(original by Rongrong, infringement will be pursued)
Introduction:
Most men want to marry a beautiful girl, so there are always a lot of suitors behind beautiful girls.
But since ancient times, there has been a saying: marry a wife and marry a virtuous person!
shows that the character of virtuousness is far more important than external beauty.
Today's protagonist, my sister-in-law actually knocked on his door on the eve of her wedding.
After listening to her affectionate confession and promise of wealth, the protagonist coldly announced the cancellation of the wedding! No matter how much the bride cries, it is useless. Below
, please listen to Zheng Tao’s story.
Self-reporter: Zheng Tao
My name is Zheng Tao, I am 29 years old this year, and I am a bachelor.
Just a month ago, I was an extremely happy groom who was preparing to get married, but all of this came to an abrupt end on the eve of my wedding!
Many people say that I did too much and there is no need to make a big spy, but I don’t regret it.
My ex-girlfriend is Feifei, she is 170, has a good figure, and looks very beautiful.
Friends all envied me for finding a girlfriend with such good conditions.
I also felt very lucky at the beginning. I cherish this relationship very much and are very good to Feifei.
But later I found that Feifei always seems to distrust me and always likes to check or interrogate me intentionally or unintentionally.
Most girls like to make this problem, which shows that she cares about me, so I thought it was quite sweet at first.
But as the number of such dial-checks increases, I feel a little uncomfortable.
If I have done something extraordinary and she has caught me, it’s okay, but it just so happens that I am a very traditional man. Since the day I was confirmed to fall in love, there has been no other girl in my eyes.
Even so, Feifei is still enjoying it on the road to interrogation.
That day, I drove downstairs to her house in the morning and called her: "Are you ready? I've already arrived downstairs of your house."
"Okay, I'll go down right away!" Feifei said.
Soon, she came. As she got into my car, a pleasant smell of perfume floated in.
Smell the fragrance and recognize women!
I have to admit that I was attracted by her scent in the beginning.
I smiled. The morning sun shone into the car, warm and bright, and there were beautiful girls around me, so I couldn’t be in a bad mood.
"I brought you breakfast, small buns and tea eggs!" I pointed to the breakfast placed next to me and said.
"You are so considerate, I love everything I buy!" Feifei said, her voice sounded very nice.
But she said that, but she didn't rush to eat, but scratched the chair with her hands twice, as if she was looking at whether there was anything.
flipped down the mirror in front of the co-pilot and checked carefully to see if the position she had intended to change before.
saw that there was no abnormality, and he lowered his head and looked carefully in the corner.
"What are you doing? Did something fall?" I asked, "Do I need to park the car to help you find it?"
"No, I just take a look, you drive your car." Feifei said.
After a while, she finished looking and read it. She let out a long sigh and said, "Well, it's not bad, it didn't disappoint me!"
"What does it mean?" I was confused.
"Didn't you go home late last night? I'll check if there are any traces of other women in the car!" Feifei finished speaking, then picked up the breakfast and started eating.
"Are you doubting me?" I was quite surprised, "You should know who I am. You rarely talk to women. How could other women get into my car?"
"Well, people are all good at pretending, especially men! You are really decent in front of me, but who knows what you look like behind you?" Feifei said.
I felt awkward to hear it, "We have been together for half a year. You have checked my phone and house many times before. Every time I have no problems, I should believe me. Why are you still suspicious now? I still say I don't know what it looks like behind me, and I am the same in front of others!"
Maybe my tone is a bit bad, Feifei glanced at me, "What's wrong? You can't be angry, right? I'm not like this because I care too much about you, are you afraid that you will be taken away by others?"
I didn't say anything.
Feifei was anxious and reached out to pull my arm, "Don't be angry, can't I be wrong?"
She got very close when she spoke, and her long eyelashes squirmed under my eyes. I felt soft, "I forgive you, but I won't allow it next time."
"Okay." Feifei replied happily.
Every time, when she doesn't trust me, she will use this method to ask me for forgiveness, and every time I have no choice.
I thought I had already made it clear to her this time. She should have changed, but a few days later, when she was in my car, she suddenly changed her face.
said in a very sharp voice: "Zheng Tao! What's going on?"
I took a look, and she was pinching a curved hair in her hand.
"Whose this is? You said! I have long straight hair, and this hair has not only permed, but also dyed brown!" Feifei's face turned pale with anger.
