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Only by penetrating confusion can one see through the essence of life. What is the essence of marriage? Many people are very confused. In a person’s life, what kind of people should we find to get married and live with. This is a great knowledge, and we can live whatever we choose.
First, what is the essence of marriage? I think it is the definition of home.
Marriage itself is to give each other a stable home, and home is the harbor of a person's soul. When two people are together, they are a family that relies on each other and resist the effects of all the wind and rain faced by the world. Help each other grow up. You are sick and I take care of you. I fell down and you caressed me. There is no meaning. So what should I do for home? Home is the last stability of the soul, and the last harbor of the soul.
Supporting each other is the best meaning of a family. It has nothing to do with family background, education, status, or money. It is because two people are together, they are happy and simple, and they live comfortably in ordinary days.
Second, marriage is not a place to achieve the world of fame and fortune. Those who choose marriage to achieve fame and fortune and become rich are impossible and even more undesirable.
It is undeniable that in modern society, there are many people who get married because of money, but all of them end up in divorce. Marriage is not a place to achieve fame and fortune. When a person points to choose marriage to get rich, then he has made a 100% choice, the wrong direction is wrong, and the result is naturally wrong.
Some people will say that marriage can enable two people to win money, but that requires even power. Only two people who are even power will be equal.
I have also played it in the TV series. What happened to a Cinderella marrying a rich man? It is because of the inequality of money, it is not respected or recognized by the other party’s relatives. Usually, there is no money and the husband doesn’t like it. The same is true for an ordinary family. If it is a woman who cannot be independent, the man will look down on it, let alone a rich family?
Many female celebrities’ news about marrying a rich man, but the result is not good. Either the husband goes bankrupt and has to pay off the huge debt, or the husband goes to jail, or the husband is extremely stingy with him and doesn’t care at all. It’s actually the same as having or not. Life is like a play, the wrong choice, the same as having or not.
The same is true for ordinary people in real life. All the goals of relying on marriage to achieve fame and fortune have failed. God will not let a person who does not rely on his own efforts to gain something.
If you want to earn 1 million or 10 million, you can only rely on your own efforts to work hard from a low level in your career, and constantly improve your ability, step by step, and work hard steadily, rather than relying on marriage to change your destiny.
People who change their destiny by marriage will eventually become empty, and relying on their down-to-earth efforts, they will eventually become more and more powerful and more stable through accumulation.
Whether it is men or women, it is actually the same. We all live in an ordinary world. We should not rely on marriage to gain fame and fortune, nor do we rely on marriage to gain money. Those are impossible.
There is only one law in this world: plant melons and get melons, plant beans and get beans. In marriage, you can only harvest empty things. In marriage, sow your duty to be down-to-earth, and marriage will be stable and long-lasting, and be harmonious and happy. Marriage also requires sowing the right cause to get the right result.
Sometimes, when everyone is unreliable, the most reliable thing is to be independent and make money by yourself. Only when you have the ability is truly your own.
If you want to keep yourself from falling, you must first become stronger and independent, so that no one or anything can defeat you or crush you.
Third, rely on one's own ability, be down-to-earth in doing things, marriage is just a harbor for home rest
Everyone has no choice but to decide where their destiny will go, but we can keep making our hearts stronger, do things down-to-earth, and work hard bit by bit on ourselves. Even if we only earn 1 yuan or 10 yuan, we will slowly accumulate and work hard on ourselves bit by bit. A towering building is on the ground. Only by laying a foundation and keeping your feet on the ground can you withstand all kinds of tests of wind and rain. This is the case with the building and the principles of life.
Life does not depend on whether you have a good or bad card, whether you have a wealthy family background, a poor and miserable childhood, or a miserable life experience, but on whether you can be strong enough in your heart to overcome setbacks and bad luck, rely on your own inner strength, and your own ability and effort to turn a bad card into a good card, turn the tragic pain in life into the driving force for hard work, strengthen yourself, overcome setbacks and pain, and make yourself stronger, strong enough to have no setbacks to overwhelm yourself, and when you defeat yourself, we will start and make your life better and better.
There is a saying that if you are so powerful that you are like a bastard, no one or anything can hurt you. In fact, only when you are as strong as a tank can you not let anyone or things hurt yourself. All the setbacks and pains you encounter on the road of life can be trained to make yourself stronger and turn into nutrients to strengthen yourself. Only when you have not experienced pain and setbacks in vain can you make yourself strong enough to crush all the thorns on the road of life and turn the difficult road of life into a calm road. We should have the courage to be fearless and have nothing in our hearts. At least I can enjoy the beauty of the stars and the beauty of nature.
Marriage is just a harbor of home in the soul. When we are tired, we have the care and concern of our lovers and children. When we are cold, we have lovers and children remind us to wear a coat and not to get frozen. No matter whether there is wind and rain or not, we will spend it hand in hand. This is the meaning of marriage and the true meaning of marriage.
Only when we have reached an agreement on the perception of a truly meaningful home can we not be afraid of having no money, fame and fortune, and everything, and we can still move forward firmly. I will try my best to survive because of a warm home, rely on my own efforts to manage my family well. Only such a marriage will last.
Only by working hard and hard, even if you have nothing, you can still manage and work hard.
Don’t wait until you lose it before you remember the importance of your wife and children. Don’t wait until you lose it before you remember how lucky it was to have a warm home. I hope more people will cherish life, live a good life, and cherish the ordinary happy life and family that they can have.
Fame and fortune are empty, and having a warm home lasts for a long time. Everyone needs to think carefully about marriage and fame and fortune. Which one do you want?
