For young people, longing for love is natural, and they are also afraid of the harm caused by love.
There are more and more conflicts in society due to love, which makes many people afraid to choose a partner easily. This is one of the reasons why the marriage rate is so low and the divorce rate is so high. If a person can live freely, why do you have to compromise with two people?
People can’t escape life if they want to gain a foothold in society. The pressure of life has made many people breathless. Only happy love can neutralize a bitter life, but after all, there are a few people who can find sweet love. On the contrary, more and more people are becoming lonely because of the wounds of love.
This woman is a young man who married a far away place. When she was just with a man, the woman looked at him with a light in her eyes, and she could clearly feel the sincerity of her feelings. Naturally, my family didn't want the woman to marry from another place, but she couldn't resist the woman's firm attitude, so she finally chose this man.
Because the woman's family conditions are average, she cannot prepare too much dowry. When she goes to the man's family, she is short of money and cannot buy too many gifts. In this way, under the strange eyes of the man's family, the two finally got married. Life after marriage is not as happy as a woman thinks, but is full of grievances and injustice.
I thought I could adapt to this kind of life, but it was not until the woman found out that she had been deceived that she realized that the man was not as simple as she thought.
It turned out that the man had divorced twice before meeting the woman and had two children. He married her just to find a buyer.
When I learned the truth, the woman firmly demanded to divorce the man. The divorce process was difficult. Under various unfair treaties, the woman returned all the betrothal gifts and three golds, and even took on debts. The ease of coming and the heavy departure formed a sharp contrast.
After experiencing emotional damage, the woman also became depressed. When she went to the hospital, she realized that she had depression , which is enough to prove how deeply this incident hit her.
When the incident was posted on the Internet, public opinion accused the man of his behavior of no bottom line, and some netizens even speculated whether this was suspected of cheating marriage.
Emotional analysis:
Love injury is the most painful injury, especially for a person who once loved the other party deeply, when they found out that all this was a lie woven by the other party. This sense of frustration and gap will wipe out all the will of a person. Divorce is an inevitable choice, but the sequelae of divorce will accompany you for a long time.
In the whole relationship, a woman is innocent. If she had not learned about the man's emotional experience unexpectedly, she might have been kept in the dark. For the stability of this family, the woman endured all kinds of unfair treatment and endured her in-laws' scolding.
Although the family conditions are not good, the woman still has the right to pursue love. The reality has given her a headache. She may not believe in love again in the future.
Many young people are timid in the face of love, fearing that they will be hurt like women. Therefore, when talking about marriage, you must understand the other person’s past.
must have sufficient considerations for family background and character, and do not easily entrust life, and do not regard economic conditions as the only criterion for choosing a spouse. After all, money is not your own, and no matter how you look at the food you give, you will not have a stable future.
Especially for women, the trial and error cost of marriage is very high. Once you fall into a failed marriage, it will cause great obstacles to your pursuit of happiness. Therefore, when starting a relationship, you must be very cautious and keep the distance you deserve when facing people who don’t know the truth.
