Zhang Ailing once said: "I thought love could fill the regrets of life, but what creates more regrets is love."
When a relationship has come to an end, we can always be unable to get out of those past years. Those days and nights that torture you are not the ruthlessness of others, but the expectations and fantasies you have.
What are you looking forward to and fantasizing about? When I was with him, I said countless promises: "Wait for the future."
When you have money, buy you the car you like, and when you have money, I will give you all the money in the future. When you have money in the future, I will definitely let you live the best life...
"Wait for the future", a sentence with infinite imagination, relying on the "future" and "future" he described to you, I believe all his promises.
1, "Wait for the future" sentence, just listen to
In a relationship, the happiest thing is that he always says he wants to give you what he wants to give you, and he will give you everything he has in the future; and later on, the most hurtful thing is his empty promise.
Compared to giving you nothing, I promise to give you it in the future, it is even more difficult to let go.
It was obvious that I loved so much at the beginning, and I said that everything would be there in the future. Even if I didn’t, I would be willing to be with him because I love you. If you understand his current situation, I don’t force me to do so.
But even if you didn't want anything, you fantasized about one day's promise to achieve it, but in the end he left.
But you can't get out of it, and you grabbed it and said, "How can you say that you don't love it if you don't love it."
actually becomes a regret. What makes you miss is not that love, but everything you have paid for this relationship and the grudge that you have not received any reward.
2. True love, in action,
, you will not let him down, and you will not make any promises easily, because he will be afraid of your sadness after being happy, and doing what he says is the only proof that he loves you.
Ta may not have much money, but he will give you the best within his ability and condense your love for you in everyone's daily life.
is a delicacy that you see the flowers you like on the way off work, and the food you packed at night. It creates a small romantic sense of ritual during the festival. It is a solution with you when you encounter difficulties. It is a saving of enough money to buy you the gift you always want.
True love for someone, not to give the other person the life they want when they have money, nor to wait until they have time to accompany the other person to see the mountains and rivers, but at this moment, no matter what kind of life they live, he is willing to give you the best.
The so-called true love means that even if he can’t give you the best things now, at least he can give you everything he has.
During the process of getting along, he is willing to be by your side no matter what kind of setbacks he will experience in the future.
And for a long time, he has been treating you with "waiting for the future". Under the banner of "the future", people who use the future as a guise are not that he does not have the ability to give you, but that he has no intention of giving you anything.
3. If you feel that you are not cherished, you must stop the loss in time
Those who truly love you never need to say it, but they all fall into real actions.
Because love can't lie, love cannot be hidden, and even if it doesn't say it, it will be betrayed by actions; similarly, if you don't love you, it is also in the details, even if you can disguise you again, his attitude towards you is hidden in his words and deeds.
Many times, what a person wants is not that you will do many things for him, but that you want to see if you are willing to take practical actions for him, and whether the love you mentioned is truly worth it.
But the person who said he loved you and gave you everything made you wait and wait, from hope to disappointment, from joy to no longer expectation, until he was separated, he did not wait for the beauty he once said.
What is the difference between just saying and not doing love and acting in a scene? "
When you feel that you are not cared about, not recognized by him, and when he is not worth it, remember to leave and stop the loss in time. Even your body is instinctively warning you, you must think about whether this relationship is worth continuing.
There are not many futures in life, and there is no future and the next life. If you love, don't let the person you love wait forever, and wait until you disappear before you want to be kind to him.
Love him, use actions to prove your sincerity, give him a visible future and a touching present.
Don't always say that you will wait for the future, love will take advantage of the present.
