Inamori Kazuo said:
Why do people get married? This is the best answer I've ever heard.
Can have personal discussions when encountering things, can have someone to talk when you are bored, can have someone to share when you are happy, can have someone to comfort you when you are sad, can have someone to eat happily at the table when you are tired. Life is too long, and there must be someone who knows and accompanys you.
Yes, how wonderful it is to find someone who knows each other and spends their whole life. However, the process of choosing a mate is indeed quite complicated and difficult. If you choose a mate inappropriately, it will bring pain and despair.
Here, three suggestions for those who are about to enter marriage:
First point: the three views are consistent. "The Moon and Sixpence" writes : You respect the laws of nature and worship authority. This is a different world outlook; you stand on the side of conscience and stand on the side of the winner. This is a different value. You work hard for your ideal life and work hard for your best life. This is a different outlook on life. If you two have different ideas, there will be many conflicts in life. If she wants to spend money to be happy, you have to be at ease if you want to save money; if she wants to spend money for convenience, you want to save money and save money and make great use. In this case, you can't survive.
Second point: tolerance. There are no two perfect people in the world who are perfectly integrated, and there will be differences in personality, habits and preferences. If she likes shopping, you like to stay at home and play games and not accompany her; if she likes to eat coriander, you are unwilling to accept it; if you like to drink, she doesn't like you to drink and doesn't let you go out, such a marriage will not go far. If one party can tolerate the other party's preferences and habits, such a marriage can last.
Third point: family care and responsibility. Once two people get married, they will face firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, and tea, and there will be no more romance and surprises. Whether your wife or husband, you must shoulder a series of housework such as practice, hygiene, and taking care of your children. You can divide the work but you must participate together. If you just leave it to one party, this home is not warm and difficult to last. Moreover, the man must shoulder the responsibility of pursuing a better life, work hard to make money, and work hard to support his family. If the two have such awareness, their marriage life will definitely be happy and happy.
The above three points are purely personal foolish opinions and also personal understanding of marriage. I hope it will be helpful to all lovers who are about to enter marriage! ! !
