A few days ago, when we visited an old superior, because he had to go home to accompany his children after get off work, we made an appointment near his house at 10 pm. I haven't seen him for a few years and found that he is much older, far less energetic than he used to be. His eyes and white hair were all showing signs of fatigue, the kind of long-term fatigue.
About 2018, he jumped to another company to work as the vice president of business, left in less than half a year, and went out to open a company. At that time, we all thought he started his own business only with his own project. I only learned this time that it was an internal struggle in the company. I didn’t want to waste my time and energy and couldn’t afford it, so I started my own business. Judging from his current business, it is definitely not as good as his income when he was an executive. The three-year epidemic has been running through the start and development of the new company, and the difficulty is even more conceivable.
After coming back, these things kept popping up in my mind, and my mind was quite complicated.
I always feel that when people reach middle age, they need two answers. One handed over to the past self and the other handed over to the current family. What I gave to myself is to work hard for years and want to earn decent; what I gave to my family is to ensure their lives. In middle age, we are the support of our parents and the backing of our children. The fixed expenses of our families are not allowed to be unstable.
We have no choice and no way out. Since there is no choice but to go back and not even allow it to stop, I have to have a stable mentality, which is also a unique maturity for middle-aged people. Make sure that your body and mind can live healthy and keep your inner peace. I don’t know what it will be like in
for another 3 years. But I realized more and more: if is looking forward to things, it usually won't happen if you don't do your best; if you worry about things, it will always come if you are not prepared.
is prepared and there will be more choices. Give it to us who are rushing to middle age
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