Living in this world, we may feel confused in this way or that. We are busy every day and don’t know what we are busy with. We want to make our lives wonderful and make our lives perfect, but in the end we find it difficult to get what we want.
When we live in pain and confusion, we will lose interest in life and naturally we will not find the meaning of life.
In fact, a beautiful life is already in front of us, but we want too many desires and set too many shackles for our lives, and we end up living a miserable life.
Writer Zhou Guoping wrote in " Life Philosophical Thoughts ":
"God gave everyone a life, a heart, take good care of life, and settle your heart, and life is perfect."
This book "Life Philosophical Thoughts" is a collection of the essence of Zhou Guoping's 70 years of philosophy. In the book, Zhou Guoping fully reflects his life perception from four aspects: life perception, emotional experience, human nature observation, and spiritual home.
If you are confused now, then you might as well calm down and read "Life Philosophical Thoughts".
Love life, everything is valuable
Everyone has only one life, which is the premise of all value, that is, without life, nothing can be discussed.
In theory, life should be our most precious thing, but we often ignore it. Zhou Guoping thinks that caring for life is a person's responsibility, and only by caring for life can we be qualified to enjoy its rights.
Since life is so important, are there anyone in this world who does not care about life? Of course there is an answer.
in the "Life Insight" chapter:
"There are two types of people in the world who are the least caring for life and are the most unpleasant to enjoy life. One is workaholics, and the other is lustful people. They are actually overdrawing and sucking life in different ways."
When you ignore your work and stay up late becomes commonplace, your life will be threatened and even cause irreparable harm.
When you take risks to do something to satisfy your desires, it will cause huge damage to your life. This damage may be fatal and will directly lose the opportunity to turn over.
Born as human beings, we all want a good life. In fact, a good life is to love life. If a person knows how to cherish life and respect life, he will have a good life.
As Zhou Guoping said:
Everyone’s life is a woman who ends up with us. We must do our best to guide and enrich her. No matter what she will eventually become, we must love her.
If you are busy with fame and fortune now, I advise you to take out time to make your life feel happy. Don’t wait until your life is truly threatened before you wake up. This is no longer redeemable.
I really hope everyone can listen to the inside of their body and mind, listen to what life says, and think about how to spend this life happily and happily?
After getting married,
Never look for heaven in marriage
Mr. Zhou Guoping once said: "A good marriage is the world, bad marriage is hell, never look for heaven in marriage."
We have always been seeking perfect marriage, but there is no perfect marriage in this world. Even the loving couple is probably urged to strangle each other hundreds of times.
The reason why we are disappointed in marriage is because of love. It is obviously not like this when we are in love, but why do we become like this after we get married?
It seems that each of us has closed our eyes when we are in love, and it opens after we get married; we are wearing clothes when we are in love, and we take them off after we get married.
In the "Emotional Experience", Zhou Guoping wrote:
"Marriage is just a signal, not to indicate that two people have become one, but to become two independent people again, join hands to walk the road of life, this requires mutual tolerance."
Regarding tolerance for marriage, I once watched a documentary called "The Fruit of Life". The husband Xiuyi and his wife Yingzi are two people with different personalities, but they have lived together for 65 years and lived a very happy life.
The secrets they get along with are very simple. They never blame each other, and choose to be tolerant even if the other party is wrong. This seems easy to do, but in fact it is very difficult to do.
After getting married, we I am very disappointed with the partner I chose, and even quarrel with each other, but what's the matter? After the argument, I just choose to forgive and continue to live.
Lin Yutang wrote this sentence in " Life is just like this ":
"Marriage is two different personalities, different genders, and different interests. People who originally lived the same life. If you don't quarrel, there will be no humanity at all. "
Some people want to enjoy separate happiness in marriage, but in fact it is impossible. Two people who get married either win-win or lose together. This is the iron rule of marriage game, whether you believe it or not.
The more thorough the understanding of human nature, the happier life will be
Some people say that human nature is a property between animal nature and divinity, it is the overcoming of animal nature and the approach to divinity. The further away from the animal state, the higher and more perfect human nature will be.
