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Hello, I am Zheng Xiaonizi.

was asked by a friend before: has been written for so long, how have you persisted and how have you achieved your small goals?

so today Nizi wrote this article specifically to talk about this issue.

Nizi first talks about the core reason I can stick to: does not rely on willpower. Willpower is good, but if everything depends on willpower, it will be very difficult.

For example, in summer, Nizi wanted weight loss , and bought 2 elastic bars at home.

At the beginning, I worked hard to do it. Every night, I insisted on shaking for an hour, and I must have to sweat profusely before stopping, but I still couldn't hold on in the end.

So, since then, I will not arrange for myself to lose weight exercises, as long as I meet the expectations of 2 hours of activity every day, I will be satisfied.

For example, Nizi likes to write plans , and I like to set myself ambitious goals, such as I want to achieve financial independence within 3 years, I want to achieve travel around within 5 years, etc.

However, from the current actual situation, my plans and goals are uncertain, so I began to reflect on myself and once again chose plans with relatively less difficult ones.

For example, spend money within the scope of your support to decorate the study you want, buy clothes you like, plan to buy social security for yourself, etc. Although

Although these are all small goals, in my opinion, these are all real footprints on my road to achieving economic independence.

Through the above example, I believe everyone has also discovered: I will take the initiative to reduce the difficulty of one thing. I am not escaping, but to better climb higher peaks.

Because only by doing the small and small goals can you achieve a bigger career.

Then the topic goes back to writing.

I am a young mother in 1994. I don’t want to go out to work. It can even be said that I am not suitable for work now. Why do you say so? Take the recent situation as an example. The two children started taking online classes half a month ago. They checked in nucleic acid test , checked in homework, and filled in various materials every day. This is something that must be done.

In addition, three meals a day and homework tutoring, which one can leave people?

If I go to work, it is most likely that it will be the first half of a month, and then take half a month off. If you are the boss, would you ask me to be your employee? It's almost impossible.

So, based on the current situation, what kind of job is suitable for me? No.

, I am very glad that I can write at home to make a living. It has been 5 years since the writing of

. In the 5 years of persistence, it does not rely on willpower, but only on your own liking and taking the initiative.

so, I had the beginning conversation with my friends. So how can I achieve the effect of perseverance without relying on willpower? Nizi will take this opportunity to share some experiences.

01. Make your ability match the size of the target.

As the saying goes: Without Diamond , you won’t take on porcelain work.

A person’s ability and goals cannot be too different, otherwise he will be ambitious.

Just like Wang Jianlin said that setting a small goal is to make 100 million first. For him, it is indeed a small goal, but for us, it is astronomical figures.

So how to find a target that matches your ability?

In the book "Cognitive Awakening", there is a sentence that I think can help you find quickly, that is: You can do things or goals that are easy to make mistakes or not, but you can understand with a little effort.

For example:

For example:

When I was a writer, I often needed to add pictures to the document, but I didn't know, so I like to write articles that don't need to add pictures.

Because the manuscript fee for adding pictures was higher at that time, when I saw others start to pick them up, I began to regret it again.

I began to reflect on myself: html l5 I don’t even know how to add pictures, but I think I can earn 100 yuan every day?

After thinking about this, I went to learn how to add pictures that night. At the beginning, it was either big or small, or it was deleted by mistake.

I don’t remember how many times I practiced that night, I only remember this one operation, I practiced until 1 a.m.

I don’t remember how many times I practiced that night. I only remember this one operation. I practiced until 1 a.m.

And after I knew this operation, the royalties naturally increased.

So, at that time, my ability did not match the goal of earning 100 yuan a day, so I couldn't achieve that goal for a long time. When I changed the big goal to something close, I had the possibility of achieving the big goal.

so, matching your abilities and goals is the most important thing.

02. Make your energy match the order of things.

Have you ever had such a time?

want to do this, and want to do that, and want to do another thing, but in the end, I wasted a day in the entanglement of what to do first, and I didn’t do three things.

5 attempts to do everything well, but in the end, I can’t do anything well.

5 The truth is most people understand and understand the quick success. It is impossible, and it is even more impossible to do a lot of things at the same time and see the effect immediately, but I just can't help but do it.

rushes to take refuge, and it is human nature to be eager to achieve success. We can't overcome it, so it's better to just "take only one scoop".

For example, there are five or six things to do today, so we will find the most important thing here.

Just like in the past half month, what do I need to do in a day?

Do nucleic acid, wash clothes, tutoring homework, writing, keeping exercise, cooking, etc.

so which of them is the most important? makes nucleic acid.

Then the child will teach homework/wash clothes after class (use the gaps to put the clothes into the washing machine) - Writing - Exercise/clean up the room.

Here I don’t do anything that can be solved by using home appliances. Cleaning up the room and exercising can be combined into one.

can match your energy with the difficulty of things. Only by spending your limited energy on more worthwhile things can you persist for a longer time. I am the same in writing

. I write it at the beginning and if there is a little stuck in the middle, I will write the end first. This way, it is easy first and then difficult, and use small achievements to reversely push your own progress.

at the end:

Nizi is an ordinary post-90s. From the beginning of writing to entering self-media, she has been persisting for 5 years now.

Many people think that it is not easy to stick to it for a few years.

yes, who said it is not? So I don’t rely on willpower in the writing path, or to put it more accurately: cannot rely solely on willpower, interest and initiative are more important.

If you are still confused at this point, then Nizi suggests that you read the two books "Cognitive Awakening" and "Infinite Possibilities". You will definitely gain something after reading it.

OK. The above is what Xiao Nizi shared today’s useful information. If it is useful to you, you can use your finger to like me. Thank you for your reading and support.

Author introduction: [ Zheng Xiaonizi ]

A post-90s who focuses on personal growth and self-media information

One hand-written dry goods, the other hand-written gentle words

One with two children, is changing oneself by writing

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