I am Lu Shisi, a post-90s who focuses on female growth and self-improvement. Follow me and let us grow up together and become a better self~
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Don't take the initiative to give suggestions or suggestions to others!
Don’t take the initiative to give suggestions or suggestions to others!
Don’t take the initiative to give suggestions or suggestions to others!
Don’t take the initiative to give suggestions or suggestions to others!
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Only when others take the initiative to ask you, the other party will take the advice you give and the ideas you come up with seriously. However, when others do not ask you, you take the initiative and enthusiastic advice and ideas, the other party will not only not pay attention to it, but will also think that you are meddling in other people's business.
Remember, it’s not a business to go up, and it’s not worth it if you talk too much.
02
Don't be good to everyone, and don't be bad to everyone.
If you are good to everyone, you will be exhausted. People close to you will think you are stupid, and others will not remember your goodness. If one day you are tired and don’t want to be good to everyone, others will think you have become bad.
Don't be bad to everyone, otherwise you will gain a bad reputation of selfishness and badness. No one wants to live like everyone criticizes, right?
So, don’t be nice to everyone, and don’t be bad to everyone, but treat differently. To those who are good to yourself and those who are bad to yourself, let others know that how you treat others depends on how others treat you.
03
Make a living first, then make love.
Only when you make a living, the love you find will be of high quality. If you don’t make a living well, the love you find will not be much better. Even if you find love, you may still be squeezed by the other party to exploit your only value.
04
insists on reading, learning, practice, reflection and summary.
Reading, learning, practice, reflection and summary are the magic weapons to upgrade the brain.
people will encounter various problems in their lives. You may rack your brains and can’t figure out why and how to solve it.
In fact, many problems you have encountered have been encountered long ago. Not only that, the causes of the problems and the ideas for solving the problems have been written in the book.
05
5-piece set: reach out for money (i.e. ID card, mobile phone, key, wallet) + mask.
06
The 28 law that girls can follow : 80% of their energy is spent on themselves and 20% of their energy is spent on others.
07
Don’t listen to what others say, it depends on what others do. Even if others say it in a mess, if you don’t do it, then you just think it’s fake.
08
When discussing the right and wrong of others, when you are in negative emotions such as pain and sadness, and when you succeed in counterattack from the bottom, you must learn to shut up.
09
distinguish between the scene and the truth, and don’t think too much about someone else’s words, and waste your mind for no reason.
10
When talking to others, he is kind-hearted, gentle tone, confident and calm.
When speaking, the volume is moderate, but it is not too big or small. The volume is too loud and harsh, and the volume is too low and others can't hear it clearly.
11
Don’t become a shrew, a resentful woman, or a jealous woman.
12
When others are helped, they often say "thank you". If others help you more, you should give gifts afterwards, and your behavior is more sincere than verbal thanks.
13
When walking, don’t slim your shoes (slim shoes are just put on your toes and mop the floor). It’s really not pleasing to make a sound from the slim shoes.
When sneezing, cover your mouth and nose and do not directly face someone.
14
often praise others, it is best to praise them in public.
There is a saying that says: praises people in public, and it is recommended to mention them privately.
15
Be flexible in life, don’t learn things to death.
Life is not clear in black and white, there is also a gray area. People are not only divided into absolute good people and absolute bad people. More people combine good and bad things, but the proportion of good and bad things in each person is different.
16
Don’t trust others easily, even those who have had a good relationship with you should be vigilant.
Don’t stay in the past, but judge a person’s character based on the present.
17
If you have time, you can learn to write. Your thinking ability will become stronger, your expression ability will be enhanced, and your sense of logic will be better!
18
Restrain desires and control emotions.
19
Close various app notifications on your phone, or when you ask whether to allow notification information when using the app for the first time, select "Don't allow". This can reduce the number of times you subconsciously turn on your phone.
20
Eat well, go to bed early and get up early, have a regular schedule. Now you may feel that staying up late is nothing great. When you get older, you will know how much harm the bad routines you have accumulated over a long period of time will have to cause women's appearance and physical health. Some of the effects are invisible.
promised me that as a girl, you must be kind to yourself.
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Author introduction:
I am a post-90s generation, a person who is studying, practicing, trying to become what I want and living the life I want.
