When chatting with the opposite sex, you send "I miss you" and receive these 3 sentences, don't contact us anymore.
"You know, don't tell me."
The attitude of this sentence is already very clear. The other party ignores your temptation and expression at all, and even stays indifferent. If you get such a response, it will really make you feel a little slow to react and even feel that you are hypocritical.
You obviously want love. You have established a certain emotional foundation. The attitudes of each other towards each other are heartbreaking. When you say "I miss you", the other party even replied "Yes, don't tell me on purpose." It sounds embarrassing. It seems that the little sister said this to others, and the other party was not serious at all, and she even had a sense of justice.
The other party's attitude makes people feel self-deception. It is obvious that this is an ambiguous relationship, but they don't want to be in a state, or even a cold attitude. Obviously, this is playing with feelings, not letting yourself suffer greater harm. It is best to cut the connection.
"Is there anything else? It doesn't matter. I'm very busy."
When you express your thoughts, send "I miss you", you will definitely get a reply about love or longing, but "What else?" "I'm fine, go to work", and directly rejected his thoughts, even a little confused.
In fact, you will express your thoughts because you have established a relationship. Otherwise, you won't speak. However, after you make your statement, the other party will abandon you. This reaction is to put your fantasy of love into practice. Others have not considered your feelings, but just felt that their things are more important than you think. .
People with the same idea as you will definitely consider your feelings and will not change your attitude because of the feeling of playing. Even if you are not interested, they will explain directly. They will not face your relationship with a joke, and contact you when the other party is in contact. This is just another purpose and will not be kept in the dark.
"Really? Don't lie to me."
Your disappearance was not suspected by the other party, but it was completely unconsidered. When you say, "I miss you," the other party answers, "Is it true or not?" "Don't lie to me." It may seem strange, but it is actually a casual attitude.
Maybe you have a way to test yourself, but you still want to miss gentleness, not feel your attitude, or even pretend not to feel it, and no occasional actions, and the other person's tone is perfunctory, or even an impatient attitude, anyone will hurt the other person's attitude.
When faced with such people who do not pay attention to feelings, or people who are good at disguising but do not persist, the other party’s false love will only hurt yourself even more, because if you do not get the other party’s love, you might as well stop it in time, it doesn’t matter.
