The old saying goes: Father and son fight, fight tigers and brothers, brothers work together, and they are both good at cutting off gold. In their hometown in the countryside, the more brothers there are, the more dominant they are. The most obvious thing is that no one dares to bully them.
But there is also an old saying: Brothers, settle accounts openly, and in terms of money and interests, it is best to not say secret words to others. If there is anything to put in the open, don’t plot behind your back, as it is the easiest to hurt your feelings.
But ideals are always abandoned by reality, and human hearts are always defeated by human nature. No matter how beautiful the initial brotherhood is, it cannot withstand the test of interests in the end, especially after marriage, there is no other love in my heart.
Today I will tell a story about a pair of brothers. The older brother is Sun Chao and the younger brother is Sun Bin. The two live in a rural countryside in Xiangxi . They lost their father since childhood, and Aunt Sun raised them alone.
Sun Chao is three years older than Sun Bin, but he is much taller. His younger brother Sun Bin is a little disabled and he walks. Because there is no father at home, the two brothers had a very good relationship when they were young. The older brother Sun Chao took great care of his younger brother Sun Bin. The two brothers were always inseparable from the room. When the younger brother was ridiculed and bullied by others when they walked, the older brother stood up and beat others up and screamed.
Sun Chao doesn't like to study. He dropped out of school before he finished junior high school. He helped his mother do farm work at home. Sun Bin's grades are OK, but his family really has no spare money to go to school. After graduating from junior high school, he also stayed at home to do farm work. Although his life was hard, the family of three was healthy and it was fine to fill his stomach.
Later, a distant relative who was driving a bus in a township saw that their family was pitiful, so he suggested to Aunt Sun that it was not a big deal for two children to stay at home, and even his wife could not be married after they could not make money. Especially his younger brother Sun Bin is also disabled. Otherwise, letting Sun Bin be a ticket seller for him would be considered a profession, which is easier than doing farm work and can earn some money every month, which is better than lying on the field for a family.
Of course, Aunt Sun agreed happily, and when she went back, she told Sun Bin that this was a good thing, otherwise she would ask her brother to go. She was a disabled person and was afraid of causing trouble for her relatives at that time, so she would make her embarrassed later.
But Sun Chao disagreed no matter what he said, saying that his relatives would ask his younger brother to go, so let him go, otherwise the relatives would regret it and no one would go. He was in good health and could help with farm work even if he stayed by his mother. In the end, his mother made the decision and asked his older brother Sun Chao to go.
Sun Chao follows his relatives to sports cars. Although it is hard, it is much easier than working in the countryside. He can also travel around and get a little salary every month. Sun Bin accompanied Aunt Sun in the countryside. It was very hard to do farm work, but he never complained that people in the countryside believed in fate.
Sun Chao rests for two days a month. When he is at home, Sun Bin will take the initiative to bake big cakes for his brother. When the two are eating cakes, Sun Chao tells his brother about his experiences in sports cars. The relationship between the two brothers is still as good as ever.
Days passed, and the gap between the two brothers became increasingly bigger. Sun Bin often did farm work and had very little talk. Compared to this, he looked more old-fashioned like his brother. However, his brother Sun Chao still looked so young and his clothes were fashionable. Sun Chao also made some money in sports cars in recent years. In the middle, he even went to learn to drive. Although Aunt Sun didn't understand, why spend so much money to learn to drive?
Sun Bin explained for his brother that when he learns to drive, he can be a driver for others, so that he doesn’t have to be a small ticket seller forever, and his salary will increase a lot.
Not long after learning the car, relatives asked Sun Chao to try to drive. After no problems, he asked him to drive. He sold his tickets and his salary increased slightly. When Sun Chao was in a sports car, he met a girl from the town. The two of them were very good at talking. When Sun Bin picked up Zhang Chao at the intersection, he saw it from afar. It felt like the person in the painting, quite beautiful.
Gradually, Sun Chao didn't go home much when he was resting, nor did he send money to his house. In the past, even if he didn't have a rest, he would still ask someone to take his monthly salary back. Aunt Sun was a little anxious and was afraid that Sun Chao would do anything, so he asked Sun Bin to park at the intersection of the town.
When I met Sun Chao, Sun Bin felt that his brother had obviously lost weight. Sun Chao said that he was busy recently and had not had a day off. He said that he was going to save money to buy a car and drive it himself and ask Sun Bin to sell tickets.
just needs to spend a lot of money to buy a car, Sun Bin has no idea about this.
Yes, it costs a lot of money. Our family definitely can’t afford it now, but this is my dream. Everyone has a dream. Brother, what is your dream? Sun Chao said.
