Two days ago I saw a post on Xiaohongshu. The blogger said that she dreamed that she fell in love with a male classmate who had never spoken and went to bed. . She had no good impression of this boy, but she knew that he was the one in the school.
When I saw this post, I immediately thought that several years ago, I also had a similar spring dream! !
In my dream, I met the handsome guy from the department next door of the company inexplicably. He took advantage of the lunch break and ran to the company toilet to kiss and have an affair. Later, some undescribable things happened. The whole experience was very real and I could even feel the feeling of being touched.
What’s funny is that I just joined the company shortly after I had this dream. I didn’t even know the name of this handsome guy (even made up a name for him in my dream). I could count it with one hand when I met in the company. The only impression of him may be that when I introduced myself on the day I saw him looking good, I glanced at him twice.
After waking up from this dream, I was very shy and fell into deep aftertaste. The moment I woke up, I was shocked and ridiculous. Then the next second I quickly took out my phone and flipped him out of the company group and clicked on his circle of friends.
What's even more strange is that for a long time after this spring dream, I fell into a "fake liking" with him.
I began to care about him very much. When I was in the company, I would unconsciously glance at him, and even observe him intentionally for a long time, and found that he was indeed a very charming person.
In the end, I really felt good about him in reality. Later, when he left, I felt as if I had lost it for a while.
Of course, when I think of this, I just feel outrageous when I think of this incident, because I quickly forgot this person without leaving his contact information. It can be seen that I can't have a deeper impression of it.
talked to friends about this dream. They also said that they had dreamed of sleeping with celebrities, as well as the opposite sex or the same sex who were completely unfamiliar with them. In the future, they would have feelings for him like me, but this feeling would soon disappear.
I have also tried to find some scientific basis. It turned out that there was a saying that psychologist Freud : He believes that dreams are the embodiment of human subconsciousness, and wishes that cannot be realized in reality will be dreamed in dreams.
For example, if you have a potential favorable impression of this person and you don’t realize it yourself, or if you have been single for too long and want to fall in love, your brain will randomly pull a face from your memory bank and press it on the male protagonist’s face. All of these may be the reason why I dreamed of going to bed with someone I didn’t know.
Some people even dream of incest, cheating, and having an affair with a married man. These are also subconscious dissatisfaction with family and intimate relationships or have shadows.
From a psychological perspective, it is actually very reasonable to wake up and feel good about people you are not familiar with.
It is precisely because dreams are the embodiment of the subconscious mind that you will shape the other person into the ideal appearance in your heart in your dreams. What you like is most likely the person you imagined, not the person you are in reality.
I have seen some posts before that I fell in love with the dreamer. We mean that the love plot is designed by ourselves, and the perfect man is also fantasized by ourselves. How can we not love this? This is only possible in dreams.
So a large part of the favor that comes from your own fantasy bonus. When you meddle all your sexual fantasies into your dreams, you will have the misunderstanding of "crush caused by a spring dream".
As for whether you really have a potential favorable impression of this person in reality, you may have to calm down and think more about it yourself.
Finally, I want to say that having a spring dream is a normal physiological phenomenon. Even if you dream of something immoral or indescribable in your dream, there is nothing to be ashamed of. Dreams are dreams, and they will not have any impact on reality.
I'm curious if you have dreamed of falling in love or going to bed with someone you don't know? Why not talk about your outrageous spring dream content in the comment section tonight. I have moved a small stool and prepared to eat melon seeds to watch.
