Dear is not a matter of one person, it is a job for two people, but INFP is too sensitive and often falls into self-negation or overreaction in the interaction between two people. Today I will sort out 5 reasons why INFP is not suitable for dating.
1. No long-term plan
Most love is discussed for the purpose of marriage. This is a long-term plan. Two people need to look forward to the future together and prepare for their future life. But INFP is a practical faction in reality. He doesn’t have the ability to think so much, nor can he think so far, and the same goes for dating. As long as we talk about future life, such as mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, who will take care of the child, and the education of the child, INFP will escape instantly or fall into silence. Over time, INFP's partner will be anxious and think that INFP is hanging on himself and not sincere enough.
But in fact, INFP just doesn't have the ability to think about it for such a long time. He is concerned about what is happening in front of him, not deliberately playing with the other person emotionally.
2. Need personal space
If you just want personal space, there is no problem. What's more, even a loving partner is an independent individual and requires personal space. But INFP will have higher requirements for personal space. He doesn't need to chat with him often, nor do he care about the latest news about joy, anger, sorrow and happiness you share with him. He can even stop talking to you for a few days, as long as you can accept it. In a human world, INFP lives more realistically, and you don’t have to consider your feelings or try to cater to you. Many times, INFP responds to your actions to your initiative. If you don’t take the initiative, he may also retreat. This can easily make the anxious partner feel that he is in a fake relationship.
3. High requirements
Yes, INFP has higher requirements for its partner, not necessarily economic strength, and there is no question of being a good match. What he is looking for is the person he can look up to. If that person is proficient in a certain niche field, he will be especially favored by him. He has very high requirements for himself, so he must be a person with independent opinions, which has connotation and can communicate in depth. The topic of dating can be without entertainment gossip, but it must be aesthetic and artistic.
4. Emotional instability
INFP's emotions are easily affected by the external world, and have poor control ability and are difficult to conceal. During the relationship between the two, they are often affected by the other person's words and behaviors. More precisely, weak pressure resistance, insufficient self-confidence, and strong sense of defense are also manifestations of inferiority. At the same time, INFP often takes off his anger to his partner for things other than two people. If the partner loves him very much, he will be more likely to treat him as a punching bag. However, this behavior that ignores others' feelings will be exhausted with the other party's patience.
5. You care more about your own feelings
INFP has poor empathy and it is difficult to empathize with others . If someone has something to talk to him, INFP may not get the other party’s point at all. He only cares about his own feelings and only understands himself. Because of this, when conflicts with his lover, INFP's performance is often very hurtful. It is either , Cold War, , or breakup, and none of them solves the problem in substance. It may even become a scumbag and frequently come into contact with other opposite sexes. For INFP, he firmly believes that he must be sincere in his treatment of love and cannot be questioned. This is different from how many friends of the opposite sex have. The subject's feelings are completely unwilling to care.
has these five characteristics. Can INFP objects still fall in love with INFP? An INFP who can still fall in love is really a national treasure. Those who can enter the marriage hall either have a personality transformation or have a very good endurance of their partner and are full of charm to calm down the INFP.