I was stunned, "I don't know? You are the only one sitting in this position, so how can someone else's hair be?"
"Don't you admit it yet? Did you have any trouble with other women behind my back?" Feifei's excited voice became louder, which made my ears hurt.
"I really don't know!" I explained, "Did you carry someone else's hair on you and then fall into my car? Think about it, does your colleagues or best friend have such hair?"
"No, it's impossible, it's you who did something bad on my back!" Feifei said and actually burst into tears, and kept pushing me with her hands.
It doesn't matter, and I can't drive the car anymore. I don't care about the tight time in the morning, so I can only find a place to park the car.
I want to see the bent hair in her hand and think about it, but she just refused to give it to me and said that this is evidence, and if I give it to me, it will be destroyed.
"Then what do you think you should do? Could it be that you don't even have to work? It's because of this inexplicable hair?" I was anxious and asked.
Feifei cried and came over to smell my body, checked for foreign objects elsewhere in the car, and also looked through my phone, my bag, and my pocket.
In short, she didn't let go of anything that could be looked at, but she got nothing except that hair.
I was having a headache by her and was not sure what to do, her leader called her and asked her why she hadn’t come yet? The materials to be used at the morning meeting are still there.
Then she hurriedly asked me to take her to the company.
I drove again, and she was anxious to put on makeup in the car, and she carefully put that hair in her wallet.
Needless to say, I was late for more than half an hour, got criticized and deducted 300 yuan. I was very depressed.
I don’t feel sorry for 300 yuan, it was Feifei’s performance that upset me.
Who can stand her if she keeps this happening? No wonder she had a few boyfriends before and ended up breaking up. I suspect it all has to do with her personality.
, and where did that hair come from?
With these emotions, the day's work is over.
After returning home in the evening, when I was having dinner, my mother didn't realize that I was worried and kept talking to me, "In the past few days, several old ladies have asked me where I made my hair. They all said it looks good and they have to do it, haha."
When my mother talked about her hair, I took a look. Then, my eyes widened. My mother's hair was curved and dyed brown!
Then I remembered that when I got off work yesterday evening, I saw my mother at a place that was almost at the community, so I asked her to get in the car and go home together.
Because I sat for too short and I really didn’t pay attention to when my mother got her hair, so I didn’t remember when Feifei made a big fuss in the morning!
"Mom, when did you get your hair?" I asked.
"It's been several days, don't you know?" My mother asked strangely.
"I don't know! Alas." I sighed and said to myself, if I had known that I wouldn't have been late this morning, I would have been deducted money.
My mother said, "Like your father, I never pay attention to me! I changed my hairstyle and you didn't see it!"
didn't care about my mother complaining there, so I quickly went back to my room to call Feifei, "Feifei, I know who that hair belongs to, my mother! She took my car yesterday evening, and the new hair she made recently was like that!"
Who knew that Feifei didn't believe it after hearing it, "Zheng Tao, you can do it, you actually got the matter on your mother."
"What's wrong, don't you believe it?" I asked her in surprise.
"The fool believes it! If it were your mother, why wouldn't you say it in the morning?" Feifei asked.
"I forgot!" I said, "If you don't believe it, you can come to my house now, or I'll take a photo of my mother for you to see."
"Okay, who knows if your mother's new hair is made today? Maybe it's just to perfunctory me!" Feifei said.
I was really angry. No matter how I explained, she always didn't believe it. What else could I do?
I said, "What do you want? Do you don't believe it no matter what I say?"
"There is a way," Feifei said, "You will know if you use this hair to make your mother DNA."
"Are you too much?" I couldn't help but say, "You have to do DNA for such a small matter? It's too exaggerating, right?"
"That's just that you don't dare! It's just that you have a problem!" Feifei shouted.
"Whatever you think!" I hung up the phone after saying that.
This is the first time I hung up Feifei’s phone because I was so angry! I didn't even want to be with her for a while.
Maybe it was because I was talking too loudly, my mother came over and asked me what was wrong? Did you have a quarrel with Feifei?
I said, "She is too unreasonable, I don't care about this person!"
"No, girls will have a little temper, you have to be tolerant." My mother said, "How can I stop getting along because of a little bit?"
I told my mother about her hair and let her hear if Feifei was too much.
