I think there are the following secrets that cannot be told to my lover. How many exes were there before? When you are together, it is best not to tell the other person how many exes they have.
Smart people never tell each other how many exes they had before. After all, when a man and a woman are serious, they will never want each other's previous relationship to be involved again. Those exes have become past, and if the secret is shared, the two will only have bad feelings, especially when quarrels, and the former is more likely to create a continuous spark between the two.
Smart people know that this topic will never be mentioned. The past has passed. Now we should cherish each other, so that each other can be truly at ease, and know that the two people are real lovers now. In life, everyone has some secrets that cannot be told.
The secret of your best friend or best friend, if a person tells you her secret simply because he trusts you. If you tell others his secret, then this is a big taboo. Everyone has their own life. The secret he tells you may be his bad side. Telling you because you trust you, but once you tell others, it will be a bolt from the blue for him. It is difficult to cultivate trust between people. Once people no longer trust you, the people around you will not trust you.
Family members say bad things to their lovers, and they can only rot in their stomachs and never say them. When two people get married, it must be clear that marriage is not about two people, but about two families, or even about others. Your family and his family have more or less some opinions about you two, and even say something unpleasant.
You have to be clear that this is normal, if you want to maintain a happy marriage, you have to say more affirmation to your partner about your family, rather than telling her what the family thinks of him. Marriage is never like love. In marriage, a person must learn to be patient. However, a person must not only tolerate his other half, but also his family. So these secrets cannot be told to your lover. The above are only personal opinions.