I don’t have any dreams, as long as I and you are in good health, Sun Bin said.
Sun Chao said to Sun Bin with a smile, from now on, think about one carefully and tell me that I can help you achieve it in the future.
This time was the last warm conversation between the two brothers. Many years later, when Sun Bin recalled, his face was still full of happiness.
Sun Chao's wages every month and the money after selling the crops at home are not much added together, and they are far from buying a car. Sun Chao's return is getting fewer and fewer times. Even if he comes back, he no longer talks with Sun Bin like he did when he was a child, and always thinks about things alone with a gloomy face.
On the other day, Sun Chao said to Sun Bin and his mother with a serious look on his face, "I want to buy a car and drive it myself." Now, I will never make a lot of money when driving for others like this."
Aunt Sun said, how much does that cost? Our family has so much money.
Sun Chao said that my family has saved some money for so many years. I can find someone to borrow some money from the bank, and maybe I have to borrow some more from someone.
But who is willing to lend us money? Aunt Sun obviously didn't believe it very much.
There is another way to avoid spending money, that is, you won’t agree, Sun Chao said. What are the methods for
? Tell me, as long as you don’t steal or rob, my mother will support you, Aunt Sun said.
Sun Chao hesitated for a moment, and finally gritted his teeth and said it. My girlfriend said that as long as I am willing to be a son-in-law, her family can invest in buying a car for me, and then my brother can also be a ticket seller, and our family's life will be better.
Aunt Sun was so angry that he came and said with anger, "Your father went there early. If I had lived a life better, I would have married again because your father said when he left, he must lift the door of our house. You actually want to be a son-in-law now. Aren't you afraid that your father would come out of the ground to scold you for being unfilial?"
Sun Chao explained, "I will not change my surname after becoming a son-in-law in my home. I am still your son and Sun Bin's brother!"
Aunt Sun said, "What do you know? If you become a son-in-law, your children will not be your last name in the future. Then the Sun family will not be the last one."
Isn’t there still a younger brother? Sun Chao argued.
With a snap, Aunt Sun slapped Sun Chao in the face and said, "If I had known this, I should have asked your brother to go there. If you want to be a son-in-law, don't recognize me as a mother."
Sun Chao and his mother parted in disagreement. Sun Bin told Aunt Sun that his brother’s dream is to drive his own car. If our family is rich, his brother would definitely not think about being a son-in-law at home. There is nothing he can do about it? Who told us that our family was poor?
Aunt Sun didn't sleep all night, but she got up in the morning and called Sun Chao and Sun Bin to her brothers, and said earnestly, Sun Chao is going to be a son-in-law, I won't stop you, but you will always be a member of the Sun family. I am old and I won't live long, but your brother is not good at legs and feet. Even if you get married, you still have to take care of him. Even if your mother and your dead dad beg you.
Sun Chao quickly agreed and said that he would definitely take good care of his younger brother.
So Sun Chao became a son-in-law. In order to make Sun Chao confident at his wife's house, Aunt Sun also took out all the deposits in the house and gave them to Sun Chao. The father-in-law also kept his word and made a big decision. He bought a minibus for Sun Chao, and found someone to get a line for him to run.
But it was agreed at the beginning that the ticket seller asked his younger brother Sun Bin to be his role, but in the end he became Sun Bin's wife's cousin.
The father-in-law said, how can a cripple man be a ticket seller? Others are annoying and affecting business. Sun Chao couldn't say anything even after hearing a word.
Since Sun Chao became a son-in-law, he rarely came back. Aunt Sun sighed all day long, thinking that because her family was poor, her son became a son-in-law, and she couldn't raise her head in the village.
Sun Bin always comforts his mother, saying that he still has a son at home, and he can also hold up the door of the Sun family.
Aunt Sun was deeply comforted when he heard Sun Bin's words, but looked at Sun Bin's legs and sighed again, saying that you are like this, it will be difficult to find a wife at that time. Your brother promised me to care about you. Recently, there is no sign of people. This child is afraid that he will really follow someone else's surname.
Sun Bin said, no, I still have ours in my heart. Now I run my own car and I will definitely not stop for a day, thinking about making more money.
Three years passed like this. Sun Chao's child was two years old. Sun Bin was still a bachelor. Aunt Sun also asked a matchmaker everywhere, but others were unwilling to come for a blind date when they saw the situation at his family. They also asked Sun Chao and his wife. Sun Chao always said that he was asking around, and then there was no news and he didn't go back once a few months.