After hearing this, my mother thought, "I'll call Feifei to explain. I happened to take a photo on the day I finished my hair. The date on it was very clear, and she would believe it after reading it."
"Stop calling, I'm annoyed." I said.
My mother still called Feifei and showed her the photo. After explaining for a long time, Feifei finally believed it. Although the matter of
was solved, I felt uncomfortable for many days, and when I saw Feifei again, I said less.
Feifei also saw that I was angry, and then showed her tenderness to coax me, and swore that she would never do this again in the future. She was just because she loved me too much, so she became nervous.
Looking at her pity for swearing, I softened again and promised to give her another chance. She did perform well after
and didn't doubt me anymore.
A few months later, her father celebrated his birthday and invited some relatives to dinner in the hotel, and I went there too.
During the meal, Feifei introduced me to her relatives, and they all praised me for being a good person.
Feifei's aunt said to her daughter Xiaoying, "Look how good your sister Feifei is looking for, when will you get one for me?"
Xiaoying said, "I am not as lucky as Feifei?"
Feifei said, "Don't choose the nice ones, I think you are too picky! You can't make it too high or low!"
Xiaoying said that she was unlucky and said to me, "Brother-in-law, if you have a suitable one in the future, don't forget to introduce me to a partner."
I agreed with a smile.
Xiaoying said it seriously at the time, and I couldn’t figure out whether it was true or not. Later, I asked Feifei, what kind of boyfriend Xiaoying wanted to find?
Feifei said, "What's wrong? Do you really want to introduce her?"
"Didn't you agree to her? I think she is pretty and has good family conditions, so her conditions should be not low." I said.
Feifei was unhappy, "Do you think she is more beautiful than me?"
I said, "Why are you jealous again? She is your cousin!"
"No one can do it! You just can't praise others!" Feifei said.
"Okay, okay, I won't praise you! Then will I help her find a partner?" I asked.
"No help!" Feifei said.
When Feifei and I were together for more than a year, both parents had met each other and were very optimistic about us. They said we were a couple with talented men and beautiful women, and they all urged us to get married soon.
So after the Chinese New Year, I renovated my house and prepared to get married.
However, on the eve of the wedding, something happened that made me extremely angry. No matter how Feifei cried and how parents of both parties discussed with me, I firmly broke off the engagement!
After the new house was renovated, in order to keep it clean, I did not live there, but went back to my parents' house.
I plan to move in with Feifei after marriage.
But the day before the marriage, Feifei suddenly told me that she wanted me to move into the new house and set off from the new house the next day to pick her up.
I asked her why this is the case?
She said, "This is called a good start and end, auspicious."
I laughed at her for being young and light, and she was quite particular about it.
That night, I lived alone on the sofa in my new house. After watching TV, I planned to go to bed.
Just when I was about to fall asleep, someone knocked on the door.
I was very alert and lay on the cat's eyes and looked at it, and found that it was Feifei's cousin Xiaoying.
It was already past 11 o'clock at night. It was so late, what should she do?
I opened the door and Xiaoying came in. I saw clearly that she was wearing a short red skirt, tight, and looked particularly good-looking, and she also had exquisite makeup on her face.
"Is it Feifei's fault?" I thought Feifei had something to do, but it was not convenient for me to come out, so I called my cousin.
Xiaoying shook her head, "I came here myself, Zheng Tao, I have something big to ask you!"
several times before, she politely called me brother-in-law. This time she suddenly changed her mouth and called me my name, which made me think something was wrong with her, let alone that she came so late.
"If you have anything to do, please tell me." I said as I turned on the headlights in the living room, illuminated the room, and put on a coat.
"Zheng Tao, in fact, I like you very much from the first time I saw you. I also told myself that you are my cousin's boyfriend. I can't have any unreasonable thoughts, but I really can't control my own thoughts! You will marry my cousin tomorrow. If I don't tell you, it will be too late, so I came!" Xiaoying said.
I was shocked and said quickly, "What are you talking about? I know I will marry Feifei tomorrow, why do you still say such things?"
"No, I must say, Zheng Tao, don't marry Feifei, marry me! My family's conditions are better than Feifei's family, and I am also beautiful than Feifei. Also, my parents said that when I get married, I will give me one million and add another car. As long as you promise me, these can be written in your name!" Xiaoying began to confess.