Although this makes sense, Zhou Guoping does not think so. He feels that human nature may not always be the progress of animal nature to divine nature, and may also be a regression.
If you don’t know human nature thoroughly, you may be disappointed with human nature, but if you know that human nature is like this, because you know that human nature is like this.
In the "Observation of Human Nature", Zhou Guoping believes:
"Human nature actually contains two parts, one is that the lower part mainly includes biological will, daily emotions and scientific rationality, and the other is the higher part, including moral will, religious emotions and philosophical rationality. ”
Simply put, humans are animals of emotions and rational animals, and both are indispensable.
The quality of human nature is the cause of desire. As Zhou Guoping said, many characters on the stage of life are actually the protagonists of desire, and it is performing through a backdoor.
We cannot deny human desires. Once people are denied, they will have no value.
For example, many young people nowadays choose to lie down when encountering things. It is actually a kind of sadness. It is unwilling to find a way to get it. It just wants to have it while you are lying down, even if you can't have it in the end. This is actually a kind of sadness.
In this world, each of us hides the secret of human nature. We can understand human nature by knowing ourselves. Simply put, people who are transparent about human nature know how to reflect on themselves.
Writer Keigo Higashino once said:
"There are two things in the world that cannot be looked directly at, one is the sun and the other is the heart of the people. "
It seems that human nature is a sin, but in fact it is not. If human nature is regarded as a sin, it must be with a prejudicial vision.
Born as a human being, we must try our best to understand human nature. Only in this way can we not be sad when encountering things that are difficult for us to accept, we will face them with an objective perspective, and be calm in the complexity of society.
Being a cultured person can live a life that is clear
Many people will confuse culture and knowledge. In fact, people with knowledge may not be cultured, and people with culture may not have knowledge, because culture has two essential elements: one is tradition and the other is thinking.
Simply put, if you are a cultured person, you are in the spiritual tradition of human beings to think.
In the "Cultural", Zhou Guoping mentioned:
"Cultivation is the flower of life. Without the origin of life, culture is just an artificial bouquet. The dispute between Chinese and Western culture is just a dispute between silk flower and plastic flower ."
This sentence can be said to be particularly transparent in the interpretation of culture. If you are a cultured person, you will not be confused about life, because you know how to think, and people who are good at thinking are naturally wise people in life.
So what is a truly educated person? Zhou Guoping and Liang Xiaosheng have the same viewpoint. They think that truly educated people are first and educated people, and should have four qualities, just as Liang Xiaosheng said:
" is rooted in the inner cultivation; self-consciousness without reminders; freedom based on constraints; kindness for others. "
If you can do it, then you are naturally a cultured person and a person who lives a life of ease.
A netizen told his own story and felt deeply touched.
During the National Day holiday, he met a wandering singer while accompanying his mother shopping. After listening to a song, he walked over and threw five yuan change into the hat.
but Then, his mother's actions surprised him. She walked to the hat, squatted down slowly, gently put two coins into the hat, and nodded to the wandering singer with a smile.
nets lamented that she lost too much to her mother at this moment. Although her mother's education is lower than her, she is more educated than herself, as Bai Yansong said:
"Whether a person is educated does not depend on how high his education is. People with education do not necessarily have education; people with no education do not necessarily have education. "
People have been in their lives, and it is difficult to be a cultured person because it has very high requirements for a person. If you can strictly demand yourself and think rationally when encountering things, you may become a cultural person; but if you follow the crowd, don't think about things, and don't have high requirements for yourself, it is difficult to become a cultured person.
It is difficult for people to live as they expected in this life, because you never know what will happen in the next second. You may be proud of the last second, but you will fall into the trough of life in the next second.
Like a saying on the Internet:
"Things in the world will not be as good as they wish, and there will be no perfect ending for them. All we can do is to do our best to do our best. This is generally the case in the world, work hard without regrets, and have no regrets. ”
In the days ahead, I hope that you will adjust your mentality whether you are in good times or bad times, be prepared for danger in good times, and accumulate strength in bad times. If you do it, you will naturally live your life as you like, right?