Suddenly one day during the Spring Festival, Sun Chao and his wife came back with their children, and as soon as they entered the door, Sun Chao happily told his mother and Sun Bin that his father-in-law had agreed to transfer his household registration, which means he would no longer have to be a son-in-law.
Aunt Sun said with disbelief and said, "Did you have caused some big disasters? Your father-in-law drove out."
Later, it was still the daughter-in-law who said, "Really, I didn't cause trouble." My dad said that even the grandson's surname can be changed back to the grandson's surname.
Although Aunt Sun is still suspicious, she heard that her grandson could also change her surname back, so she was so happy that she immediately asked Sun Bin to kill the chicken to celebrate her grandson's return.
The family had a happy reunion dinner. For a while, Aunt Sun was like soaking in a honeypot, teasing her grandson every day. Her brother Sun Chao also paid for the renovation of the old house and added a floor, saying that she would marry Sun Bin after she was done. Sun Bin was very happy when she heard this, and felt that the original brother who cared and cared for others was back.
Not long after the house was simply built, someone in the village suddenly came to measure the land. More than a dozen of them were measured, and Aunt Sun’s family also measured it. At first, everyone didn't know what was going on, but the news spread slowly later, saying that the expressway had to pass through the village and that all the measured houses had to be demolished. Of course, it would not be demolished in vain, and there would definitely be compensation.
Now the threshold of Aunt Sun's house was almost broken, and matchmakers flocked to him and said they wanted to introduce Sun Bin to a partner, which made Aunt Sun dizzy. She didn't know what was going on. In the end, the matchmaker was scolded by Sun Chao's wife and ran away.
demolition policy has been completed, and compensation is based on the cap and house area. The family of Grandma Sun's family includes five young grandsons. Because the house is newly renovated, it can be compensated by the new house. If you want to rebuild a house, you can re-allocate the homestead.
Aunt Sun is now overwhelming. When holding a family meeting, he said that he wanted a homestead and rebuild a two-story building.
As a result, Sun Chao and his wife disagreed, saying that they accounted for the majority of the money, they had three heads, and they also paid for the money for decorating the house, so they would not take it out and build the house.
Sun Chao's wife said that at most 200,000 yuan will be given to Aunt Sun and Sun Bin. They will do whatever they want to build a house. Anyway, they will not pay a penny. After the house is demolished, they will still have to go back to their parents' home in the town to live. If my dad hadn't learned the news and thought of this method, you would have compensated so much.
Aunt Sun then realized that it turned out that everything was because of money, and his son and daughter-in-law came back. In an instant, he felt discouraged. Even Sun Bin felt that his brother and sister-in-law were too much, and asked Sun Chao loudly, brother, is this really the case?
Sun Chao lowered his head in shame, but then raised his head and said, "What do you know? You can lose so much money if you don't do this. Besides, I was the son of the Sun family, which was what I deserved."
But, since you are the son of the Sun family, how can you turn against others after you get the money? You are my brother. I have taken care of me since I was a child. I am grateful to you from the bottom of my heart. I never compete with you for anything. I give you all the benefits. Although I have a disabled leg, we are all adults and we are responsible for ourselves. I didn’t think about taking care of me for the rest of my life, but my mother was the one who gave birth to you and raised you. Are you so heartless? Sun Bin yelled at Sun Chao for the first time.
This time Sun Chao did not respond, but Sun Chao's wife said, "What are you talking about, you are a cripple man? It's great to be able to share this money for you now. It's enough to build a house and marry a wife. You should thank us, otherwise you might not be able to marry a wife in your life."
Aunt Sun's heart is as if he is shattered, and he can't listen anymore. He yells loudly, "Get out of here, don't come back."
That night, Aunt Sun suffered from insomnia again and held the hand of his younger son Sun Bin and said, "How can we raise your elder brother, this ungrateful wolf?"
Sun Bin said that we must not let Sun Chao be so happy this time, and if it doesn’t work, I will sue him. But Aunt Sun still had a knot in her heart. After all, she was her own son. If it was reported, would it affect Sun Chao's reputation? Will the money be taken back? Aunt Sun was in a dilemma!
The story has come to this point, and I can’t help but sigh. Many brothers were very good when they were young, but after getting married, they became two families. They all had their own positions and ideas in the face of interests. Instead, family affection leaned back. If you meet some unfilial sons, you always want to take advantage of them, take the big head, and are unwilling to give in. The honest child will suffer losses and will eventually resist in anger. In the end, the parents must be sad and entangled. It is inevitable that the family will be in chaos. It is really unmeasurable for human nature!
