman while taking videos with his mobile phone.
When the woman got angry, she smashed her boyfriend's house with something. Faced with the crazy girl's eyes and the onlookers from outsiders, the man was still only concerned about shooting videos, and had no intention of comforting her girlfriend. He even held a cigarette in his mouth and smiled.
According to the video, the woman said that she had called the police for the man. Of course, later some police officers came to deal with this matter.
However, this matter is not over. A few days later, the man's house received a white foam box. When the man's father saw the things inside the foam box, the scene at the beginning of the article appeared, and he seemed to be suddenly crazy.
So, what exactly is it in this white foam box?
I believe many friends have guessed it. To avoid causing discomfort to everyone, I will just click to stop. After the woman finished her quarrel, she gave up her baby who was nearly 5 months old.
Maybe someone is like me. When I first saw this, I felt that this woman was cruel enough. However, if you read that "prenuptial agreement", you may have a different view again.
According to the video content, the man asked the woman to sign the prenuptial agreement:
- The man paid the woman 95,000 yuan in accordance with rural customs. The woman completely voluntarily gave up collecting the 95,000 yuan in bride price and voluntarily promised to bring the 95,000 yuan back to the man. The man promised that the 95,000 yuan brought back to the man.
- Both men and women voluntarily agree not to receive a marriage certificate for the time being. The wedding will be held in accordance with rural customs first. The time for obtaining the marriage certificate will be negotiated and determined after the wedding is held by both men and women.
- The man’s pre-marital property has nothing to do with the woman.
- If the man and the woman divorce later, the woman has no right to divide the above-mentioned property. If the man and the woman die during the marriage, the man will die, the above-mentioned property will be inherited by the man’s parents and has nothing to do with the woman.
- The respective property and debts of both men and women before and after marriage shall belong to each other.
or above is the prenuptial agreement that made the woman furious, and it is also the prenuptial agreement that made the man's father cry and the last time.
After reading this incident, netizens all felt that the woman's approach was very relieved, and some even said, "Now, the property is saved, and there is no need to give the bride price. The child is also given to you. Why are you crying?"
Although this statement is a bit gloating, it still won the approval of most netizens, which shows that the so-called agreement of the man is indeed too much. After all, the eyes of the masses are sharp.
However, in my opinion, the man's behavior of asking the woman to sign a pre-marriage agreement is more unacceptable than the content in the agreement.
First of all, there are two points in this agreement that are reasonable.
- First, let the woman give up the bride price and bring it back to the man for use in the future life of both men and women.After all, the bride price is originally a start-up capital for the couple. No matter which one is kept for both the couple, as long as it is used for the daily life of both the couple, there is no problem.
- The second is the man’s pre-marital property and has nothing to do with the woman. According to Article 1063 of the " Civil Code ", one party's pre-marital property belongs to personal property, so the requirements for a man's pre-marital property in this agreement are reasonable.
Secondly, there are two possibilities for the man to ask the woman to sign this prenuptial agreement.
- made the woman retreat. In other words, after a free relationship, the woman was nearly 5 months pregnant. The man suddenly didn't want to marry the woman, so they came up with this pre-marital agreement so that the woman could give up.
- While the woman has been pregnant for nearly 5 months, she felt that the woman did not have the confidence to negotiate and deliberately made harsh demands. This purpose should be selfish and selfish. Since the raw rice has been cooked, everything will be beneficial to you.
But no matter which possibility is, it shows a problem: men don’t love women at all. Let’s not talk about the content of the agreement for now, just relying on the man’s behavior of asking the woman to sign a pre-marital agreement, it is enough to show that the man’s love for the woman is zero.
At the same time, this incident also reminds our female compatriots not to hand over themselves to the other party without reservation before recognizing the true face of a person. Especially if the behavior of getting pregnant before marriage, if the other party is an irresponsible person, it is very likely that it will hurt your body and live up to innocent lives.
In addition, Article 4 of this "prenuptial agreement" mentions the man's death, which I cannot understand. At such a young age, have you thought about your funeral after you so quickly? If this is an agreement made by the man himself, it is reasonable. But if this is an agreement made by the man’s parents, then they are cheating on their son.
Actually, although many people think that women won in this matter, I think this is a result of losing both sides. From the moment the woman smashed and smashed her desperately, this was a loss-making ending.
After this incident, I hope they understand, and I hope everyone understands a truth: if you love, please love deeply; if you don’t love, please do not hurt.