I was very angry and interrupted her and refused to let her say anything again, "Xiaoying, you are also a person with education in college, but you came to poach on the eve of your cousin's wedding. Is it too immoral for you to do this? I will tell you, no matter how much money your family has or how good your conditions are, I can't agree to it. Zheng Tao, I have never done anything to be sorry to her since I fell in love with Feifei. This is loyalty to her and my own moral standard. So, go quickly, I will pretend that you have never been here!" As I said
, I was about to open the door and let her leave.
But she stopped me and wanted to get in front of me.
I was anxious, shouted loudly and pushed her away.
At this moment, the door opened and Feifei stood at the door.
I was stunned, "Feifei, why are you here?"
I was afraid that Feifei would misunderstand us when she saw Xiaoying here, but Feifei said with a smile, "Zheng Tao, you make me very satisfied!"
Xiaoying also stood behind Feifei at this time, and looked at me with a smile and said, "Brother-in-law, your character is really nothing to say!"
I understood, "Feifei, Xiaoying, are you here to test me on purpose?"
Feifei said, "We are going to get married tomorrow, I must make sure it again in the end, but you have passed the test!"
She was very happy and satisfied. Xiaoying also looked at me as if I was waking up from a dream with a smile.
The anger in my heart suddenly rose, "Feifei, I think you are so sick! We have been together for more than a year. During this period, you checked the posts countless times and questioned me. There was no problem in the end. You promised me that you would not be like this again. Unexpectedly, on the eve of our wedding, you still didn't trust me and actually asked your cousin to act and cheat me on me?"
Feifei saw that I was anxious and quickly explained, "Don't be angry, this is definitely the last time. After the wedding tomorrow, I will no longer doubt you."
"I don't believe it!" I said, "Your character is not in my heart at all now! Moreover, I suspect you have serious mental illness! Tomorrow's wedding will be cancelled! I dare not marry a woman like you!"
I opened the door and signaled them to leave quickly.
Feifei panicked, "Zheng Tao, I have no malicious intentions. I am also trying to give myself a guarantee. Tomorrow's wedding cannot be cancelled. Both parents are ready, relatives have notified them, and the hotel and wedding car are also booked!"
I shook my head firmly, "These things are not important. You can refund if you order, and you can explain it if you notify them. But if two people want to live happily together for a long time, the first thing is to trust each other. You have always suspected me, and now I no longer trust you. In this case, why do you need to get married?"
Feifei cried, begging me while crying, and Xiaoying also spoke for her, but I don't want to hear a word. For more than a year, I have been too tired with her. Today is the last straw that overwhelmed me.
"If you don't leave, I will call your parents and ask them to pick you up!" I said coldly.
Finally, Feifei had no choice but to leave with Xiaoying.
I thought I would be very sad, but strangely, I slept very hard that night and felt very relaxed!
The next day, when I turned on my phone, there were more than a dozen missed calls inside, including Feifei, her parents, and my parents.
It seems that her parents have told my parents about the matter, and they shouldn’t have had a good sleep last night.
I ignored Feifei’s parents’ phone number. I made it clear last night. There was no need to say it again. I didn’t call my parents back, but drove back directly.
I also bought breakfast halfway, and I guess they shouldn't have the heart to cook.
After entering the door, my parents immediately surrounded me and asked me why I wanted to break off the engagement?
I told her what happened last night, and my parents were silent. They said for a long time, "This Feifei is indeed a bit too much! But have you really thought about it? Wouldn't you regret it in the future?"
"If I really got married to her, I would probably regret it." After I said that, I called my parents to have breakfast.
Later, many people called me to persuade me, but I didn't listen to anyone because I had a clear decision in my heart and would not look back.
Until now, more than a month has passed, and Feifei will leave me messages from time to time, and sometimes send me beautiful photos of her.
, but I haven't replied once, and all the photos were deleted.
I wonder if you agree with my approach?
If you were me, what would you do?
Miss Rongrong:
I personally agree with Zheng Tao’s approach and think he is right. Two people get married for the rest of their lives. How far can they go without solid mutual trust?
As for whether Feifei has a mental illness, no one can talk nonsense about this matter, it must be based on the doctor's diagnosis.
But no matter whether she is sick or not, her cognition and behavior are not rational enough, and even more abnormal.
is too sensitive and suspicious. Which man can stand such a girl?
hope she will reflect on her problems as soon as possible, make up for the loss, and correct it, so that she can find a happy marriage in the future.
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