text丨Tao Xiaojing
The spring breeze is not as good as you, Xiaojing is here, waiting for you!
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The book says: "In this world, there will still be people walking towards you with a gentle heart in the world."
Yes, even if there is darkness in front of you, there will always be someone who crosses thousands of mountains and rivers to come to you, illuminating the road under your feet with love.
Although I don’t know when this person will come, please believe that he has been on the way. Maybe at this time, he has appeared by your side.
Maybe it's because he doesn't have the courage yet, or maybe it's because of your current relationship that he has not been able to express his love directly.
Although he has not said sweet words about love to you, he has been conveying his deep affection in his heart during the process of getting along.
His affection is manifested through his behavior. Every time he loves you a little, he will step forward.
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Although he also knew that crossing the line might not necessarily lead to good results, because he had already moved in his heart, he couldn't help it.
He is looking forward to your awareness, and he is also eager for your response. You can't be stupid and don't understand.
I hope you can understand as soon as possible that a person is actually moved by you so much.
mentally crosses the line and starts to explore your secret
Secret is something that everyone has. They will neither proactively confess, nor do they want anyone to deliberately explore it.
This is something that everyone knows. Under normal circumstances, no one will cross the line casually.
Of course, ordinary friends will not have such cross-border behavior, but if a person is already moved by you, he will try to understand your heart and explore your secrets.
Although he also knows that his behavior has crossed the line, he will not restrain himself because this is a way for him to express his love.
He just wants to convey his feelings to you in exchange for your response in this way.
Maybe you will be angry because of his random exploration, but you must also understand that a person is actually moved by you so much.
Although he did not say love directly, it can be seen from his behavior that he has a desire to explore you.
You must know that the more you want to explore you, the deeper you love you, and you cannot ignore this deep affection.
The words cross the line and start to say very ambiguous words
When a person develops feelings for you, his language will begin to cross the line without realizing it.
The language cross-border is mainly reflected in the explicitness and ambiguity of the discourse, including ambiguous jokes.
If two people are just ordinary friends, then in the process of getting along. We will pay attention to each other's proper measure. I won't say too ambiguous words.
But if a person is already moved by you, he will not take so much into consideration. He will only follow the guidance of his heart and say what he wants to say.
At the beginning, he would only test you with ambiguous jokes, not too much. Once he finds that you are not repulsive, he will say more ambiguous words.
Maybe you just treat his words as a joke, when you know that even if it is just a joke, there is a serious component.
No one will say some ambiguous words casually. People who can do this are obviously moved by you.
When facing a person's words, you must know clearly that he has become moved by you. Regardless of whether you accept his love or not, you must not take his words seriously.
The limbs cross the boundary and start touching you with the limbs
Usually, even if the relationship between the opposite sex is good, there will not be too many limb touching behaviors.
Limb touch is a very intimate way of contact, and it usually only appears between lovers. Touching between friends is an act of transgression.
Knowing that it is crossing the line, but you still have to touch your body. It is obvious that you are moved by you.
He knew very well that this was wrong, but he couldn't control himself. Under the guidance of his inner love, he often touches you with his limbs.
He doesn't know if you can understand what he means, nor does he want to consider the consequences of doing so. He just wants to convey his inner love and just wants to have close contact with you.
You may not accept a person's physical transgression, but you must understand that this is his proof of his affection for you.
If you don’t want to miss an opportunity to get close to love, you might as well give him a little response. I believe that with your response, he will be more courageous and more straightforward.
Of course, if you don’t have any feelings for him, then make it clear as soon as possible and don’t indulge him to cross the line again and again.
-03-
There is a clear boundary between friendship and love. If you want to develop into love, you must cross the boundary.
However, many people do not take cross-border seriously at all, but instead think that this is just a manifestation of friendship.
Friendship and love are different. Once there are behaviors that transcend friendship between two people, it is difficult to define it as friendship.
For example, the psychological transgression, speech transgression, and physical transgression mentioned above are no longer within the scope of friendship, but are the embodiment of love.
So, when a person has these behaviors of cross-border, you should understand that he is already moved by you.
If you intend to develop with him, then respond to him as soon as possible. If you just want to be friends with him. Then let me explain it to him as soon as possible.
