Because of the misfortune of the family, my sister-in-law accidentally got pregnant and gave birth to a baby boy. The next day my mother-in-law asked me to adopt the child. The reason was to protect her daughter's reputation. I said it was 8,000 yuan a month, so I agreed to treat the child as my own son.
I have been married for three years and I just married Xiaolin and my family together. After a year, I couldn’t get along with my mother-in-law. I proposed to separate my family and live by myself.
Fortunately, Kobayashi agreed, because Kobayashi also understood that his mother was a rude and unreasonable person, so Kobayashi and I moved out and rented a house outside for two years now.
We worked together to buy a house of our own. Although it is not as glorious as the previous big house, our small house is also warm and happy. My mother-in-law, who has not visited the door for two years, actually came to her house.
Because the Spring Festival is approaching, we have already had a holiday. As soon as my mother-in-law came in, she pointed at the decorations at home and said, "What are you doing for buying these things? Isn't it cost? Really, can these flowers and plants be eaten? Don't think that you can squander money by buying a house yourself. When you really have no way out, don't come and beg me."
My mother-in-law's tone was still sarcastic. My husband and I didn't say anything, just asked her if she wanted to eat? When I made a meal for her, my mother-in-law said sharply, "Of course I have to eat. I, an old man, came to my house, why don't I know how to make food yet?"
Seeing that it was my husband Xiaolin walking to the kitchen to make food, my mother-in-law couldn't rest anymore.
pointed at me and said, "You are a woman, and women should do laundry and cook at home. How can I let Xiaolin cook? I really don't understand the rules. Haven't your parents taught you? When you get to someone else's house, you have to learn to take care of your daily life."
I did not refute, Xiaolin stood up and said, "Mom, my wife was sick a few days ago. I asked me to cook by myself. Just wait and eat, stop talking."
Hearing Xiaolin's explanation, my mother-in-law gave me a blank look. I didn't want to care about him. After all, she is an elder, so I can only look at my husband politely.
Kobayashi cooked five dishes. My mother-in-law looked at the food on the table and said sarcastically: "Why don't I deserve to eat good food when I come? I made a few fish and fried a meat. Can't I go out to buy some chicken, duck and fish? I don't come often and don't understand politeness at all."
I explained that it was because my mother-in-law came in too haste and had not had time to buy food. She would definitely make a more sumptuous thing for her to eat later. My mother-in-law said that I was intentional and deliberately wanted to abuse her.
No matter how much she said, he is also her mother-in-law. I marry his son, so I have to contribute to her as my mother. How can a woman who is stingy and stingy like me develop better?
I said it was my fault this time, and my mother-in-law went straight to the topic after dinner.
"Tomorrow you go through the adoption procedures and bring your sister's son to raise."
Xiaolin and I were confused with my face. Xiaolin asked my mother-in-law why her sister's child wanted him to raise?
The mother-in-law said loudly, "If you ask you to raise me, don't ask so much, come to the hospital on time tomorrow morning."
After saying that, the mother-in-law left. Kobayashi hurriedly called her father. My father was the most sensible at home. Through understanding, I learned that Kobayashi's sister was pregnant with other men at school.
Her sister thought that the man would marry her, but the man had already slapped his butt and left. However, Kobayashi's sister did not give up and still wanted to give up, because Kobayashi's mother was afraid that the incident would be bad for her daughter if it spread.
So I could only ask Kobayashi, who is the eldest brother, to adopt the child. When I heard this news, Kobayashi and I were very surprised. No wonder we couldn't hear any news. It turned out that it was hidden by his mother.
Now I know the truth from my father. I ask Kobayashi how to deal with this matter? Kobayashi said that it was difficult for him to make a decision for a while, after all, he was his sister.
I told Kobayashi that I don’t want to raise other children, even if it’s his sister’s, because we will have children in the future.
I am not a kind-hearted person, I can't put your sister's children on the same level as my children and treat them fairly, no matter how I want to be fair.
But I was always selfish in my heart, and I told Kobayashi all the way.
Hearing Xiaolin say that he understands it too. The next day we came to the hospital together. We first went to visit his sister. His sister was crying on the hospital bed and holding her cell phone in her hand.
We didn't ask, we should be sending a message to that man! Kobayashi comforted her sister.
His sister said she would adopt the child, and the unfaithful man ran away. She had to go back to school now, so it was impossible for the child to become her burden.
Kobayashi also expressed his thoughts. He said that he did not want to adopt this child. Since his sister gave birth to a child, she must be responsible for the child and raise the child well no matter what.
Kobayashi's sister hadn't spoken yet, and her mother-in-law rushed in and slapped Kobayashi.
pointed at me and cursed: "Is it your woman's idea? Kobayashi, you are his brother? Now that something happened to your sister, how can you do such a thing? This child must be yours."
I said that although we don't raise children, the family can raise this child. My mother-in-law said it's absolutely not possible and she must give this child a title.
If you raise it at home, then many people will know that this child belongs to her daughter?
Then how did her daughter get married in the future? I was so angry that I laughed at this. I said that I didn’t give birth to the child, so I wouldn’t raise it.
Seeing that my attitude was so firm, my mother-in-law rushed over and wanted to slap me, but was stopped by Kobayashi.
"Mom, when will you mess around? If you dare to hit my wife, don't expect me to be filial to you in the future."
Kobayashi's words did make her mother-in-law stop.
, but he still cursed: "This child must be raised by you. They are all family and are related by blood. Besides, if you don't have this child in the future, don't you girls now advocate not having children? If you have this child, you don't have to give birth."
Hearing these words, I just shook my head.
smiled and said, "It's okay for my mother-in-law to let me adopt this child, but I have a condition. I can raise this child as my biological child, and I can't give birth to a child, just one of him."
Hearing me, my mother-in-law hurriedly said what conditions?
Kobayashi advised me not to be wronged. I said I would give me 8,000 yuan a month and I could not break it every month. I also signed a contract with me, and the law would take effect.
If you can pay me 8,000 yuan a month, that is the child, I will definitely raise it.
and treat it as a biological child. I can also guarantee that I don’t have children in the future and hear my request.
My mother-in-law said it was just a daydreaming. She was doing it for my own good and to help me not have children in the future and relieve some pain. I didn’t know how to polite it. I still need 8,000 yuan. What money does the family want?
I told them that since they have given birth, they must be responsible for the child. If they did not plan to give birth, they must think about it.
Little sister, I think you are a college student. You should know very well. If you are born without raising it, you will be useless to be a human being.
That’s all for me. Please take care of yourself. I hope you will finally be able to be sensible one day.
After saying that, Xiaolin and I left
