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Listen to a friend who talked about his grandfather. Whenever he thinks about it, he feels sighing in his heart.
He said that when his grandfather passed away, he was only with his grandmother. At that time, his four children were all around him. One was abroad and could not come back no matter what. One was on a business trip in another city and the plane happened to be late; and two daughters married another place, and there was no time.
Grandpa went through because of a cerebral hemorrhage. It took only a few days to go. Everything happened too quickly, and the whole family did not react, which became an eternal regret.
If this is the case, everyone may think that these children cannot be said to be unfilial.
But what happened later still makes people feel heartbroken.
It turns out that several brothers and sisters had a disagreement on the issue of inheritance. Although my grandmother is still there, they are already making trouble because the old couple has a house demolition and there is a lot of demolition payment. Everyone wants the money, so they start to calculate with each other.
Grandma was not surprised by this. She said that she knew the children she raised and knew that there would be such a day early in the morning.
She also said that her husband said a lot to herself when he was lying on the hospital bed. It was not until he reached the end of his life that he understood who the person who is closest to and important in his life is.
After all, there are only two people who are close and important, one is a partner and the other is yourself.
So my grandfather told her to keep the money at home after she left and be optimistic about all the property. Whoever is filial in the future will leave it to whoever is filial, and if she is not filial, she will donate it all.
Holding these in your hands will make you more secure in your later years.
In addition, you must know how to be good to yourself, don’t be reluctant to eat or wear it, and while your body is still strong, you can go out for a walk. What are you trying to work for your children for the rest of your life? In the end, they may not be able to count on them to support their elderly care. Grandma remembers all these words in her heart.
At the same time, I also want to remind many parents that raising children may not be able to prevent old age. What is really reliable when people get older is actually yourself. The things you hold in your hands are the source of your sense of security.
In addition, you must know how to cherish your partner and take good care of yourself.
Because of your partner and yourself, you are the most important person in your life.
1: Partner, couples come and have sex with their husbands in old age. The old wife is the person who cares about themselves the most
Grandpa and grandmother have always depended on each other. They have two children and two daughters, but they have never lived in any of their homes.
They often say that children and grandchildren have their own blessings, and their bodies are still healthy, and they are not unable to take care of themselves, so there is no need to bother them.
Not only that, they also help them from time to time. Whoever encounters difficulties? If you speak to them, you will help them. After all, they are their own children. How can parents not feel sorry for them?
But no matter how much you give, so what if you are good to them, so what if you are old, you may leave one day. It may not be realistic to expect them to be filial. Because the only one who can accompany you to the end may be your wife.
You are sick and hospitalized. Who is taking care of you without leaving any steps? Who feels sorry for you from the bottom of your heart and is afraid that you will leave? Still your old friend.
The so-called couples come to accompany each other when they are old. Be kind to your partner, this is your vision.
2: I, there is not much empathy in the world, and I can only carry many things by myself
In addition to treating my partner kindly, the person we dearest is actually ourselves.
In this world, there is no so-called empathy. No one can really understand you and can understand your pain and difficulties. You can only bear many things yourself and endure them.
For example, if you are sick and lying on the hospital bed, your body is constantly suffering. Although your family is by your side, you can do nothing except worry and worry.
They can't understand what kind of pain you are suffering, nor can they understand what you are thinking at this moment.
Perhaps at that moment you can understand that only you can accompany you forever, everything else is uncertain. Therefore, in your lifetime, being kind to yourself can make you feel less regretful.
Don’t wait until you get old and can’t walk anymore, and then you will wake up when you lie on the hospital bed. The person you want to cherish the most is your wife, and the person you should love the most is yourself.
It may be too late to that moment. It’s better to cherish the people in front of you and love yourself.
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